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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/20/2007 4:46:13 PM | there out there! some looking for long term relationship, but be wise!
There usally looking for long term sex, from another or another, watch out, for the guys that have a webcam. Their just looking to show their private parts to you. It can be pretty funny!
I met one on here, but two in the outside world
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/20/2007 5:40:40 PM | hi!
im a single parent of 4 kids and find it very hard to meet people as soon as they find out i have 4 kids most women either dont talk to you or stop talking to you' there are the odd special one that are happy to talk thou. i love kids and am very lucky to hace custardy or mine they are my world and im happy to meet other people with kids and find i get on better with people with kids than people with out as the dont know about the responsabilaties that you have and expect you to put your kids on one side for them. but saying that i went out with a woman that had kids but didn't want to get involved with mine but she wanted me to get involved with hers | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/20/2007 5:58:12 PM | | I'm in Perth, in Western Australia. Being 18 with a 10 month old daughter, I find it hard to even find a man to even speak to me... let alone enter into any kind of relationship... :( My daughters father used to beat me... so I know about bad relationships & bad breakups... (we were never married, thank god!) I just ish I coul get some one to chat to me, then they may find out, yes, she has a baby, but she's a great person who just wants to be appreciated & loved, and have someone to go home to at the end of the day after work... why is this so hard??? I'm not into the party scene like most 18-19 year olds... I have a daughter who needs me. She has a father whos happy in life in his relationship with a 14 yr old (he's 20), now I need to be happy so that she has a good home, not looking for a fulltime, live in situation, or afather for Mellie, I just want someone to talk to, respect, and who respects me!!! Seriously, how hard is it? Amongst all the Jerks in Perth, theres gotta be someone there for me?? Surely?? | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/24/2007 7:25:20 PM | | The problem is not whether they have kids, it's whether they have philosophy on raising kids that even resembles yours. The fact that the man will have no power with the children and all the neat little nuances that pop up. It just takes time to figure all this stuff out. So, kids are not a problem to me, it,s just gonna take time to figure out another piece of the puzzle. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/25/2007 2:52:18 AM | your young, give it some time. you will find the right girl for you. I knew a couple once, years ago. She was perfect for him. He was in the same situation as you. She was single with no kids. They married, and had more children.
Good luck, and keep strong! You might meet a girl through their friends, as they get older. Through the clubs they join etc.
Kind regards,
genuinelady2 | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/25/2007 5:04:06 AM | I have to agree with you nitephantom.
I have an eight year old daughter and i don't have any problems with dating ,until they find out i am a single dad(single being ok,dad,being the bad word)lol | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/25/2007 8:48:18 AM | | ON SEARCHING THROUGH THE GUYS I NOTICED ONE MAN WHO SPECIFICALLY STATED HE DIDN'T WANT WOMEN CONTACTING HIM IF THEY HAD NO INTEREST IN CHILDREN AND HE PREFERED LADIES WHO HAD CHILDREN ALREADY MAYBE IT WOULD PAY TO BE UP FRONT ABOUT THIS IN OUR PROFILES AND STATE THE OBVIOUS TO SAVE TIME ON TIME WASTERS, I AM A SINGLE PARENT IT ISN'T EASY MEETING THE RIGHT GUY IS IT. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/26/2007 8:01:50 AM | Most of the girls iv dated since iv been a single parent, have also been single parents, there is lots of guys and girls that have no probs dating single parents.
the thing thats hard is the time you can give each other, cause the kids take up most of the free time for any single parent,
iv been on my on for a while now and i like it apart from being a little lonely sometimes life is good.
but if a nice girl came into my life if she had kids that would be cool. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/26/2007 10:23:12 AM | Buddy and budets i cant tell you how much i agree i have three daughters 5 7 and 14 and i usually only message women with children maybe thats my problem.I have my girls every other weekend and i am a devoted dad i pay my support with out any problem.I pick them up an hour north of the GTA and keep them till sunday eve drive the hour to drop them back off for sunday to get ready for school.
But when it comes to dating its like i got the plague. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/26/2007 8:58:25 PM | Ok Just read a few post's on this subject. qiut your ****ing, Boys and Girls! This is sad find someone that doesnt care or welcomes your kids!. If not move on to other fish!. My god there is 30 some pages of replys on this, yea there is lots of us with kids. if that is a problem stay home and single!.
Doctor Dan | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/27/2007 1:22:51 AM | | yes i dont mind infactid rather she had kids that way id know when it came to mine she had been through it and would understand then and what they get up to. short and sweet but noticed your question and had to reply | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/27/2007 2:42:22 AM | | yea we do exist, i have two teenagers myself tho not living with me, when i look at a profile its irrelevant to me wether the lady has children or not, at the end of the day we dont get to our ages without making mistakes in our lives, when we have children we believe we are in THE relasionship the one for life unfortunately life isnt so, us men shouldnt turn away from a single mother i know i dont i look upon it as a challenge as not 1 heart to win over but 2 or 3 poss 4 | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/27/2007 7:28:33 AM | I joined this site specifically looking for a woman with a kid, or kids, or even pregnant and single if she's younger - I have two kids, but I have had a vasectomy so no more for me, which is problem when it comes to dating women younger than I am who don't already have kids, , I figure at some point they will want them, unless they are incapable, etc., and I don't want to hold somebody down that way.
It's a problem with women my age with kids, 'cause I'm a late starter, I'm 44 and my oldest just turned 11 - women my age mostly have grown children and are looking to enjoy their freedom, I've pretty much been striking out there - so I'm basically down to women younger than I am with kids, or pregnant and single - I'm very hesitant to specify that, it probobly sounds pretty creepy, but really my reasons are mostly practical.
Question: should I put that in my profile? | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/27/2007 7:44:28 AM |
I have to agree with you nitephantom.
I have an eight year old daughter and i don't have any problems with dating ,until they find out i am a single dad(single being ok,dad,being the bad word)lol
It's turned out to be much bigger dealbreaker than I thought it would be at the outset - maybe the woman I'm looking for just doesn't have a computer - where the hell do you go to meet single mothers - the food stamp line? | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/27/2007 8:27:57 AM | The problem there lies with the woman havng unreal expectations,
Evryone does and should favor their biolologic child,
i should be expected,
Im sure she did too,
the problem I had years ago,
was having unrealistic expectations when you start a new relationship,
peope are not always a instant family,
and you can't expect automatic love and the parent feeling to be instant,
that devolope over time.
and can be harder when a child isn't yours.
Even natural parents encounter problems
with seeing favorisim ,etc ,
so children are hard on the strongest relationship,
and people need to go ito relationships relistically knowing
there is no 24/7 perfect happiness r perfct relationship.
Learning to accept a persons imperfections is hard,
even if it's someone you love.
Too many people want someone to help shoulder their responsiblity,
but often it's a one way street,
They don't want to help shoulder the others.
I think that is the reason people have a hard time staying together,
and becoming a family. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/27/2007 11:15:09 AM | | I have found that if I am upfront at the very beginning, then you can get a sense of how the man feels. The first thing, aside from saying hello, is to tell them that I have two kids, and that they are a huge part of my life. I get a lot of negativity, and men saying things like, well, I am sure you have a regular baby sitter. It is hard. My children are 2.5 and 4.5. And some men get scared off thinking that we are looking for a "daddy". The trick is to be upfront. If I can find a man that will be good to my children, that is great, but I am not expecting anyone to take over fathering duties. I do that myself since their dad is rarely in the picture. I have actually found myself more and more looking for men with children of their own, they are more apt to know how you feel. Keep at it, there are some men out there that love children, and if they like a woman enough, then they will accept the fact that you have children, no matter what age they are. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/27/2007 2:53:41 PM | | I think it is just fear of bonding with more than one person and it not working out....more than anything. I mean, I am a single parent and find it absurb but after much deliberation came to the conclusion it is the most basic of emotions....fear. I never planned to be a single parent, and I would love for my boys to have a man to look up to, the more positives in a child's life the better, but if someone wants to pass up 3 beautiful people that just love and want to love...screw em' I say, they've already lost, and we have won. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/27/2007 4:40:31 PM | I often wonder where we can find these men. I have 3 kids under age 12, one of which has a few problems, When I think I've found the one who understands my 3 kids, if the guy I'm with gets a taste of my kids attitudes, they run some excuse by me that they aren't ready for a relationship. Plus my kids if they don't like the guy they act like bansees and run the men off. It mainly happened when the guy would get to know my kids to a certain degree, when they correct them the kids flat out say we don't got to listen to you, your not our dad. then that is when their lousy excuses come out that their not ready for a relationship with a single mom with kids. So if there are any men out there who will accept the lady with kids please let us know.  | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/27/2007 6:14:52 PM |
Plus my kids if they don't like the guy they act like bansees and run the men off. It mainly happened when the guy would get to know my kids to a certain degree, when they correct them the kids flat out say we don't got to listen to you, your not our dad
And in those cases what did you do?
If you did nothing or if you sided with the children then you are enabling that to continue to happen.
In which case very few reasonable people would discount the guy for leaving as he would be in a no win situation that wasn't worth the fight. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/27/2007 7:39:24 PM | Sure there are men out there that will date women with kids. I for one am one of them. I love children and admire a woman who takes care of them on her own.
I find out that alot of women out there with kids only want men with kids also, like the Brady Bunch! I am a great catch and you are missing out.
Rory | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/27/2007 8:59:42 PM | | Dont worry we feel the same on this side i have three daughters 5 7 and 14 and its hard to find someone. But maybe im being choosy too. I go to the gym and workout so im not into big girls and for some reason i attract them. But when i message others they either dont reply or some lame excuse. But im not too woried and i move on. Dont get discouraged someday it will happen their are alot of guys that would. Even if i didnt have children i would never discard a single mom.....Steve | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/28/2007 6:37:37 AM | Yes there are men that still date women with kids.....Just like there are women who do date men with kids.
We do not become unwanted as soon as we become single parents, though sometimes it feels that way because there is a great percentage of men who find that the woman might be his type except that she has kids. But, if a guy doesn't want kids or like kids then he doesn't want me and I move on. I find that a mutual connection is made frequently when you meet a single dad because right away you have kids in common and that is a good place to start. However, there are single guys with no kids who can handle it too. It depends on the direction the person is headed in.... | |
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Joined: 5/20/2007
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 5/28/2007 10:54:38 AM | Could you send a few of these women my way? LoL.
For me, when I've told women that I am a single father its like I said I have the bubonic plaque. Further enforces that those aren't the ones for me. Maybe its a regional type thing? | |
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