| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 4/19/2008 6:32:15 PM | I hope so...
As a matter of fact, I know they do. But, I have had issues dating because I DO have a limited schedule revolving around a visitation schedule in the beginning of meeting someone new...I choose it to be that way, so really you can't blame the men for it. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 4/19/2008 7:06:57 PM |
Im just wondering if there are any Women out there that date a man that is a single father who has kids full time??
I haven't seen many. Most say the child is fine and then change that idea. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 4/19/2008 7:25:52 PM | actually, I am a single mom and I have dated a guy with kids. It depends on the girl. Unfortunately it didn't work out as the guy had a drinking problem...but the kids and i still keep in touch.
If you meet someone amazing and they have a great kid it is just an added bonus. I come from a family where my parents were professional marriers...so I guess I had the advantage of being tolerant of all people in many situations. Especially those coming into our family. The mantra was the more the merrier. We were foster parents too...some people are kid people and some just aren't. hold out for one who is... she is out there.
good luck matt | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 4/19/2008 7:30:11 PM | Im just wondering if there are any Women out there that date a man that is a single father who has kids full time??
I would. But, there would have to be SOME time for us to get to know each other without the kiddos involved. Somehow. I have time to date, be it limited, and I can tolerate the same from others... | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 4/19/2008 7:54:46 PM | Some men will date women with children...but you need to understand that may be a limited number. Some men have had bad experiences dating single moms.
Maybe single parents should seek each other out for dating purposes and not be concerned with thte single people without children who will not date single parents. I have met a few single moms who will not date single fathers as I have already mentioned in this thread. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 4/19/2008 9:39:27 PM | | Well I'm a young single mom and I ahve guys say I'm attractive and I have a great peronality and everything like that!! But Once I mention I'm single mom they say they dont mind it but once I introduce them to my son they start treatin me like crap!! I'm a single mom who works full time and everything like that!! So I'm not lookin for the money or a father for my son cause he has my dad and my brother for that part!! All I want is that special someone to hold and to care for!!! Someone to come home to but I know it will happen one day!! Just gotta wait!! SOMEDAY ALL OF US SINGLE MOMS WILL FIND THE RIGHT PERSON!!! IT TAKES AWHILE AND TO GO OUT WITH ALOT OF GUYS BUT HEY IN THE END IT"LL ALL BE WORTH IT!! JUST TRY THINKIN POSITIVE ALL THE TIME!!! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 4/19/2008 9:49:38 PM | | Amen to that brother!! I have two little ones 7 and 2 my ex and i started late and women don't even look in my direction...i may not be vin diesel, but I am not carrot top either!! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/8/2008 9:34:48 AM | No, There are no men that date women with kids.
In the wild it's about spreading your seed and living on,To raise some other mans kids would not be natural and would not happen in the wild.
So, any man that says he would date women with kids is just desperate. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/8/2008 2:33:27 PM | That's all I date usually...Im 28 and I date single moms 22 to 26. I live in Columbus ohio. I was reading all the messeges and I do have to say that woman with kids have it easier then men with kids. Like that guy said before me if I have my daughter or son women think Im with someone, and when Im not with my kids im at work or home...So I think that we have it just a tab harder...LOL. Thank god for all the dads out there that take care of theres. There are to many dads out there not taking a care of what they should be. Peace | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/8/2008 3:18:06 PM |
No, There are no men that date women with kids.
In the wild it's about spreading your seed and living on,To raise some other mans kids would not be natural and would not happen in the wild.
So, any man that says he would date women with kids is just desperate.
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/8/2008 4:12:04 PM | Of course there's blokes out there who will date women with kids,I think that as you get older you exspect there to be to be honest.If anything there's more chance a bloke would date a women with kids than the other way round,although many of you might say they respect you being a single father trying to bring up your kid on his own,the reality is lot different. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/8/2008 5:36:21 PM | | THERE OUT THERE . WE TOO ARE SINGLE DADS RAISING TEENAGE KIDS. AS YOU KNOW THEY TAKE ALOT OF TIME, SO THAT DOES NOT LEAVE MUCH FOR MEETING WOMEN. AND WHERE ARE THEY TOO . I PERFER DATING WOMEN WITH KIDS, YOU HAVE MORE IN COMMON, SINGLE MOMS AND WE MEN UNDERSTAND IF YOU CAN'T MAKE IT NOT TO TAKE IT TO THE HEART. IT'S JUST VERY HARD AS YOU GET OLDER TO FIND SOMEONE. MAYBE SOMEDAY? | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/8/2008 8:48:39 PM | they do, and women date guys w/ kids. i believe that single parents can do a great job dating wach other, but have run into dads who don't want you to meet their kids, or the kids to meet each other. i find if the kids get along, half the battle is won.
it IS difficult finding time to date when your kids are young, tho. maybe just wait til they're in highschool. :) | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/11/2008 9:19:35 PM |
SOMEDAY ALL OF US SINGLE MOMS WILL FIND THE RIGHT PERSON!!! IT TAKES AWHILE AND TO GO OUT WITH ALOT OF GUYS BUT HEY IN THE END IT"LL ALL BE WORTH IT!! JUST TRY THINKIN POSITIVE ALL THE TIME!!!
There is no guarantee that any of us will meet anybody, sometimes you have to settle. Because if you did not have a child by the right guy, how do you expect to meet the right guy?
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/11/2008 9:41:04 PM | | I know several Single Moms who have settled. Because a lot of women become Single Moms because they go for the Stud, the Hunk, or the Bad Boy, and end up being left alone. But if they had just settled for the nice guy in the beginning then they would have someone that was not an exciting hunk, but a nice gentleman who was going to be there for them. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/11/2008 10:23:58 PM | | No...the nice guy's usually stay. Nice guy's are nurturer's and providers and would have a hard time leaving unless the woman pushed him away. This has been proven, this is why Single Moms seek and want these types of men. They want someone that can provide a stable home for their child/children. But unfortunately did not have this mind set the first time around. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/11/2008 10:33:27 PM |
This has been proven,
Sorry but what has been proven? and where has it been proven or documented?
Now myself I have been a nurturer and a provider. But my ex would not support your premise that I am a nice guy?
But then there are many of us who make silly statements! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/11/2008 10:48:17 PM |
LOL I dont know where you think that the nice guy label always equals the RIGHT one.
Such a statement begs to ask the question: The RIGHT one FOR WHAT?
A cynic like me would say: "Not the right one to have children with, but the right one to pay for them".
You settle, you are on the fast track of leading a very unfullfilling, unsatisfying life.
100% agree. Why should a guy settle for being second place? | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/11/2008 11:04:16 PM |
Because a lot of women become Single Moms because they go for the Stud, the Hunk, or the Bad Boy, and end up being left alone.
I can guarantee you that my ex was none of the three...
Broad sweeping statements need to be swept under the rug with the rest of the crud.... | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/12/2008 1:18:30 AM | kids are ok i find a woman with kids is actually preferable ....have responsibillity ...are well grounded...are not itno games like the woman without kids
personally i prefer a woman with kids just a much safer date al the way around | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/12/2008 12:15:54 PM | We are out here...but sometimes you have to want the apple that hangs from the highest branch instead of taking the one that is ready to fall off the lowest branch.
Women are the same way...many won't even respond to your ad if your kids are under the "leave alone" age....Bias..and passing up on a man that could truly make them feel like the luckiest woman on earth...Don't understand why kids have to be referred to in conversations as baggage....this coming from others with kids of their own...
I think I am destined to be alone...to console myself...but I will smile ear to ear when my kids smile at me...Always glass half full...not half empty.... | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/12/2008 12:18:43 PM | | right back at yah...well said..my daughters are 4 and 6 and when we are all together its like I have the deadliest disease and women run from me ...or look for their mother... | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/12/2008 12:21:21 PM | I do...the fishing you are doing is in the wrong pool...the flounder you are catching are passing themselves off as game fish until the hook is squarely in their lips...
Now I understand the uncertainty women have....My advice is date men with kids..
We understand the merits of parenthood and what it takes...and are not scared of instant additions to the family...we actually embrace it...
We are the "real" men you are looking for.... | |
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