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Posted: 11/2/2005 8:57:53 AM | | Because there is a CAS court order he is aloud from what our worker told me and a couple of other people. besides its only 1 day a week every other week, so he gets 5 days of work in one week and the next he only gets 4, whats the problem with that?? CAS doesnt do access ont he weekends and if they do ur lucky to get it. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 11/2/2005 9:00:38 AM | | Too add to another comment i left earlier, my ex would come home drunk after being gone for more then 14 hours and expect me to let him look after our not even 4 month old daughter. Is that someone you should stay with?? | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 11/2/2005 10:08:46 AM | | onehotmomma4u...hats off to you for leaving that jerk!! I've been in the exact situation...You will find someone that will love both of you for who you are, sometimes it takes awhile but inthe end it will be worth the wait! | |
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Posted: 11/2/2005 10:35:23 AM | Thank you, i posted yesterday that i've been with a guy for jsut over 3 months now and he is known as "dada" and his father is "papa" my ex, also has a 6 yr old son who he never sees either. I know my daughter is missin out on by not being around her biological father even with the crap he did to her and me, but she has a dada who loves both of us, and is always there for her and me. All i said was i wished everyone luck in finding someone like the one i have but some people took it the wrong way. i was jsut giving a lil history onmy past with my daughter and how things turned out for me. I didnt mean to offend anyone. Thanks again | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 11/2/2005 2:44:41 PM | lol onehotmomma4u im not comin down on you im just sayin that you cant just take time off work thats all,weekends i can see him begin there. i was goin to comment on tha new b/f being call dada but that off topic. NOT ALL DADS R DEAD BEATS! ty | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 11/2/2005 4:12:22 PM | | Its good to know that there are men out there that date women with children, I have been single for 2 years I have a 16 year old and a 22 month old, I have met a lot of men out there that are looking for a little bit of fun on the side if you know what I mean, they don't usually show to much compassion for your kids in the end. To bad there isn't any men like that in Barrie | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 11/2/2005 8:42:27 PM | well what I would actually like to know is if there are any women at all on here with or without kids that would like to date.
most dont respond to any sort of attempt to say hi.........all the ladies are looking for a stable guy with no baggage good job not into drugs likes kids..............well ditto here!!!
why dont people take a chance | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 11/2/2005 9:20:06 PM | This happens on both aspects. There are women out there who will not date men with kids.
If the general consensus will only stop and realize, The kids of the significant other have a mother and father, but need a friend, things would be simpler.
In todays society, though processes are taken to a higher level. A rather unhealthy level.
If we could all keep the thinking down to the simple this question would not be asked. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 11/3/2005 2:38:08 AM | Women date men with kids?
I have two great kids that live with there mom and I would do anything for.
But it seems once they find out I have kids they no longer want to talk.
I have heard women talk about guys that do that but there are women that do that too.
It shouldnt matter to anyone if they have kids really,I mean if you like her and she tells you that she has a child are you going to stop?Or are you going to be a lucky man and get to share in that childs life?Same goes for women. | |
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Posted: 11/3/2005 5:46:57 AM | I would love to share anthor mans chidren with him if he was willing to except mine, however I have dated a few men young and older who just aren't interested in doing the baby thing I have a 22 month old, I think sometimes that throws men off as they don't want to go threw that stage again. I look at I did it after 15 years so it should be ok for someone else to do it.
I am not looking for a father for my kids they allready have a father I am looking for someone to hang out with and have a good time, I just come as a package thats all. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 11/3/2005 10:18:12 AM | Its quite a coincidens (sp?) that you posted this question.. I actually just got custodey of my beautiful 7 year old little girl, about 2 months ago, due to problems that her mother is having in her current relationship.. and I've recently been wondering the same thing in reverse.. if i look at it from before i had little moma living with me, sure I dated women with children all the time.. its all good.. but just like a couple of the single dads posted earlier, whenever i go to the mall or just out and about, and get looked at by an a woman that i would normaly be attracted to, they quickly turn when they see me holding little moma's hand and doing the dad thing most likely because they assume that i have a significant other right off the bat!! kinda bugged out phenomenon actually !! lol.. so my question is, where are all you women that like men with kids located?  | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 11/3/2005 12:06:44 PM | | long_flaco1 were out here...i have my boys and its hard to find a nice guy to date without them thinking of only one thing. Oh and from my comment before, about deadbeat dads that walkout, if a guy can walk out on their own flesh and blood then they are sick in the head, that goes the same for a girl that can walk out on the guy and leave him raise the child all by himself, with no support at all!! I don't know how they can go on with their lives knowing that have done that to a child so helpless.... | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 11/3/2005 1:07:59 PM | | i find there are lots of men who will "date" a single mom , but i still am looking for one who woudl have a relationship with one !! anyoone know where those men are .. let me know .....k ? | |
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Posted: 11/3/2005 2:34:46 PM | do men actually exist that date women with kids??
LOL! Yes there are! A little over 15 years ago I married my ex who had two children at the time. Problems developed within a few years and got worse over the years until we separated last June after 15 years and one month of marriage. Ironically enough it was only a year after the second child moved out that she followed suit. Nope, she wasn't waiting for that to happen, just an ironic coincidence.
Now I'm home with our 12 year old and wouldn't have it any other way. Just looking for someone to take the risk that I took long ago. And this time I hope it lasts a lifetime. | |
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Posted: 11/3/2005 4:28:59 PM | | she started it all on her own then we started encouragin it after about the 3rd week, its her way of gettin his attention and has linked that word to him. he is more a father figure then her biological. If i dont have the money for something hes right there gettin it. my ex her bio-father owes me child support from July 1st and i have yet to recieve a cent. he would rather buy expensive clothes and spend it on his new gf and crack. I know this becuase i talk to his landlord because his landlord happens to be my friends babies dad and we get along. theres to much into this story its like a soap opera | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 11/3/2005 6:33:15 PM | This subject disgusts me - I hate those who refuse to acknowledge/support their children. On the other hand I was more than glad to make my stepchildren my own.
One of the bitterest days of my life was when I when and my then wife did our best to give my stepdaughter a fine birthday. We were short on cash but not poor and did well by her. But her sperm doner (otherwise known as biological father) showed up at the door (first time in years!) He then produced an extremely fine bicycle that we could not afford to give my stepdaughter (nevermind he had never paid his child support). I chose to take a 30 minute walk - other option was ... well ... a bit more primitive.
Sorry, just blowing off steam here. I hate deadbeat dads and have a solution for this problem which, unfortunately, our society won't support (involving rendering them incapable of reproduction.)
Meanwhile I'm happy living with my 12 year old son. Don't need child support and wouldn't try to bankrupt my ex (and it would) by demanding it. She loves him and it's critical to support that relationship for all of us. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 11/3/2005 7:25:47 PM | | I think if we are all just upfront about our having children then people that dont mind kids will come to us...ive had many men talking to me and they see right on my profile that i have kids..i would never put a pic up on this site of my kids because of all the weirdos but i do have it stated in my profile so there arent any surprises. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 11/3/2005 8:44:29 PM | It is the same for men as I have said before.
I talk to women and as soon as they found out I have kids they run.
Fine they dont live with me but they are my life and nothing will change that.
If you cant be with some one you like/care about do to the fact they have kids then that person is shallow and needs to move on. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 11/3/2005 9:02:10 PM | I realize thats not what this topic is about and I apologize its just what I read that caught me off guard...........then again its not about deabeat dads and/or child support either | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 11/4/2005 2:49:48 AM | I agree......we are all individuals as well as our roles as parents, and children......people sometimes assume they are being asked to step into a role you haven't asked them to? .......that's where the confusion is!!!
i need a partner not a father to my child........luckily not all single people feel that way!
you just have to hold out for someone who's not blinkered. | |
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