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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 9/14/2006 9:22:13 AM | Personally, I really think that they do exist its just very hard @ times to find them......always be up front about your children ....... I think that chating with men that have children is good they seem to have more of an understanding to women with children and if they don't well........
Say Bye cause they aren't worth it....
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 9/14/2006 12:21:11 PM | | Believe it or not there are, I have a son and would love to meet a woman with a child. It's hard at times but I know one day I will meet someone. I agree be upfront with a person and if they don't like the fact you have kids then they are not the one for you. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 9/14/2006 12:23:46 PM | | well i,m a grandmother ,bringing up my 6yr old grandaughter, and i have a problem meeting a man,they seem to disappear soon as i mention her,i think somtimes, men think there past bringing kids up, but i would not mind dating a man who has children | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 9/15/2006 7:33:08 PM | | I must say that I am not currently dating anyone though I have been wondering the same thing. I have a special needs child, and feel that just this fact alone will be too much for someone to handle... It really is too early to tell as I am not looking yet,but it is still a worry, let's face it . Even if we say as women that we don't want anyone to take care of us or come in and be our childs dad or we will move along we still wonder. I think it is just a natural reaction, to want someone in our lives. But let's remember who came into our lives first! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 9/16/2006 6:01:09 AM | This is a great topic because women say they can't find a man who will date them because of their children. Guess what ladies yes there are men who run when you say you have kids. This is because a lot of men don't have kids of their own. Why would I, as a man, want to get into a relationship with someone who has been in that seriously comitted relationship and started a family already. As a 29 year old man with no kids, I do not want to settle down yet, so I tend to stay away from women with kids. Not because they have children ( I love kids ) but because I don't want to play second fiddle in a relationship. If I want to pack up and go away spur of the moment, I want to be with someone who I can take along with me. Not someone who has to arrange babysitters, or pack for 3 people. Another thing I have noticed is a lot of single mothers are man haters anyway because they are dealing with dead beat dads. This makes it very hard sometimes impossible to break through all that and meet the real you. Why waste my time?? I am sure you are a very nice person but I don't need those headaches.
Now after saying all that. If I want to have kids in MY life I have to date single mom's and yes sometimes I do. Some of us men can not have kids of our own so that leaves us dating people with kids already. So I hope some of this can clarify what the original question was. lmao | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 9/16/2006 6:46:15 AM | | Yep we do, I've took on an 8 n 4 yr old boys wit my new partner and ive never been happier!! they fill apart of my life i never knew before!! even though they are not my own and yes it can be hard and hurt at times!! Yet its something i will never regret as they are part of my life now. so to all u men dont just not be uninterested cause a lady has kids as they bring a new dimension to your life!!!! one you will never regret when you get to know them!! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 9/16/2006 12:21:02 PM | Yes, they DEFINATELY exist... I myself was the son of a single mother, along with my brother... and the guy who I now call "Dad" didn't come into the picture until we were 8 and 2, respectively.
I, also for one have dated two girls who had kids (I know, people who look at my age will be shocked... but they had kids early, one was 16 (I was 18) and the other was 19) So some guys out there, myself included, aren't scared away by things like that... I personally feel, sometimes, MORE attracted to a woman because of her being a single parent, because it shows a degree of responsibility and level-headedness which I think is a very important trait.
Hold onto your hopes, there ARE guys out there. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 9/16/2006 1:14:04 PM | just to say i am divorced with 2 kids and i have met a woman with 6 kids (yes i said 6), and i am as happy as a pig in shit excuse the term, i am not her kids dad nor is she my kids mom and we all get along just fine, its still early days i suppose but fingers crossed it will continue.
so to answer the question "YES"
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 9/16/2006 9:53:48 PM | | Just to add that being a divorced father with kids and dating a women with kids, i think its very attractive and i'd be honored to date someone with kids. Its been said that men don't date women with kids, and men that have. To be honest, i think that its a two sided story, do women date men with kids? If its meant to be, its meant to be. But there are men out there who don't and me who do. I think the majority of men do date women with kids. Being honest up front is the very best policy. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 9/17/2006 8:20:17 AM | Well I can not speak for anyone but myself.... Yes whether a woman has children or not has no bearing on my thoughts on dating her. It has to do with common interests,compatability and if we enjoy our time together. That is how I see It!
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 9/17/2006 9:26:11 AM | the question , isn't are these people out there,
the question should be are any of these people living
close to me , my town, my naborhood , thats what
we really want to know the people exist on both
side s of this coin, just gotta narrow it down a little | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 9/17/2006 11:29:20 AM | Hmmmm, I have never had a relationship that produced kids, so I am looking for a younger woman that has little one's -- a baby would be nice. I've rocked other people's kids; I even taught one to walk and talk that was rejected by his mom at birth. I enjoyed one relationship with older kids -- we all had a blast. But then I had one relationship whose kids hated the interference with any time taken from them with their mom. That daughter -- 14 at the time, would be real nice to me and help cook a meal or do housework with me if I got there before the mom got home and wanted to surprise her. But when she came home, the teenager's head spun around 5 times and one time she even came at me with a fork. Consequently, no kids means I've missed a ton and sometimes feel like my life is being wasted. You can have money out the wazoo, but there is nothing better than feeling the breath of a baby that is sleeping on your shoulder. I'm just a tad over 50, was just told I look about 35 -- no dentures or hair plugs, and would love to meet a younger woman with even just one offspring, and a dog, a cat, or anything other wildlife. Just no forking with a teenager. (pun intended) | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 9/18/2006 3:27:12 PM | | Yes some of us do not mind someone with kids at all, but a lot of women I have found won't date you if you have no kids. For some odd reason the thinking is if we have no kids, then we must not be good with kids. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 9/18/2006 3:59:08 PM | Yea. There are some of us out here. in todays day in age, there are a lot of women with kids, and no hubby, and vice versa. The reasons...?? we won't get into that today. conscientious men realize that if they want to find a good woman, (hopefully they like kids) and recognizes that she may be right there in front of him; she may just happen to have kids. for myself, it doesn't matter.
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 9/19/2006 4:24:53 AM | | I am a single parent of 16 yrs. now. Finally got my son raised,and thought "well it time for me!" But have realized that I still have much love and guidance to give! Id love to find the "Right" one to help raise her kids! To answer your question-yes they exist,and theres one in Springdale Ar. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 9/20/2006 6:25:34 AM | | I'd date a man with kids, but am not interested in a man with kids who's ages are younger than my own. I'm looking forward to the last 4 years of high school for my youngest and having both my kids move on with their lives and out of my house. I had my kids young for a reason - so I wouldn't be old by the time they were fully grown and would still have plenty of energy left to do some of the things I wish to do in my life without kids! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 9/21/2006 6:50:46 PM | | @ msg 1019. I know what you are saying, seems strange that it is ok for an older lady to look for the young guys, but when we look for a younger lady, to maybe even have a child with, we are crazy, not sure why | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 9/21/2006 8:32:58 PM | | Hi...in this day and age it expected for both parties to have children. As long as both parties are excepting and will work with the kids(while they adjust), things should work out. I have 2 children and they both wish I would date more( they really are a blessing or they want me out of thir hair...lol). Either way, you have to think of yourself, your partner and your children. Dating with children is common place with both genders now a days and should be easier to deal with. | |
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