| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 1/20/2007 3:20:45 PM | | must apologise for the "not single not looking" but i was kinda testing the theroy out about people not reading profile proper.....will redo as soon as. and i have done the box where it says do you have kid........dont feel i have to mention that i have 4. if im asked then ill tell. im on here for me not for how many kids i have. at the end of the day im a person in my own right. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 1/20/2007 3:41:04 PM | Well, from the single guy with a child. If found it very had to women who want a man with a child at this stage of their life, even if its only every other weekend. Things ive heard are, Ive raised my kids and iam not raising anyones elses. Ive heard this a bunch of times in the last several years on these sites. Funny thing, i never asked for any help, nor needed any. Iam also been told how, my child will get in the way of OUR time together. In my profile, my relationship with my daughter is first. It gives them a chance to run. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 1/20/2007 3:53:58 PM | That's fine sweetie31, but as you see in my profile I'm honest enough (with myself) to know pretty much 2 more is the limit.
I raised 2 for 10 years before I started my own, and would have to tell all my friends when asking about "when I was gonna have my own"..
"Rather raise 2 then struggle with 4." would be my reply.
Don't fool yourself...4 kids are a BIG responsibility.... EVERY Way you slice it.
must apologise for the "not single not looking" but i was kinda testing the theroy out about people not reading profile proper.....
All rather interesting at best....is all I can say....
Who would not read the few sentences you wrote I truly wonder???
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 1/20/2007 4:11:35 PM | | u sound like the sort of person that nos me all ready , thats what i say its easy , if the other person as kids an then they no to excpect in good times an the bad from boo | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 1/20/2007 4:21:39 PM | | hi im sorryu feel like that , but some of us single mum arent lookin fr money or a new daddy , just fr love an be happy , an chat or cuddles an just the little things that put a smile on ur faces lv boo | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 1/20/2007 4:24:34 PM | a lot of people havent read it properly, decent thing to do if your gonna message someone is to read it properly is all im saying.....rant finished!!!
and i know 4 kids are a BIG responsibilty but they are mine and i ask for no help and never will. they are very much loved kids and no trouble and so be it if i have to wait til they are older to have a relationship. im prepared to put them first. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 1/20/2007 8:33:30 PM | | Of course there are men who date women with kids, for the single moms out there, i know it is tough my mom raised me as a single parent and it was very hard for her, in many ways other than just dating. Life can be hard, just play the hand you are dealt the best you can. Best of luck to all of you. | |
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| Simple Answers to Simple Questions
Posted: 1/20/2007 11:12:48 PM | Sure, there are men that date women with kids.
This has been another addition of Simple Answers to Simple Questions.
There are now fifty-six pages of answers that can now be deleted. Deleted long ago, knowing that they were completely unsearchable. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 1/21/2007 12:29:01 PM | | I am wondering the same thing, I have one son, no father in the picture, and he never will be either. And I get too sit and listen to all my friends who don't have children complain they are either single, or in a tiff with whomever...and I don't understand. I guess they don't get it, to me it looks I am going to be single, for the rest of my lifetime.....Don't think me a bad person I wouldn't trade my son for anything....but....... | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 1/21/2007 4:50:47 PM | | I agree as well they seem to be interested or ok, but soon realize maybe its too much or they end up wanting someone with none so they can start a family with their own kids | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 1/21/2007 5:50:46 PM | | Some guys or ladies out there are more than happy to create their own version of the Brady Bunch. lol I'm in the same vote as any lady is. I have two little ones and I'm sure that will be hard for some women to except. Realistically you should be looking for someone who also has children for they can relate to your life from that perspective. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 1/21/2007 6:28:50 PM | | They exist somewhere in this world. Seems like everyone I know that has kids isn't single excpet for me. But remember the guys who don't want to date a woman just because she has kids probably isn't the right man for you anyway. I know everyone says "it will happen" just have some patience. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 1/22/2007 8:19:15 AM | well,well,i would'nt mind someone w/kids at all the thing i've learning the ladies don't want to get close with someone.i think they get scared which is understandable but give a man a chance,if u really are looking for a good man let him show you he's not affraid of committing.for myself i'll take the lady and her children   | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 1/22/2007 11:12:01 AM | I agree with you. Sometimes you do get scared but its only because you've been there, dragged the poor kids out of a messy break up, and worry so much that the next one will be the same.....but if men understand that, then why cant they be a bit more patient??? And give us single mums a chance?  | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 1/22/2007 11:16:40 AM | We really do try to give single mom's a chance. Often it is the single mom's who won't give the guy a chance.
It goes back to the nice guy bad boy deal.
Most (not all) single moms want some excitement and drama in their lives. Then can't understand why the guys they pick are not interested in being a parent. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 1/22/2007 1:41:34 PM | Children are not a problem when I look to date. I have female friends that say this same rhetoric and I remind them not to use the kids as this crutch nor excuse. It's other reasons they aren't dating. Almost always it's the exact same reasons every other woman has a problem dating.
They don't want to admit that though because it would mean being honest with themselves about the things guys want in a woman that they have since lost or never had..... | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 1/22/2007 1:46:17 PM | | I myself am young and have always loved and adored children and can not wait to have my own and love big families. I have no problem with her having children my only regard is that i do wnat children of my own someday as well | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 1/22/2007 6:08:07 PM | Well, I don't know where the rest of them are, but I'm here in Michigan. lol I may be rare...or wierd (depends on your perspective) but I think I'd PREFER a woman with kids.
You see, I love a FAMILY. And what is a family without kids? A family gives you direction and purpose in life...something more important to focus on than yourself and your own pleasures. There is little greater pleasure in life than to have an impact, no matter how small, in the forming of the future of mankind. Its a very simple way to make your little corner of the world a little better. :) | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 1/22/2007 8:11:16 PM | | Well I have to say in my experience I have met a few over the years. I have 3 young children myself.....but I have noticed that a few of them seem to have this idea that I "needed" them to be there. Let me tell you something.......I have done it before you came and after you leave!!!! All single parents out there are strong. If we can handle fevers, colds, viruses, and teacher conferences alone....we can handle dating!! Its just unfortunate we have to be some what more picky in who we choose to date. Its just a way of life....hang in there my fellow single parents we will get through this just like everything else! | |
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