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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/27/2008 5:39:47 AM | Yes they do exist...I have meet some real sweethearts .......you just have to look at their profiles closer and the ones that have kids living with them or ones have kids are the ones who enjoy a lady with kids...soo be bold and just a short sweet email saying HI hows the week going and it will get you started. Always nice to find one close to home not far away. FOR those eve booty calls or a nice drink in eve outside
(dont look at " kids over 18, they dont want someone w kids)
Im single parent of one 15year old and I dont have aproblem, just ot found the right one yet!! Good luck ladies  fishing is at our advantage!! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/27/2008 6:31:28 AM | yes we do exist! I have children of my own and they live with me. i just cant seem to find a woman that wants to stick around! there is always a game to play and i am sick of games . Where are the real women that want a good man ????     | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/27/2008 6:42:45 AM | OO yes.. like I said U have to look at profiles w kids . If your looking at Divorced w no kids or kids over 18. they are not wanting anyone with kids they been there done that and enjoying life..and mostly are players and not serious about finding a mate... BUT the ones with kids at home.. are the ones truely looking for someone in their lives. unfortunatly have you to be honest in profiles.. never lie about NOT having kids... single parents come as a package.... but never push ur kids into relationship right away. let relationship grow... and slowly add kids into a day at Bush Gardens or something fun... not push them into a dinner or picnic and say this is who I have been dating for 6months... kids will be hurt, but let them see the FUN side of someone special in your lives...... I truly beleive There is a match out there for all of us.... such go fishin here.. and look close to home NOT miles away.. and just say HI. it opens their eyes to hey I have not seen this person b4...and u never know until u meet for coffee or a drink.... it only takes 5 mins to see if your attracked to each other and 10 min to see if you have any chemistry there... SOOO go for it 15 min and you might meet the right person.. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/27/2008 6:44:58 AM | I am a single father, i have my kids every 2nd weekend and wouldn't miss it for the world, as for dating someone who has kids, their is absolutely nothing wrong with that, it would be contradictory (however its spelt) for me to say to someone, no you have kids.
My ex or a couple of past ex's have had kids, its a package deal. My ex's kids I treated as if they were my own kids, i didn't tell them to call me dad, they just did but i treated them like a best friend.
I think at the end of the day it could potentially come down to the kids, I have met some great people on here and i have met some not so great people, i find it hard to take peoples "suggestions" when it comes to my kids and find it hard to offer my "suggestions", however, my trouble has been more discipline was needed with the kids and they would of been potential great kids, but it can make a relationship harder (if that makes sense) and i had a discussion with one of my ex's once which ended up with me being single, the discussion of, the kids are walking over the top of you, they know your soft spots, you need to enforce what you tell them, if you threaten time out, make them take it, at the end of the day, they needed discipline.
I would not hesitate in dating woman who have kids, i think if they have kids, they know the responsibility and maturity needed, however, i have met some lovely ladies who do not have kids and i would have not problem welcoming them into my family. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/27/2008 11:47:02 AM | Of course, there are men who date women with kids. Many, many marriages these days are between men and women with blended families. In fact, their numbers rival those in traditional families. It just "feels" like there aren't any to some of you ladies.
I have raised step children and never had any issue with it whatsoever. However, I am now raising two sons full time, myself. And, I have come across some ladies out there who take issue with it for several reasons.
One reason will sound familiar to you ladies...they don't want to take care of someone else's kids...or, any kids at all. But, for a father who has custody there is sometimes an added challenge for a woman.
They think kids should stay with mom and they are almost offended that a father actually has them instead. When that comes up, I always know I am speaking with a woman who has unresolved issues. And, I never regret walking away.
Rock on.
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/27/2008 2:27:24 PM | I hope they exist. I am just now going through a divorce with my ex husband. Hes not the father of my 11 month old baby girl but hes the only daddy shes ever known. And it hurts knowing i was the one that jacked things up. So any advice from some pros of broken hearts with children because i only had one parent growing up and i dont want that for grace. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/28/2008 12:31:09 AM | How weird, I agree 110% with your entry. I am perfectly fine with women with kids and yes, in fact I prefer it because single mothers are generally mature and more caring and responsible. I don't know, it's a list of things that attracts me to single mothers.
Guys that think of single mothers as negative baggage are guys women should NOT get involved in. Like many of you have mentioned, when you mention you have children, some guys start backing out or whatever; a clear sign that that person is not ready or not willing to get involved in that type of relationship and thats fine because there are plenty of us men that don't mind.
So Shay I think you are dead on in your 'editorial.' | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/29/2008 7:24:27 AM | Funny how everybody only sees their point of view. Believe me it is just as hard for a single dad to get a date. Is their any good women left? I raise all three of my children ages 6,8 and 10. I didnt get married till I was 38. When I decided to settle down, I never cheated, never drank, always faithful. And did not file for divorce. I am not the one that left for their drunk buddies. I work every day. I come home cook and clean just as any single parent does. Male or female it doesnt get any easier.
I love me kids, thats what keeps me from giving up. I have a good job, but we still have money crunches. Like any single parent does. I have no family to watch my kids. Or to bail me out if I get in trouble. Alot of single parents do have someone to help once in a while. I had a female friend for the past 2 years, single mom.But her parents had her child 80% of the time. When the time came she started throwing my kids up at me. We split, that simple. What is sad, I loved her.But she made me make a choice. She lied and cheated also. So in my world women have always been the liars and cheaters.
In the past few months I have realizied women do not want good men. They want the bad boy type. Well I ride a Harley when I can,but I will never be the bad boy. I read all that askes where are all the good men at? Well there is not many left. The selfious, self centered, lieing, cheating women have ruined them. So in life I guess everything works both ways. But men always being the bad parent is just not true. And I will not date a woman unless she does have kids. No exception, sorry. But dont judge me till you stand in my shoes. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/29/2008 1:00:19 PM | yes we do exist, its hard to gain trust from those who have children when it was damaged by boys trapped in men's bodies! it takes a boy to help make a child but also takes a man to be around and help raise the child(ren)!!!
the question is do women actually trust enough to let go off the barrier they have put up in order to trust again? how many times have people met and either get scared away cause of kids or get pushed away because of them? the way i see it is if 2 people have a chemistry between them then not only does one have to accept the child(ren) but the child(ren) also have to accept the other person! if you met someone and something is there act on it, why throw a potentially good thing away?
but to answer your question yes we do exist and for those who have a brain we know we could never take the place of the father they already have but we can help them in bad situations like they were our own just the same and also help teach them right from wrong! and also always try to be thier friend no matter what!
hope that helps your question and yes i do like going for coffee in cse your wanting to ask.......lol | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/29/2008 2:08:46 PM | I can't remember the last time I dated someone without kids. I avoid them. I also avoid dating women who have kids, but lost custody. Sorry, just the way it is. In a society filled with courts that automatically hand kids to mothers, it says something about you if you are a mom who lost custody. And, I am not even curious enough to date such a woman, in order to find out. Sorry.
I am a single dad, raising two sons. I know how difficult it is for women to want to be part of that. It takes someone special to be able to do it. That being said, dating a woman with teens is far more difficult than if the kids are preteen. I am only speaking for me, from my own experience. And, when I look to date someone, that is what I use to discern whether or not to proceed. Teens have a special way about them when they don't want mom to spend time with a man. They are often like retarded monkeys. At least, that's what my dad used to say! Looking back...Dad was onto something.
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/29/2008 2:18:57 PM | im a mother of two girls and i find that men are not ofraid to date me because i am not looking for a man to take care of us
i want a companion to share my time with someone who likes kids but doesnt have to love them
if the man finds his self in love with you your kids become a part of that to but you cant exspect it all to come right away
im a great mother and my kids get wehat they need from me so i am not looking for a man who can give them anything but maybe a friendship
i would love to meet a man with kids so my kids will have someonew to play with while i get to know there father and see where it takes us
i suggest just being you and take things slow there are nice men out there but you dont wanna scare them off by trying to involve your kids in the relationship to soon | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/29/2008 3:24:29 PM | I would! and have....
I Love kids, I have a lot of Friends that there kids call me Uncle********....
When they see me they run and jump on me or in my arms. Kids are really smart
and intuitive, they will sence it if you don't like them and if you do they will as well.
Some of my friends will not but they are usually the more selfish type personallity.
(I said usually, Not all.)
Just My take on it.... | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 7/29/2008 5:33:30 PM | | I believe that almost every woman I have dated has kids. most are brats, and some were good. I almost had it a priority to meet someone that already has kids for a couple of reasons. One, they cant put the slam down with the child support issues when they fizzle out someday. and two. the kids need a real male figure in their lives. it full fills me to a degree. especially boys. moms were never ment to father their sons. they just don't have the right tools. | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 8/17/2008 11:39:23 PM | | We are out there...I don't have any kids of my own, but am attracted to to older women...The fact that she has kids tells me she is more than likely not going to play head games with me, and she is looking for what I"m looking for...We exist Momma just have to look in the right spots... | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 8/18/2008 11:07:38 AM | | They sure do! I'm a single dad and I'd much rather go on a date with a single mom than a single woman. For me, I just seem to find that single moms are much easier to relate with. What's even better is that they are WAY more understanding if a parental obligation derails or delays plans. I've had a couple of single women straight out tell me,"c-ya". Even though I just blew it off for some reason kind of hurt. But only for a few minutes! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 8/18/2008 12:45:30 PM | | god yes i agree,, i get chatted up, whistled at when im out n alone,which isnt often as being a single mum its hard to socialize as much as ud like. i think im a good catch for any man,see myself as an equal,im not desperate,clingy or reliant yet feel like im an alien, men look at you like ur gonna axe them,as soon as you mention a child | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 8/18/2008 10:38:48 PM | Yes, they do!
I have 4 kids, ages 9, 10, 12, and 14 and I am dating the most wonderful man who told me that it doesn't even scare him that I have kids. My kids like him as well.
I consider myself very lucky! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 8/19/2008 4:15:39 PM | | Hey well here in the midwest heck yeah I love kids as long as the respect me I have no problem whatsoever! I enjoy women who enjoy being a loving parent as much as I do! | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 8/19/2008 7:42:01 PM | Women use men for money all the time. They don't need kids as an excuse. Judge the woman by her character rather than whether she has children or not.
I am single, self-suffiicient mom who get less than half in child support for what it costs to raise the kids and I never have asked someone I've been seeing for money.  | |
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 8/20/2008 8:55:07 AM | Well I am a single mom and I have found that having kids seems to be a big turn off to all guys in this area (eastern NC) I dont understand how someone can like EVERYTHING about you but your child. My ex is a loser its true, however he does take my son half the week and I take care of my kid on my own. I am not dating to find my son a dad, he already has one weather I like the jerk or not. I am financially capeable of supporting my own son, I dont need your money. These are all arguments I have when I am dissed for having a child. I think they are all just using him as an excuse. It matters not, when I meet a REAL man, one that isnt afraid of a REAL woman, he will be the lucky one and maybe I will too!
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| do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 8/20/2008 9:41:41 AM | It's really difficult when kids are involved. Sometimes they end up getting as hurt as the people dating. And it's every bit as bad if the man LOVES your kids, and your kids love him and for some reason you are the one who has a problem with him (or he with you). Then what?
Better not to involve kids in "dating" - in my experience. | |
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