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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/28/2006 7:59:36 PM | | yes there are guys out there that will date a girl that has kids, i know i would, no problem, if u have kids thats great, its not like im gunna end up having one with that person sence she already got one, i will play with the kids and become one, | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/28/2006 8:08:40 PM | the reason y is that we dont want to have to take the resposibilty for someone else's kid (s)
if you couldnt make it work with your baby daddy then y with us we dont want to talk that chance of someone hurting us then have to move on we will be hurt not to see those kid(s) again that is one reason y we dont get involved | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/29/2006 5:40:50 PM | I am a single father of 2 teenage boys that live with me full time and I would love to date a woman who has kids because she knows what it is like to juggle children, work, housework, friends and family at the same time. I dont understand the big deal over having kids because that is one thing I look for when I approach a woman is I have to know that she loves kids and that she knows that my kids are part of a package deal and that is all there is too it. I hope you find what you are looking for and I hope we all find happiness and the person of our dreams.
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/29/2006 7:59:40 PM | | I would prefer to meet a woman with at least one kid or the desire to have another....I have two kids and it would be great playmates for my kids and also make a great family...Wayne | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/29/2006 11:46:52 PM | after
35 pages! of men posting that there are men who exist that will date
us women who have kids you would think that most of us women would
get the picture, that there are men out there today who DO date women
who have kids! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/30/2006 12:32:00 AM |  I agree as well, 35 pages of what I like to call the "Vicious Cycle..." I have raised my girl always. I am still great friends with her dad. He has moved on, yada, yada. I have dated a couple dads.....if you are extroverted and not too shy, they are not hard to miss. I believe that happiness will come to all of us single moms and dads.....one day....hate to say it, but I don't want to settle for just anything, and I haven't lived with anyone since my daughters dad....8 years ago.......Good luck to us all! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/31/2006 2:57:47 AM | Many men will date/marry a woman with kids. And vice-versa.
If both have kids, integrating the two families can be a real challenge. Namely because the kids have little choice in the matter. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/31/2006 7:52:41 AM | Hey look all you can do is keep your hopes up. I know from exsperince that if you stop looking then love will find you, mabe you should take the advice you get.. How many children do you have?
Truely Yours,
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/31/2006 10:59:41 AM | well i don't mind women with kids  but i find women are wary of a man taking an interest in her, and i supose they think you want one thing... like... single women+kids= easy catch... if you get my drift we're not all like that... so lady's still give us a chance | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/31/2006 11:09:35 AM | | chryslergirl if men tell u they dont hav a problem wit datin a women wit kids then they dont its jus throwin the kids on them is wat makes it a problem at a fast pace. Maybe they r scared especially the ones who dont have kids some people jus dont know how to bond as others. like if it was reversed a men wit kids. why would yo girls show that much affection to a guy u jus met i would be scared too. but of course if they said hi and was friendly. be careful about that attachment thing cause it might end up n the hands of a sexual predator. maybe its a good thing u run into guys who do pull back. Maybe its a wake up call for u to open yo eyes to a situation that u might regret later. teach your daughters to not show to much affection to people they hardly know and u learn from it too. Stop forcin yo daughters on men, and learn how to check yo daughters. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/31/2006 11:22:25 AM | chryslergirl if a men tell u that they dont have a problem wit dating a women wit kids then they dont, its when a women force her kids on them at a fast pace is wat makes it a problem.
Of course a men is going to get scared especially for those who r single guys wit no kids. like if it was reversed a men wit kids. when a men isnt that affectionate wit your girls is because yo girls r makin him feel uncomfortable no way should they be showing that much affection to a guy u jus met hes a stranger. u should be glad u ran into a good guy. now if they said hi in a friendly manner thats a different story. Why r u getting up set because the guy is not showing affection to yo girls bac. Maybe its a wake up call for u to open your eyes. because the next guy could be a sexual predator. U need to pump your brakes and protect your daughters u need to check your self and your daughters and give them a lesson on how to behave to strangers, before u have aproblem that can scare u and your daughters for life. what is it u dont get a problem thats waitin to happen r someone who dont want to bond wit your children at a faster pace then u. | |
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Posted: 7/31/2006 11:24:41 AM | chryslergirl if a men tell u that they dont have a problem wit dating a women wit kids then they dont, its when a women force her kids on them at a fast pace is wat makes it a problem.
Of course a men is going to get scared especially for those who r single guys wit no kids. like if it was reversed a men wit kids. when a men isnt that affectionate wit your girls is because yo girls r makin him feel uncomfortable no way should they be showing that much affection to a guy u jus met hes a stranger. u should be glad u ran into a good guy. now if they said hi in a friendly manner thats a different story. Why r u getting up set because the guy is not showing affection to yo girls bac. Maybe its a wake up call for u to open your eyes. because the next guy could be a sexual predator. U need to pump your brakes and protect your daughters u need to check your self and your daughters and give them a lesson on how to behave to strangers, before u have aproblem that can scare u and your daughters for life. what is it u dont get a problem thats waitin to happen r someone who dont want to bond wit your children at a faster pace then u. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/31/2006 2:22:59 PM | | Dating women with kids is fine BUT I have philosophical problems with it. Do they have exclusive custody of the kids? If so why? Are they denying shared custody in order to collect child support? This is what happened to me and the situation is rampant among my friends. I won't date women who have this situation. The one-household-stability argument doesn't hold water. Kids need their dad and dad needs to be with his kids and he needs to keep his money to do it. Moms get off your butts and work and cooperate with your exes. A better life can be had by all if you weren't so self-righteous. Child support has become a religion, a sacred cow which is ruining families and kids. (My argument is null and void in situations of abuse.) | |
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Posted: 7/31/2006 3:55:36 PM | Sympathise but there are some variables.
In the uk they are abondoning the government child support Agency and closing it -in the main because they could extract the money from the other parent-male or female-with any sucess while it was costing the taxpayer millions to run it. I wonder why they weren't more sucessful in getting partners to part with their cash for their responsibilities?
Have you tried being a working parent--re get of your butt--I do it all the time--it is not my prefered way of having an income to bring up my children but unfortunately my wife didn't choose to leave me or divorce me -she died but she didn't choose to do that either. If I had left her yes my friend i would have willingly paid to make both her and my childrens lives easier--especially now I know whats involved.
Pensions, are taxed to the hilt here so you should hope-whoever you are -- that your partner doesn't die because they will still take a chunk from your pension in tax--oh child maintanance here, earned in the same way that pensions are--is non taxable.
Widowhood, if you are lucky enough that your partner has left a heavty pension to look after you (and you are still solvent after the tax deductions) when they have gone and you are still going, don't co-habit or remmarry because your new love will automatically cancel your nice pension--so widows(ers) who are finacially secure will always be lonely and single --
what a life.
I hope I am not offending but those of you who are LUCKY to be DIVORCED need to sort yourselves out--when your partner dies the decisions will all be made by various bits of governments to make sure there is no chance that you will ever fully recover, take a partner or get married without serious financial implications.
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 8/1/2006 8:14:35 AM | | I would like to say that I have dated women with kids and I have no problems with them having kids at all. Most men who date women who have kids, when they have no children, aren't affraid of getting into the relationship but are unsure of how to treat the kids. Single parents often don't want thier new boyfriend to "help" with getting the kids to behave. They have their own ideals of how to raise thier children and I find that even with the woman I'm dating now who has a 9 year old son, it is better to be his friend then try and be a role model because his mom doesn't want me to be a "father figure". This puts us men who date single parents on the sidelines. My current girlfriend is comming around and allowing me to play more of the father figure. Don't get me wrong her son is well behaved and usually there is no problem with telling him "don't do that your going to get hurt" or "let us know where your going". Basiclly if you want to date a man and you have kids try to involve them more with your role as a parent so that they don't feel like a outsider when you have to take control of your children because they do something wrong. And let them know you have kids right away and introduce them to your kids as soon as possible. Most guys who date parents what to know what the whole package comes with. If you have little kids that don't listen and are very active then it will be harder for you to find a guy who is willing to give it a try. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 8/1/2006 8:51:19 AM | | Sure we are out here, men have the same problems. I'm a single father of two kids a teenage son and a pre-teen daughter. Try to find a lady in Vancouver willing to go out with a single father of two is not an easy task. If you know of any ladies looking for single fathers I'd love to know where they hide. | |
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ChutzPah_78 very well put i agree with you on that and good luck to you on whatever it is that you are searching for or wanting. 
