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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 12/25/2006 1:55:54 PM | We do exist ,,
We do love women with kid's or I do anyway , I married a women with two son's age's 2 and 4 , we had two more son's together then went through a devorce , I ended up with the two boy's that I helped bring into this world , I"ve been a single dad now for 15 year's , I met a women four year's ago who has 3 kid's at the age's of 15-18-21 and we are very happy together ,
I met her online she's in PEI and I'm in NFLD , so we have a distance between us we travel back and forth every 3 month's , I go to visit her for two or three week's then in 3 months she will visit me , her son came to live with me for a full year too go to school here , her oldest daughter is in st john's going to memorial she is always dropping bye for a few day's during break , I enjoy my time with them all , like I said it's been four year's now and we love each other as much as day one ,
Behavour of our kid's as alot to do with it , I dated a women that I really started to care about , but I just could'nt put up with her children and the lack of respect that they had for her , it's wasn't no trouble for her 3 year old daughter to tell her to F--k OFF or her teenage son to throw her across the floor , and she'd walk away from it , not a word except ( you little **stard ) Who want's it ,,, not me ,
Iv'e visited women's home's where i had to push things away with my feet to get in then only to notice that the dishes hasnt been done in four or five day's a dirty pamper kicked in the corner laundry hanging out the bedroom door's,
Who want's it
not me ,
I've dated women with spottless homes and religious up bringing but that was'nt my life style ,
There are so many different aspsects to look at with people and kid's ,
so many little surprise's that sneak out later ,
We are out here
single men , single dad's that would love and be happy to spend a lifetime with single mom's
I looked for a mate for 11 year's and I found her ,she found me , we're happy ,
I'm not trying to put anyone down with my comment so please don't take anything the wrong way , I'm just saying that there is someone out there for all the women and men it all depend's on what lifestyle you live or willing to put up with ,,
good luck everyone ,
someone will come along ,,, | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 12/25/2006 2:11:49 PM | Well I'm a Single dad with 2 kids, my 15yr old son lives with the ex and my 13yr old daughter lives with me full time; I have no problem dating someone with children, but what I find really hard is a woman willing to date me; with me having my daughter living with me full time. as my daughter doesn't visit or even talk to her mother. very long long story behind that which I'm not going in to.
But I do find it almost Impossilbe trying to find a woman that would accept, my life the way it is. trust me I'm in no hurry and I'm not one for just jumping in to bed with any woman that comes along nore am I after casual sex. that's just not me. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 12/25/2006 2:35:31 PM | | Yes, As a matter of fact we do, when I consider my age 43, & not having any children of my own, the women that I am attracted to have kids, thats normal, the age range of say 30 to the mid 40's, but you must be willing to, as they say,"we are a package deal", an instant family type, If you want that type of relationship. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 12/25/2006 5:23:23 PM | I haven't nearly read this entire thread but some of the guys who have placed this limit on themselves, single parents just need to accept.
No offense I don't want a guy in my life that is this shallow. I am a teacher and quite capable of supporting myself, all I am looking for is a partner. If one never comes around, I still have my friends and family. It is ok to be single. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 12/25/2006 9:09:54 PM | Absolutely!! Some of us LOVE children and find that children are attracted to that as well.
I recently met someone with 4 children and they are all great!! It's very noble and precious what kind of mom she obviously is for her heart shines through them.
They like me too and upon the 1st meeting there was no pressure or stand-offishness of any kind from either side. They adapted to me and treated me like I was family from the start and that's ranging from almost 3 to 18 yrs of age.
Great family!! 
God Bless
Scott | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 12/26/2006 2:28:37 PM | | I'm in the same boat as that guy further up the page..... Guys are used to dating women with kids - the boot being on the other foot is something comparitively new for women and they're not used to it. They expect blokes to be at their beck and call and fit in with their arrangements, but from my experiences can't cope with being 2nd on the priority list behind our kids. I have an 11 yr old son living with me and hold down 2 jobs to make ends meet. Arranging a date is a logistical nightmare... How about women cutting us blokes some slack... not all blokes are the same! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 12/27/2006 11:55:01 PM | of course men exist with women with kids. I know women with out kids have that same problem. I have kids and never had a problem with men approaching me and askin for a relationships long term and short I dont know i guess u r the problem, wat do u think. but never give up its one left out there | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 12/28/2006 12:05:42 AM | | I wish I knew...I keep meeting men that don't have children and the one that I did meet (not off here but through a friend, had BIG issues) needless to say that didn't go anywhere. I keep thinking that, the men without kids that would go out with a woman with kids, are no where to be found but I do know a few people that have successful relationships of this combination, I just keep wondering when can it happen to me. Even if I was to meet a man with out children and we really hit if, off there is still the problem of hitting it off with my son, and I think the man really taking the effort to include and make the child feel good helps alot as the ones that I have met haven't done that. Just my thoughts for what I have experienced so far. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 12/28/2006 3:28:06 PM | Well I'm 25, so dating a woman with teenage kids might be kind of strange for me.
But my first girlfriend was a single mother, and even though the relationship ended badly, and I don't get to see her or her son anymore, I'd do it all over again.
Being a part of her son's life was a privilege, not a burden. At least that's how I view it now. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 12/28/2006 3:40:09 PM | truth be told, im absolutely terrified of allowing men in my life to get 'involved' or close with my kids.. almost 3 yrs and ive still yet to introduce one
just havent found one that i let stick around long enough or worthy.. selfish i know, sorry | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 12/29/2006 3:14:13 AM | | Hello there i am 32 male and yes i would date a women with children. I have 2 myself boy and girl. I have custody of my daughter and in the process of getting custody of my son. To answer the question yes there are some of us men that don't mind dating women with children. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 12/29/2006 10:46:59 AM | If you are up front with a man about your children then it's their choice if they want to date you..... But if you wait till weeks, months etc... to mention you have children of course they are probably gonna be upset.... Be open tell men right from day one, if they don't like it oh well not meant to be!!! You want a man who will be good to your kids anyway... So like it or leave it is my theory!!! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 12/31/2006 5:43:42 PM | well i can say i'm one nice guy who would'nt mind a women with kids,i'm a gentleman,treat a lady with respect.basically everything a women would want,and i am willing to accept her children as well.my question is why do women with kids push guys like myself away?they say there looking for this but i'm finding out through this site what ever a women says she wants just reverse it and you know what she really wants.sorry ladies i know all of you are'nt like that but until one of you proves me wrong i'm still searching.   | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 12/31/2006 9:23:22 PM | I prefer to date women with children, partially because I love kids and have three myself, but I dated mostly women with children before I had any. A good mom usually makes a good girlfriend, she's caring, listens and knows what love is and how to show it. They are also less materialistic in general and have their priorities more in order. I love mommies! Keep the messages coming!
Joel | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 12/31/2006 9:34:24 PM | | In many instances I would prefer to date a woman with a child or more because at least she will understand why I feel that my kids always come first and why I cannot just go out on the spur of the moment or every night. A woman with kids understands me and my situation ( single father of 2 teenaged boys) a lot better than a woman without kids from my lifes experiance. I find that most women in my dating age group do have kids and that is not a problem for me at all. Then again I really love kids and you can tell alot about a person by how they act around their kids and yourss. It is a telling insight in many cases. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 1/4/2007 7:42:10 PM | We are out here too Phantum...Men who have kids are fabulous. While there are those women out there who will not date men with kids...I think that men who take care of their children are the most wonderful men on the planet. It shows character and responsibility. So Kudos to you Phantum.
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 1/4/2007 9:25:56 PM | I don't think the kids age matters much, or even whether or not you have children. I think it is all in your attitude and approach to dating, and life in general. Here is my blurb:
Well, I've a double whammie on the finding time to date thing. I have an 18 month old son, and I own and operate a construction company. Both are 24/7 occupations. Yet I've still managed to find a great man to date, or rather he found me. I had no intentions of dating yet. Because finding time to date, and finding a sitter was hard for me, the man took the time everyday to come to my job site, bring me coffee, lunch, hang around to try to help (if I let him!) and took every opportunity to get to know me. He also helped in the long frustrating battle to find a suitable, reliable sitter I would trust with my son. He accommodated me for the time I did have available. This was also how he came to meet my son. My daycare provider was in the hospital and I could not take the weeks off work, and had no alternate. I brought my son to work with me and built him a safe play yard there. My suitor took the time to amuse my son so I could work a full day every day until my daycare provider was well. It was not intentional, but there it is. It was definitely sooner than I had wished for them to meet. Now they have a relationship together independent of me. I am one of those unlucky people who has no family at all within at least a two hour drive, so leaving my son with family is not an option for me.
I'm baffled by this "Do men/women date women/men with kids?" non-issue. Maybe it is because I am a perpetually cheery person. Or is it the philosophy I keep of "you get out of life what you put into it?"
I know I lucked out in having an excellent man (with no children of his own) find and ardently pursue me. It does, however, go to show that a good potential mate will take into consideration the strapped for time issue, and make the most out of every spare minute available. Child(ren) are often less of a stumbling block to a new relationship than the attitudes of the parent(s) involved. Maybe your attitude towards dating is at issue rather than (wo)men being shy of children.
There are many wonderful people out there who are considerate and understanding. Be that way yourself and you'll have a better chance of finding one. Of course, I could be mistaken . . . . | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 1/5/2007 7:04:39 PM | Who cares? I mean really my kids I can trust and come home evey day without bring some nasty shit in my house. Im good with that. If you cant date me cause I got kids that is not problem. My kids have to come first if you dont like that who really cares? I care enough to say go away and dont be sending me stupid ass mail!
Stephanie  | |
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