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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/7/2007 7:38:47 PM | | Yes there are men who date who date women with children, I was not only dating a young woman with two children, I was living with her and them, till she decided to ask me to leave after supporting her and them, since she was ,well acting questionable .... she was 29 I was 22, 23 and her little ones were aged 4 and 6 .... so there are guys out there that don't care about having someone children, just don't be like my ex. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/8/2007 6:11:58 PM | Yes they do exist. Me being a young mother of a 14 month old little boy I have found that alot of guys are willing to date people with kids. I am gonna be open and staright up, when Im looking for someone for me its for me not not my kid. He has a Dad that waled out when he was 6 months old and he dont need someone to walk out on him again. Now if someone steps up to the plate and is willing to be there thats fine. But I will make sure that they are not going to go anywhere! There are good men everywhere! It take times and don' give up. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/8/2007 6:17:12 PM | | Yes! I'm going to ask the same question in reverse though. I am a single father with sole custody of my two young sons. Are there women out there interested in dating a man with kids? | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/9/2007 4:56:25 AM | This one cracks me up. Isn't there positives and negatives to everything?
If the mom has a problem with installing discipline in her home, it sure as heck
would be a flag for me if I was the guy.
Six foot guy, here's a clue, if the woman is going anywhere near the idea of having sex with her man and kids are in the house, might be a flag to pay attention to. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/9/2007 1:51:04 PM | I think that along with being a single parent comes the dilemna of location...If you meet someone that is a distance away and neither one wants to relocate and disrupt their children's lives, it makes it a challenge to make a relationship work...I had this happen, and we mutually decided to put our childrens well being first, not put them through the trauma of losing their stability..I would never of forgiven myself if he had moved away from his children, and I wasnt about to move my children away from their extended family...Just something to ponder.... | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/9/2007 4:26:22 PM | yes there are woman out here that are willing to date men with child/children.....it just depends on who the person is... I would not have a problem with it and the same thing goes for men dating woman with child/children....have a great night.... | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/10/2007 12:04:56 PM | You know I have been wondering the same myself, I have been raising my son by myself now for going on 8 years. Hes a straight A student, Ive not been on assistance and my ex, regretfully, hasnt upped a dime. But I work every day, food is on the table, and though we're not rich, we exist from day to day with little worry. I am not looking for a dad for my son, not looking for someone to pay our way (Heck I dont think I would know what to do with someone who relieved me of my 'work-horse' duties lol) and yes I would be more than happy to date a man with kids. Maybe Im just too independant lol. Maybe its the fact that men dont feel needed by us single moms?
But I do want to say to ALL the single parents (Moms AND Dads)---Thank you. Although it seems tough almost all of the time, and in some situations, it might seem very unfortunate that our kids might be missing a parent, thank you for being the one who stuck around. And thank you for the work you do, because I know that we just dont hear that often enough for all the things we do.
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krg131
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Joined: 4/30/2007
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/10/2007 1:40:37 PM | | I agree with the attachment part. I have no intentions on introducing my children to every man I date, and I would expect him to understand. I refuse to be one of those single moms that parade a line of men through my children's lives. However, it seems that everytime I go out, the man in question thinks I should have no problem bringing him home, and then gets upset when I tell them that is NOT an option. When, and if I find Mr. Right, I'll be happy to make that introduction. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/10/2007 1:42:15 PM | Of COURSE there are men who will date women with kids....I'm one of them.
But if a woman isn't looking for a dad for their kids then not interested. I know some of you have good dads, then I'll be the stepdad, but don't expect me to take a back seat to some deadbeat or Christer(meaning once a month visit or only holidays). That's totally going against the family values I'm teaching my son and he'll wonder "Hey dad, why are they with us if the mom doesn't like you being dad to her kids"
It'd be really nice to see a straightup mom who tells the truth about needing money, a man, a dad or stepdad, helping out with everyday lives etc instead of holding stuff back CAUSE we all need help in everything and when you're together, it's combined everything just like family, right???? | |
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krg131
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Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 1613 | |
| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/10/2007 2:20:10 PM | | But shouldn't that woman be looking for a husband first? If the relationship progressed to that, by all means would I expect him to be a dad to my kids. But that doesn't mean that I'll risk my kids getting attached to somebody that I am not serious about. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/10/2007 2:41:56 PM | EXACTLY! But she's only looking for a Fbuddy(s).
If you're "scared" of your kids getting to be friends with or even attached to a man and his kid(s) then don't even bother........you look like worth nothing more than a Fbuddy too. Sorry if this hurts ya or wrong but I tell it straight. | |
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krg131
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Joined: 4/30/2007
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raze
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Joined: 8/19/2006
Msg: 1616 | |
| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/10/2007 3:00:22 PM | I ask the same question re women. I am a single Dad.
I think that some men want to come first i na womans affections, they dont wan children coming first. ( I would not be interested in a woman who did,nt put their children first. I know one!)
A single mum once said, that I must have women flocking to help us! It has NEVER happened! I have not found anyone interested for more than a few weeks. Maybe its my fault. They have not told me, just disappeared. Ray. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/10/2007 4:07:37 PM | Yes, it works both ways, men do date women with kids, and vica versa.
The trick is to know the parent first; hold back the instinct to make
comments about parenting style, learn the history first. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/11/2007 1:05:51 AM | | Krg.....I'm sorry that you haven't had luck with men but don't include me with them ok. I've been burnt a few times too but I wash the shit away. Even though this is the internet, it's up to you if you don't wanna be another fish 'so to speak'. I meet single parents with their kids or a married family every week so if you're not confident to do the same then how do you expect to meet normal people? | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/11/2007 5:44:54 AM | Hi shedevil1971,
All i can say is yes they do exist, I met mine a year ago through a friend, and we are very happy, I have 2 kids 18 and 16 years old, so i know what its like, if you ever want to chat, contact me I'm a good listener and some times give good advice.
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/11/2007 8:17:11 AM | | OK.....let's do this then cause I bet you it WILL work. All single parents of each city get together at one time, I bet you that half(if not more) will find soulmates or good friends to help each other succeed (in whatever endeavor). That's all it takes....being open and meeting. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/11/2007 1:45:11 PM | | 4youriiionly I am a teenage mum(19) I am looking for a bloke that will date a woman with kids, and trust money is the last thing i want i want some one to look after me for a change treat me right and respect me like i no i should me not to play bank manager to my kids. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/11/2007 3:21:05 PM | Yeah I married one with two boys. 9 and 12. They are 17 and 20 now and the marriage is over. Hmmmmmm they are out of the house, no need for me anymore I guess.
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