| what white girls think about indian men & married life?
Posted: 6/27/2008 7:47:39 AM | OK if that is so true..why are there so many married men from India asking Cajoling, Begging, wanting Friendship and more ..
I know one dating site Full of Men from India and all they are after is Sex and more free sex with all and sundry.. Most if not all are married and of course NO Photo..
The moderators there have a job cut out for them...
Some of them are so demanding it is unreal..
I love the ones that say in their profiles..FRIENDSHIP FOR ETERNITY.. I wonder if they read how demanding and stifling this comes across..
I am just curious why they have NO Respect for their wife's or their Marriages.. | |
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| what white girls think about indian men & married life?
Posted: 6/27/2008 2:36:12 PM |
OK if that is so true..why are there so many married men from India asking Cajoling, Begging, wanting Friendship and more ..
There is nothing Indian about it. Its just true for men and women alike from all races. | |
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| what white girls think about indian men & married life?
Posted: 6/27/2008 6:26:05 PM | But if one is in a loving secure marrige why the looking around..
Personally I think it is just an excuase for some to see if they can have their cake and eat it as well..
I also love the guys who state , I am happilly married but I miss my single life etc..
If you wanted to be single..WHY MARRY in the first place.. | |
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| what white girls think about indian men & married life?
Posted: 6/29/2008 11:44:18 AM | I should admire your indirect personal attack. I believe you are talking generally about men and not about Indians.
To answer direct to your indirect comments
But if one is in a loving secure marriage why the looking around..
Marriage is much more than sex or physical attraction. Finding other women attractive doesn't qualify me to kill my happy marriage. Again "Happy" is relative word. Who said if you are happily married you won't find others attractive? If that was the case majority of the married couple would qualify for divorce.
[Quote]Personally I think it is just an excuse for some to see if they can have their cake and eat it as well..[/Quote]
Would you be my cake after reading my profile? I guess not because its not meant to.
[Quote] I also love the guys who state , I am happily married but I miss my single life etc..
No secret there...couldn't think of more honest statement...
PS. My previous responses were to state my opinion that all men or women are same and behave in a same way regardless of their race. Relating anything to particular race is just mistake. Things which make any individual happy or unhappy are universal. | |
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| what white girls think about indian men & married life?
Posted: 6/30/2008 6:45:06 AM | Well, the man I'm dating is Syrian, and though we have definite cultural differences, that is where it begins and ends. He's always a gentleman, treats me well, and is a good listener. I don't introduce him as my Syrian boyfriend-I introduce him as my friend. He makes me happy because he genuinely cares about ME!
Happiness can be found anywhere with anyone-but to suggest one race is better than another or makes for more of a quality relationship is hog wash-that is accomplished by the two parties involved. | |
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| what white girls think about indian men & married life?
Posted: 7/11/2008 4:42:03 PM | | I prefer to date Indian men. It's an attraction for me. I love the music, food, culture, accent, etc.. I am not racist against my own race/culture, but it's just what is attractive or what's not to each person. The main problem I have found is what I have read in these forums.. many Indian men will "date" white women then leave to marry an Indian woman. This happened to me after dating him (and living together) for 5 yrs. We had some problems, broke up.. and 2 months later, he was married to a total stranger.. and Indian woman his parents arranged for him. I haven't stopped dating Indian men.. just more cautious! | |
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| what white girls think about indian men & married life?
Posted: 7/14/2008 8:03:13 PM | The reason why Indian parents are cautious to accept Caucasians is because of core difference in values (Not better or worse) not because of colour. Religion factors in but those rules are same for Indians as well. There are lots of inter caste (class) or inter religion marriages happening in India and odds for Caucasians girls/guys are same.
Having said that, western culture is approached cautiously as Indian families are family oriented and generally parents live with their kids in their old age (Rarely otherwise). Which is considered as responsibilities of kids. This is due to social and conscience reasons. To many western girls (Not necessarily caucasian) this is big negative and they tend to separate after marriage. Which is pretty much big no no as parents feel left out and see it as their failure of parenthood. Its just that girls who are not family oriented are seen in negative light. Ofcourse other things (as in all marriages) also come into play as well. | |
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| what white girls think about indian men & married life?
Posted: 7/14/2008 11:16:18 PM | Manna, you complain that caucasians make sweeping, ignorant generalizations but your own posts are guilty of this in reverse too. Your last post implies that people in the Western culture are not 'family oriented'. That's total b.s. My family is very important to me. But we don't have to demonstrate respect by standing in the shadow of elders or mates personal ideals. Instead of feeling neglected, most parents are happy to see their children happy. Even if that means their kids live their lives as they choose. Generally, Western culture believes individuals have a right to pursue happiness as they define it for themselves, rather than being defined for them through rigid tradition.
You complain responders here don't know very much about your culture and are ignorant. Well, when you point a finger Sir, recall that four point back at you. Pointing out our close mindedness only confirms your own. | |
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| what white girls think about indian men & married life?
Posted: 7/15/2008 5:35:36 AM | I am Sorry, I think I wasn't clear enough. I was talking about perception Indians or Indian parents have about western society. I agree its not true and I know it after interacting with people here.
Showing respect by following or not its personal choice or say cultural thing. I think this is exactly what is known as cultural difference. We are taught in different way than in western society. I am not saying either is better or worse. There are good reasons for the way things happen they way they happen.
Its wrong to think our way is the best way and I think we sometimes are guilty/victim of that. | |
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| what white girls think about indian men & married life?
Posted: 8/4/2008 9:04:55 AM | That is really really sad....
...but then again if it happened exactly as you said. You know, like who was this rapist and what is the cause, and is there some wierd history...because if the husband was some village bumpkin, I'd understand, but a doctor. There may be something more than meets the eye. But if not, that's a horrible man. | |
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| what white girls think about indian men & married life?
Posted: 8/6/2008 12:05:36 PM | I think Indian culture is of a real high standard towards the family values and I really adore this.. been around many Indian families and I loved their way of living and thinking and sticking out for each other.
I also love a good Bollywood love drama and I am in love with guy called Arjun Rampal  ..would instantly move to India to stay with Mr Rampal | |
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