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 livewirehere
Joined: 8/10/2004
Msg: 101
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Yeah~~Being different, unique ((tattoos, piercings, but not always)).... Confidence, in that bad boy way~~~LOL
 HB2
Joined: 5/11/2005
Msg: 102
what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/7/2005 11:05:28 AM
When you can tell he takes the time to think through whatever he posts beforehand
 Poorgie
Joined: 9/18/2005
Msg: 103
what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/7/2005 1:41:43 PM
Helping an old lady cross the street.
 amust2c
Joined: 9/28/2005
Msg: 104
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what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/7/2005 2:29:53 PM
Make me laugh and you're there.
 Poorgie
Joined: 9/18/2005
Msg: 105
what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/7/2005 4:04:39 PM
1. An attention-grabbing screen name
2. A stop-the-presses headline
3. A terrific secondary photo
4. The right pop-culture reference
5. Laugh-out-loud lines
6. Intriguing suggestions for how you’ll spend together-time
 oneafternoon
Joined: 3/15/2005
Msg: 106
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what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/7/2005 5:36:35 PM
I love your where's waldo doll!
 Poorgie
Joined: 9/18/2005
Msg: 107
what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/7/2005 5:59:05 PM
Sorry changed my theme
 angel_smile
Joined: 9/18/2005
Msg: 108
what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/7/2005 6:03:26 PM
pics
height
sense of humour
confidence
 travisty
Joined: 9/9/2005
Msg: 109
what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/7/2005 6:46:36 PM
Coveralls, pitch-fork, and a bucket
 Torguy
Joined: 5/14/2005
Msg: 110
what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/7/2005 8:18:48 PM
what makes a man stand out in a crowd?

Nothing does. Be a man leave the crowd and go talk to her.
 always_striving
Joined: 7/18/2005
Msg: 111
what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/7/2005 9:15:53 PM
A crowded subway train in Tokyo has some standing out and some standing in.
 bigsmile
Joined: 4/25/2005
Msg: 112
what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/7/2005 10:08:35 PM
This brings up an interesting phenomenon, I think. Does the same apply to men's profiles on line? I was recently at a music street festival, great music actually....well, 2 particular men out of 100's caught my eye. Shame on me that I left without actually speaking to either but the point is, there were at least dozens of good looking men there that day so what about those 2 in particular made me notice??? Is it the same on line??? Is it some type of chemistry, psychic, those thingamajiggers that they say opposite sex partners can sense , just what is it??? Can the chemistry be felt through the written word??? As usual, I have more questions then answers. Has anyone else noticed this???
 HB2
Joined: 5/11/2005
Msg: 113
what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/7/2005 10:09:57 PM
It's the same online^^^^^^^
 Katherine001
Joined: 7/20/2005
Msg: 114
what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/9/2005 8:27:09 AM
Presence…….there are certain men that have a presence, or uniqueness about them that will draw me to them. I can sense it without even speaking to them. Unfortunately it’s a rare occurrence.
 CountrySugar
Joined: 7/15/2005
Msg: 115
what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/9/2005 8:29:30 AM
The way he fills out his levi's
 Double Cabin
Joined: 11/29/2004
Msg: 116
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what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/9/2005 9:14:21 AM
An Orange Jumpsuit?
 CountrySugar
Joined: 7/15/2005
Msg: 117
what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/9/2005 9:15:25 AM
lol ? brunette moment sorry..
 CinnamonCat
Joined: 7/21/2005
Msg: 118
what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/9/2005 9:23:37 AM
What makes a man stand out in a crowd (or more properly what makes his profile stand out on POF)....I always like a picture of a guy with a cat, dog, kitten or puppy. Yes, they really are chick magnets, but only if you really truly like pets. A photo of the guy doing something, like a snapshot someone took of him at work or doing something with friends.

Another thing that makes a guy stand out in a not so good way: mentioning sex in his profile. I'm gonna say it again, guys, we do NOT need a reminder that you "like sex" or see it listed in your interests etc. We are taking that for granted! It just makes you sound like that's your main and only interest, or that you are a perv, so don't do that!
 TheDevilsAdvocate
Joined: 2/27/2005
Msg: 119
what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/9/2005 9:27:02 AM
The way he interacts with the people around him.

I tend to go for guys who are either laughing with friends (showing their confidence), or guys who are a bit aloof and seem sophisticated (giving me some mystery to work with).

Maria XOXO
 HB2
Joined: 5/11/2005
Msg: 120
what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/9/2005 9:29:47 AM
When they say Let's Meet...It shows they're serious and not just into the chat thing
 time2spare
Joined: 9/29/2005
Msg: 121
what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/10/2005 12:32:43 AM
I think when there is a presence recognized or my uniqueness. If I were to notice that I drew someone to me because of those things I would fill out my jeans better and look out, I'm standing up, oops!! out in a crowd.

Seriously, a friend of mine and I had this conversation just yesterday over coffee after some verbal intercourse with some women at an indoor flea market. The whole place didn't have 20 people in it because of the lousy weather. Everyone wanted us at their booths because nobody was selling anything. Bearing, eye contact, humor (we had the whole place rolling on the floor), and it just seemed the closer we got to asking them out, the more other women were attracted. So.......let me pose a sidebar. Are women attacted by men already with another woman? My buddy actually said he does better on the dating scene when he wears his old wedding band. I have another friend with young children who attracts more dates on visitation days then any other time. Wow. using a stroller for bait!! I have received advice from female friends to make my girlfriend jealous and I'll get all the acrobatic sex I ever dreamed of. Any comments?
 jacqiO
Joined: 2/6/2005
Msg: 122
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what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/10/2005 1:01:55 AM
One with not of arrogance but of confidence of who he is; not afraid to look me in the eye and say, "hey, hi, how are you, etc." We'll strike up convo...easily....maybe not a match today...but possibly a friend tomorrow...

Just a POV...
 smitten2meetu
Joined: 11/16/2004
Msg: 123
what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/10/2005 1:05:09 AM
Being surrounded by the police and lead off in handicuffs...lol

O/T The ability to articulate his thoughts and has a great sense of humour. He stands out by his strengths and has sense of self and know's what he wants. Its not just one thing, its all the little things that make his character and personality.
 Katherine001
Joined: 7/20/2005
Msg: 124
what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/10/2005 11:24:57 AM
time 2 spare

To answer you question, NO NO NO
If a man is with another woman, I'm not intersted. I can do better.
Guy with a wedding ring = Kryptonite ....not interested. There are a lot of single men out there. No need to take second place.
As for a man with children....lol
HELL NO.!!!!... I've already raised my kids...

 time2spare
Joined: 9/29/2005
Msg: 125
what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/10/2005 1:33:38 PM
Katherine001

I agree and am not at all surprised. He, and several others seem to think jealously is a great motivator. I think, like you, it motivates a person with a brain to head for those greener pastures. If I'm with a woman, she is all I think about and making her jealous is a head game. I couldn't be bothered to dive to the bottom of the pond for my wedding band just to measure a reaction. The only women that approached me while I was walking with my kids or pushing them in a stroller where older ladies/grandmothers who wanted to offer advice if they saw me doing something wrong. I read your answers loud and clear.........can do better (no doubt).........no need for second place (exactly).........already raised your kids (it's your time now and I'd have a heck of a time getting any of my 5 kids back into a stroller). Thank you for the reality check. I'm going back to the mall to look for some of those grandmothers because as I remember, they looked pretty good.
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