| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/1/2006 3:05:34 PM | The question in my mind is when it comes to dating women with a kid is "will I have to compete for the kid's attention/affection ?"
Basically seeing a woman with kid/s, is a slight automatic scare. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/1/2006 5:48:33 PM | I do believe there are men out there that do date women with kids, I have just found it to be somewhat easier if the man has kids of his own. If they already have kids then they know that you have the responsibility of raising that child and that you will make time for him also. If the man doesn't have children then he tends to think he has to compete for your attention and your time. There is tention between the kid and the boyfriend, and that makes things hard to deal with.
So I still say yes, but they are hard to find. So good luck and keep fishing!! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/3/2006 4:12:21 PM | i do not mind a woman with kids becuse in all honesty its more fun at tmes because you get to bond more with every one and it will tell you if he is going to be good for the long haul and trust me i been with women and all of them had kids but had too much baggage and i think that is why some men will not date a woman with kids.
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/3/2006 9:37:17 PM | absolutely.
i once made the mistake of introducing my kids to a guy i dated briefly. they loved him and still ask about him now, over a year later. my new rule is i don't let my kids meet anyone. as far as they know, when i go out, it's to the library to do homework...(geez! it's like being in high school all over again except i'm lying to my kids, not my parents) | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/4/2006 4:40:48 AM |
absolutely.
i once made the mistake of introducing my kids to a guy i dated briefly. they loved him and still ask about him now, over a year later. my new rule is i don't let my kids meet anyone. as far as they know, when i go out, it's to the library to do homework...(geez! it's like being in high school all over again except i'm lying to my kids, not my parents)
I can definitely relate to that comment.....Mine think I am headed to a meeting (work related meeting)....That is what I always say...Sometimes, it is funny when I return 25 minutes later....as they expected me to be gone for hours.....Some "meetings" are just not meant to last more than 10 minutes! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/4/2006 6:28:35 AM | yes we do but we are a dieing breed i love kids but i also have 3 kids that i take care of full time.but i thinkso men are just not all grown up women with kids its a plus to me at least beacuse ur getting the whole package just no part of one.yeah it can be hard at time be
acuse we all dont see eye to eye but thats what life about im alway up for a challage thats for taking the time and reading what i have to say thanks rob | |
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| how do i find someone that likes single parent with one child
Posted: 10/4/2006 9:44:13 AM | | I have been on my own now for the last 7 years and i find it very hard to find someone that would take me and my little girl on as when i say i have a child they dont seam to like the idea is there a problem with a bloke being a single parent | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/4/2006 1:43:00 PM |  --There are Men around. Speaking of myself today--can't speak of any other Man. I have 2 small children I take care of. But when I met my childrens mom--I was childless. I dated at least 90% women with kids. I spent time with them as well.
Then there were the Women who was a bit turned upside down. It was said to me twice--"You love my kids more than me". How does a Mom compete for Love with her own kids?
But I will date a single Mom first over any single Woman....There are many reasons--but I will save that for later--ask me  | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/4/2006 8:56:58 PM | | WHAT ARE YALL TALKING ABOUT EVERY SINGLE WOMAN I HAVE DATED HAD KIDS SOME HAD AS MANY AS 4 THE MAGIC NUMBER WAS 3 KID I DON'T MIND DATING WOMEN WITH KID IT CAN BE FUN IF YOU LET IT | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/4/2006 9:00:54 PM | | I NEVER LET MY LITTLE MEET A LADY UNLESS IT REAL SERIOUS LIKE GETTING KIND OF SERIOUS I WAS DIVORICE FOR 5 YEARS MEET A WOMAN DATED A YEAR STAY MARRIED 11 MONTH GO FIGURE MY LITTLE SHE LOVED THE OTHE KIDS AND THE NEW STEP MOM NOW SHE WILL NEVER SEE THEM AGAIN NOR WILL I EVER GET TO SEE HER KIDS AND I GOT ATTACTED TO THEM AS WELL | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/10/2006 2:50:20 PM | | yes they do exist lam oneof them l dated a women with 2 daughters we had twin boys together l now have custody of the boys an her 2 daughters we all live in a nice little house an have rules an responsiblities some people thought l wuz nuts but we all love each other an get along so we are out there but the women my age turn the other way when you metion twin boys 4years old 14, 17, old girls | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/10/2006 3:42:38 PM | Uhmm... well I have two somewhat grown up kids, they are no problem and I never take them out with me when I meet a guy, I am up front with that matter, if he likes it and doesnt mind fine if he doesnt then move on but dont be rude about it. There are a few men out there that dont mind the women having her own kids .....but then again theres plenty of buttholes whom see that as a disease of some sort, you probably will get a disease by doing any chic with out kids anyways, Dudes your only dating and hanging out its not like youre going to marry her and if you did you should accept the woman for her and her little packages....... Kudos for the guys that are very understanding, and give us single parents a chance to hang out and have fun with them. After all we are mothers and we are human too damn it!! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/10/2006 4:58:23 PM | | As for me I would love to date a woman that has kids as I am a single father of two young boys and have been so for eight years but there seems to be a double standard in society when it comes to single moms and single dads. single moms are more accepted as the norm today but single dads have a stigma of that they must of had all the money in the divorce and that is how they got the children not that they were the better of two evils. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/10/2006 7:39:07 PM | Illuminating forum guys,, for those interested,,,,I have no problem dating men with children. I only discriminate against men with nut jobs for ex-wives. *grin* I also have never had a problem getting a date because of my two children  . Lets hope that that trend continues! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/10/2006 9:45:36 PM | | Oh we deffinatly exist. We just have to click on a different note than if you didn't have kids. Kids ARE intimidating to say the least, but if we get along with the kids as well as you ... there shouldn't be any problem. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/11/2006 11:24:58 AM | I ALSO HAVE A 11 AND 16 YEAR OLD. IS GOOD TO TRY TO FIND SOMEONE WITH KIDS NEAR THE SAME AGE, THAT WAY YOU HAVE SOMETHING IN COMMON AND THE GUY DOESNT USE YOU IF HE HAS NO KIDS. DONT BRING HIM AROUND YOUR KIDS AT THE START IN CASE IT DOESNT WORK OUT. YOUR KIDS ARE WATCHING YOU AND THEY LEARN QUICKLY. THIS WAY THE KIDS DONT END UP LIKE YOU OR ME GETTING A DIVORSE. TAKE YOUR TIME THAT SPECIAL PERSON IS OUT THERE. DONT RUSH INTO ANY RELATIONSHIP. LOOK FOR FRIENDS FIRST AND HAVE A LOT OF FRIENDS ONE WILL STEP UP AND THEN IT WILL BE NATURAL. IF YOU FIND SOMEONE THATS 75% OF WHATS YOUR LOOKING FOR GRAB IT. COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY. HOPE THIS HELPS. AS ALWAYS ANDREW  | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/11/2006 12:11:57 PM | | those are not men that run at the site of kids. some people in general have a set idea of what they want here on this site. I have a child that lives with his mother. I look at the person and honesty is crucial. those so called men if there were children mentioned in the profile should not have responded if that was not what they were after. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/11/2006 2:03:50 PM | | I can safely say that that guys do date women with kids, cos I've been there myself a few times but it's not always a one way street tho! i once had a girl tell me that I had better not have kids cos she'd be off in a flash if I did! But if a guy doesn't want to date you and is honest about it for that reason, then are you not better off knowing first off, than hiding it (as some people do) then dropping it on them later on? | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/11/2006 3:08:21 PM | yeah they exist-- but there usually the bottom suckers.. the ones that think ur easy and u'll put out easy-- and the ones that expect u to take care of them like ur kid-- hahaha
and most of us with kids r not trying to sucker money or a new daddy out of anybody--
i resent that remark, I personally just want to find a someone to love, and share all I have to offer.. Which does include two beautiful kids....
dont get me wrong im sure there r some nice ones, i just havent met many yet
now a days, man are to pig headed and obsessed with their penis to consider anything else.. Sad world we live in..... and its just getting worse | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/11/2006 3:08:38 PM | yeah they exist-- but there usually the bottom suckers.. the ones that think ur easy and u'll put out easy-- and the ones that expect u to take care of them like ur kid-- hahaha
and most of us with kids r not trying to sucker money or a new daddy out of anybody--
i resent that remark, I personally just want to find a someone to love, and share all I have to offer.. Which does include two beautiful kids....
dont get me wrong im sure there r some nice ones, i just havent met many yet
now a days, man are to pig headed and obsessed with their penis to consider anything else.. Sad world we live in..... and its just getting worse | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 10/11/2006 8:42:32 PM | | Actually I prefer to find a woman with kids, I just recently broke up with wonderful person who had 3 children, 14,12 and a 18 month old. Ilove kids, I have 2 myself. | |
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