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Joined: 4/15/2005
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Yes I am looking for her, I am, a masochist that way.

She Isn’t easy to find either, she has been hiding for a little while, I figured I would get off my back side and extend my search to the rest of the globe, so far no luck….
 artandsoul
Joined: 11/7/2005
Msg: 127
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Posted: 12/1/2005 3:53:11 AM
I am looking for a lady that I can fall completely, madly, passionately in love with --- in body, mind and soul. Needless to say, it must be someone who can feel that same way about me. Do I think I will find her here? Who knows? It's definitely a possibility but frankly I'm getting a little disillusioned with the whole online dating scene.

I know there are some here who are what they claim to be but also an awful lot who are anything but. Also, the rudeness of women who claim to be looking for what I am looking for and yet don't even have the decency to send even a brief reply to a sincere, thoughtful letter I find shocking. To all the ladies and gents who do have some class here, I tip my hat!
 donut21222
Joined: 7/18/2005
Msg: 128
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Posted: 12/1/2005 4:30:42 AM
To: beautifulwoman4u, Wow, great for you. I was curious, do they think they are dating you exclusively or do they know you are dating others? If they know you are dating others I would for a time date both of them see which one you have more in common with and more chemistry with. Shouldnt be to hard to figure that one out. If they are both great guys I wouldnt wait to long however because you may let a good one slip away, best of luck to ya.
 shellybelly
Joined: 10/9/2005
Msg: 129
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Posted: 12/1/2005 6:45:23 AM
Yep. That's the only reason I'm on here. Everything else I can find easily without being on the internet.
 CountrySugar
Joined: 7/15/2005
Msg: 130
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Posted: 12/1/2005 6:51:07 AM
You can't look for your soul mate..you just find each other ..
 sonoranstud
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 131
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Posted: 12/1/2005 7:06:17 AM
to be honest i am always looking for my potential soulmate everywhere not just on this website.that is because i have not found her as of yet or if i have i just don't realize i have yet.
 sambucadawg
Joined: 10/2/2005
Msg: 132
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Posted: 12/1/2005 8:53:09 AM
personally i don't believe in the "soulmate" thing, and mostly it looks like more are here for a "datemate"
 BlackbirdXIII
Joined: 11/20/2005
Msg: 133
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Posted: 12/2/2005 9:47:27 PM
I know I must be a glutton for punishment, but yeah, I am. So far though I haven't seen anyone who comes close enough to want to contact.
 poekie1970
Joined: 12/2/2005
Msg: 134
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Posted: 12/2/2005 10:35:02 PM
I do believe in Soulmates but I dont know if my soulmate is also a member here

So then I will have to look somewhere else lol
 aylesford
Joined: 9/10/2005
Msg: 135
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Posted: 12/3/2005 4:50:41 AM
Believe it or not, yes I am looking for a soulmate or if you prefer to call it a companion. Been single way to long. Will I find her on POF who knows. It is supose to be just one more avenue to get the word out that you are single & looking. How else does people know. Sometimes I feel like a loser for being on here. Wonder how many others feel the sameway?
 charlie_girl
Joined: 11/28/2005
Msg: 136
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Posted: 12/14/2005 10:06:37 AM
I'm a newbie on this site-- about 10 days-- and now, after reading and laughing (mostly) thru many of these responses (different threads), I can't remember.
 charlie_girl
Joined: 11/28/2005
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Posted: 12/14/2005 10:12:34 AM
follow-up... I apologize if my previous remark gave the impression that I am laughing at serious and sincere responses, because I'm not. It's just that some remarks cause me to hyperventilate.
 HB2
Joined: 5/11/2005
Msg: 138
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Posted: 12/14/2005 11:23:31 AM
^^^^^it's commonly referred to as spewing coffee LMAO

Do I think he's here?!

Who knows?

But I'm having fun swimming among the carp ROTF
 beautifulwoman4u
Joined: 8/31/2005
Msg: 139
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Posted: 2/1/2006 4:24:20 AM
Well, after being involved with several "players" recently. I'm beginning to think that maybe "soul mates" falls under the same listings as "the tooth fairy" "santa claus" and "big foot". As a matter of fact I might be able to find Big Foot much easier than my soul mate. Or maybe God forgot to make one for me or maybe he is too far away or perhaps to shy to write to me. bah humbug.
 New-Beginnings
Joined: 1/8/2006
Msg: 140
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Posted: 2/1/2006 5:07:06 AM
I am honestly looking for "THE ONE". You can't stop believing, for once you do, it will make it even harder for someone else to get to know you. The real "you". Yes, there are allot of scumbags out there, here and everywhere else you go to meet people. Here is a "crude" analogy that my father always told me. "The more crap you through against the wall, eventually something will stick"... If you haven't found your soulmate yet, you just haven't gone through enough people. Stay strong, keep the faith, and eventually "THE ONE" will come along.
 aspiring_angel
Joined: 1/25/2006
Msg: 141
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Posted: 2/1/2006 6:15:27 AM
I am only looking to meet people with more potential than the people I currently know. Potential for what? Potential to be "the one" or just a new friend. (you can never have too many). Soulmate? I'm sure they exist, but for me I think it's a bit naive.

To be honest, I've never married, never met that special unique person who could get me to the altar. But I've had a wonderful life despite that.

I like the post that said dating sites are like internet shopping. You can find the best of whatever you are looking for. I do not like that it is so non personal though. When I meet someone in person, I'm not likely to forget their name or face...here I've done that twice. That's just unacceptable in my book.
 Riggity
Joined: 3/17/2004
Msg: 142
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Posted: 2/1/2006 6:38:42 AM
beautifulwoman4u,

That would be cool. But I have to admit that the 'Net is the worst place to meet people. I'm not even sure why I'm here! I created a profile waaaaaaaaaaaaaay waaaaaaaaaaay back allmost 3 years ago, actually, and have been on and off this place several times. It's funny, I can go to the mall and strike up a conversation with anyone amd meet people anywhere, but this online stuff brings out the all kinds of odd behaviour in people.
 Poet102781
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 143
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Posted: 2/1/2006 6:41:00 AM
I dont think you can actually " find " a soulmate......you sorta just cross paths one day and know its right.
 Just_Jay79
Joined: 10/11/2005
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Posted: 2/1/2006 8:30:24 AM
The concept of a soul-mate is a bunch of romanticized fiction bombarding us in the form of novels, movies, tv shows and Hallmark cards

The idea of there being exactly one and only one person on the entire planet that is right for you in the long run, and the fact that most people claim to find that special someone conveniently within 50km reach of their home town is a little too suspect for my tastes Am I looking for a special lady that will rock my world? Yes

Do I believe that she is my soul-mate, hand-cast from the divinity above and created especially for me? Don't make me laugh - my ideal woman coul just as easily be a blonde, brunette or rehead, tall or short, slender or slightly curvy - so long as I find her hot, kind, reasonably intelligent and genuinely interested in me, that's a good enough foundation to start with.

At best, a soul-mate may be something you build up to through shared experiences and a loving relationship, but there are a plethora of potential candidates that could flourish into this "ideal" with time if you both care for each other. Happy fishing to all
 momvon
Joined: 9/21/2005
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Posted: 2/2/2006 6:56:58 AM
Actually I am here to expand my options and see what is out there that isn't: married and looking for something something on the side or just wanting to play around. Limited dating options where I live soooo. I am expanding the view....Great luck to all, sincere in the search!
 mmmnicky
Joined: 1/2/2006
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Posted: 2/2/2006 7:16:20 AM

The idea of there being exactly one and only one person on the entire planet that is right for you in the long run, and the fact that most people claim to find that special someone conveniently within 50km reach of their home town is a little too suspect for my tastes


lol.. u know what, i never quite thought of it like that, lol i think i agree with ur cynicism on that, lol and i had to laugh.
 Just_Jay79
Joined: 10/11/2005
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Posted: 2/2/2006 8:52:13 AM
Thanks mmmnicky,

one of the benefits of being clinically insane is that you at least think outside the box...

Now where's my straight-jacket?
 Pinkdeville
Joined: 8/28/2005
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Posted: 2/2/2006 9:25:53 AM
beautifulwoman4u,maybe your soulmate hasn`t incarnated in this lifetime.You may have shared past lives together and you may have to wait until your next life.Keep an open mind and heart.
 Just_Jay79
Joined: 10/11/2005
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Posted: 2/2/2006 9:54:32 AM
I'm sorry but I'm a little lost here pinkdeville,


beautifulwoman4u, maybe your soulmate hasn`t incarnated in this lifetime.You may have shared past lives together and you may have to wait until your next life.Keep an open mind and heart

Basically you're telling her that she might have to possibly up and die and wait to be reborn before she can have love again? Pray tell, how does one keep an open mind and heart with that kind of prognosis?

I've said it before and I'll say it again, the concept of a soulmate doesn't exist, and I can't imagine anyone already planning what to do in their next life if they are already having problems in their current one (but then again I'm an infidel that doesn't believe in reincarnation )

Man some of this new age stuff blows my mind... Yeah there are some old religions that believe in reincarnation too, but come on people, if the current life you have is such a waste of time then you may as well take a toaster into the shower with you and get a jump start on that shiny new next life of yours
 mario1969
Joined: 6/4/2005
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Posted: 2/2/2006 11:04:56 AM
isnt everone here looking for the same thing.

its just that some are honest,
some dont tell the honest truth,
some are scared to,

surely we're all here for the same reason.
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