| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 6/30/2006 7:56:48 PM | campgurl
You are so true lol i agree with you and its true being a parent does NOT define any of us as a woman/man and being a woman/man does NOT define us as a parent were all different and we all do things different ways, than others and that should NOT matter/give someone right to tell us how run our lives.
And there are alot of men that will date women that have a kid/kids and alot of women who will date a man who has a kid/kids! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/1/2006 1:16:45 PM | Wow, I guess I'll just go and lock myself in the cloister. I'm not "marketable" enough. Funny, didn't realize I was trying to sell anything.
I think this thread is redundant. And sad!!!! I'm new to this site and these forums, but I must say that for a group of people who are "wookin pa nub" you guys are awfully *mean* to each other! Geez, if I wanted to argue with someone, I'd call my ex! 
One thing, though: I have seen a lot of references to "some other guy's kids". They're not some other guy's kids, they're MINE. I was adopted as an infant, and it's funny, but the fact that I was "some other guy's (and girl's!) kid" has never mattered to my parents.
Guess I'll just slink back into my hole of celibacy now... | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/1/2006 10:12:26 PM | YES!
I am in california. I welcome kids. As long as they are well mannered, well behaved.
I HATE moms that can't HANDLE the kids tho.
That is a huge turn off for this 52 yr dad of 4, with 4 G-kids.
If i could find a Mature (not so much in age, but as in thinking ablities) woman that would want more kids. Well here i am.
I MISS and love being a dad. I am a hands on dad, not one of those lazy dads that just come home and flop thier lazy ass on the couch.
Hey dads, when you get home, thats when life really starts, not when we go to work.
Gotta help the wife with the kids, dinner, cooking and so on. Drinking with the buddies can wait.
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/1/2006 10:43:29 PM | | I certainly have met men who want to date me, but any guy I date will not meet my child until I'm sure that the relationship is heading somewhere. My child comes first and if that means sacrificing the possibility of having a long term relationship, so be it, because I will sure as hell not sacrifice my child's happiness just to have a guy. Some guys take that personally. I have a good life on my own and unless I meet an emotionally and financially stable guy (with or without children of his own) who can actually contribute positively to my life and my child's life, I am fine with just friends or casual dating. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/2/2006 12:05:44 AM | | i can relate to this one. And they all seem to think that your looking for a free hand out or someone to take over all financial responsiblity for u and the kids. Very discouraging. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/2/2006 12:11:35 AM | | thank you ocean! EXactly, noone will be meeting my kids till i'm sure aobut hem and them about me. My kids are way to important to be waving strangers in and out of their lives, any guy i date is goign to have to be ok with coming in second to my kids as well....nothing like dating a guy who whines because your kids come before he does.............do the math dude, and then hit the road. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2006 2:22:40 AM | i like kids so i wouldnt have a problem at all. in fact i wouldnt mind if it were a baby i think it be awsome and a good way to start a relationship. of course im alot older but if i had a choice that be what i want to do. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2006 3:25:26 PM | Not all all women look for a guy to play daddy!!! I have a 9 months old. She has a father and I have my own money. It is a little hard for me to date. I get stuck with the guyz who want to make more kids!!!!!!! I am not spitting any more kids out!! I think it is very hard to find a guy who has kids but do not want any more!  | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/3/2006 5:28:08 AM | | well i dont want to date women with kids because, well there not my kids, so i dont see why i would want to take care of some other guys kids. i mean i dont hate kids, it just that id rather have my own kids, and if i did, i wouldnt be runnin away after that | |
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Posted: 7/3/2006 7:06:42 AM | | hiya my name is diane and i am 47 years old, i have two grown up kids aged 20 and 18 and one living with me a daughter aged 11, I agree i wouldn't be a single mother if there father was responsible also men think it is upto a women to look after the kids, and when things go wrong in a relationship the man walks off feeling hurt and gets on with his life, new partnerships, new home going to the pub telling everyone what an awful **** you are, whilst meanwhile the women is at home trying to bring the kids up, financially, and cannot get out as she has the kids. bills ect to take care of, so her life does not start until the kids are grown up, if she goes out and has a good time whilst the kids are young she is classed as a bad mother. So when she meets someone, if she does, your right the man runs a mile when kids are mentioned, however we cannot have kids on our own! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/3/2006 10:22:35 AM | As a man i feel disgraced at the fact that men don't want anything to do with a woman if she has kids. I have dated women that have had kids and i loved every minute of spending time with her and with her kids to the children loved the fact that i played with them and gave them the fatherly attention they we're starving for and got on to them when they we're bad. As a man that was lied to about a child on the way from a previous relationship with another woman and then find out that it was not to be because she never told me that she could never have kids again because of having herself fixed really hurt me deep because i wanted that baby bad but if i date a woman with kids already and she cannot have anymore i will treat her kid or kids as my own and if they decide to call me there dad because there father is not around then i will accept it and be the father figure that they starve for.
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/3/2006 1:17:51 PM | i don't mind women with kids i have some kids my self. mine are grown now. but when they were younger i did not bring home my dates to meet them because i did not want to expose my kids to my love sex life. yea the kids swore dad was a priest..lol
but my reason for this is because i've dated women with kids and then fell in love with the kids too. and when things didn't work out it was the kids who got hurt the most. i couldn't do that to any more kids.because it hurt me a lot to seeing them kids cry.
so then after i always told my dates from day 1 if we get serious and might be heading to the alter she then would become part of my kids lives too. and i also told her only time will tell don't be in a hurry. i laid my cards out on the table from day one. honesty is best. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/3/2006 3:25:45 PM | there rn't many of them, & y should there b? the way i c it, depending on ur age (teen mothers), y should a man grow up 2 fast 4 U?
there r exceptions. love fades, & marriages end. in these cases (usually the women are older, & can take care themselves neway), then a man should give them every chance in the world. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/3/2006 6:53:20 PM | I've dated a few women that have kids, I don't have a problem with kids at all, they are never the problem. It's the father that always seems to be the problem (in my experience). It's that extra crap that accompanies the relationship that seems to sour it. Who knows, maybe I am wrong.
(pats self on back, first forum post)
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/4/2006 12:41:34 AM | | Move to Canada! Sounds GREAT to me too... I think my profile (description section) is not being read...no action, I know i'm not too hot in the mug section, but a great guy all the way..... at least the ladies outside the U.S. seem to think so..! And kids, i love kids, big kids, little kids, asian, hispanic..boys, girls, they are all great! I guess thats why i am Godfather to 7 so far ! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/4/2006 9:38:09 PM | I think you speak only of the men that you have known...
Most men are not screwballs, and the only cherries they usually see
are on the top of the ice cream sundays they give their kids because
they are not dead beats
Maybe you're hangin in the wrong places...
just an observation...and I can only speak for myself
a single dad with the custody of his two kids | |
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