| | what makes a man stand out in a crowdPage 6 of 8 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8) | | Knows Himself well.....Knows what He likes....and is at Peace with Himself,kind to others..and loves life,..He puts his loved ones before himself,...very funny,and can make others laugh easily. | |
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Garf
| | Joined: 4/4/2005
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Garf
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guyd40
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| what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/10/2005 6:55:27 PM | | Rent a BMW for a day and take a pic with you in it, post it on your profile! Sweet talk a lot, and write all the bs woman wish to hear. It's sad but it works. | |
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| what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/10/2005 7:44:25 PM | | A guy will stand out in a crowd for me via his personality. If he is confident, yet humble, makes eye contact, truly listens to those around him, etc. I also tend towards guys with a bit of intensity and who are good with non-sexual affection. There is something warm and personable about a man who is grounded enough in his masculinity to engage in purely non-sexual physical affection with those around him in an appropriate fashion. | |
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| what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/10/2005 8:25:03 PM | | It may work for some shallow gals, GuyD, but that wouldn't work for me, and I'll bet there are plenty of other gals here that aren't that shallow either. | |
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| what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/10/2005 8:37:56 PM | | When they say something personal instead of.... Hey you got nice tits or your hot! Damn put a little effort into your emails!!!!! Then maybe you will get a second look! | |
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ksue44
| | Joined: 6/20/2005
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| what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/10/2005 8:44:13 PM | I started writing on the other thread to Rock's thread and it got deleted.
What makes a man stand out in the crowd? His profile will not look like any of the others. When I read his profile, I can laugh at his humor, feel his passion about his hobbies, and understand his love for life. Best of all, I am reading about a man who has a plan.
I can sense his love and respect for women, when he writes about how a date with him will be like. His profile will be so darn creative, it isn't about the ol cliche of "looking for a beautiful, honest woman", blah, blah, blah.. He will have put time, effort, and a great deal of care into writing his profile. It will be as though he wrote his profile with me in mind!
When I look at his picture, his eyes are full of life, laughter, and a hint of mischief. Okay, he'll have an awesome bedroom set of eyes to boot! His picture will reflect a man who takes pride in himself, his smile so big, and that somehow, I can't help but want to be with him. | |
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| what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/10/2005 9:02:59 PM | What a load of bull. Judging by your "voting history" you are mostly interested in "hunks" in their 30's. If any of these guys are into imaginative, creative writing I'll eat my jeans.
I put a lot of "time, effort, and a great deal of care", plus humour into my profile and have had a very select few takers. So much for fairy tales, I've been hearing this kind of B.S. from women since I was in high school, you guys are interested in beefcake and every bit as visually oriented as men are - only you don't want to admit it. | |
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| what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/10/2005 9:05:47 PM | | *meekly puts hand up* I admit to being visual..I don't deny the fact that I need to be physically attracted to someone.. | |
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| what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/10/2005 9:21:51 PM | | CountrySug, I don't think there's anything wrong with that and you don't have to put your hand up meekly. Chemistry & physical attraction ARE human nature and something that can't be denied. I think for me, I take issue with it when someone makes looks their number one criteria. | |
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Garf
| | Joined: 4/4/2005
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| what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/10/2005 9:26:44 PM | | Looks are important to a degree, but not enough to base a relationship on. Everyone knows it, whether they choose to follow that or not is up to them. | |
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| what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/10/2005 9:28:59 PM | | oh well I don't do that..I like to get to know people..my tastes have varied ..from tall, thin to the big teddy bear types..and sometimes once you get to know someone you didn't find all that attractive, they become more appealing simply because of who they are..did that make sense? | |
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Garf
| | Joined: 4/4/2005
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| what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/10/2005 9:32:53 PM | It sure does to me, CountrySug. In fact, here's what I just posted on another forum where a man is stating he would never date a large woman:
I would rather chat with and get to know a man before seeing his pic. Then I already know if I like him when I see him. His personality, character, intelligence, wit, and integrity are far more important to me than his physical looks. I have been chatting with a guy since around Memorial Day that I met on a dating site, and he lives 1500 miles away from me. I grew to like him after we chatted a while. Some weeks later he went on cam for me, and I did not find him physically attractive, but continued to chat with him cause I liked him as a person. I have grown very fond of him and even think that I would be willing to meet him someday in person and maybe it COULD develop into more because I have grown so fond of his personality and character.
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| what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/10/2005 9:40:29 PM | | I know the physical part is very important .. but sometimes..you do have to get to know the person before making your final decision..one of my favorite men on this site..is pictureless..I adore him to bits and I haven't a clue what he looks like..lol and I wouldn't care to be honest..I just love who he is, I'd love to meet him, and it wouldn't bother me if he was a hunch back..he's a doll.. | |
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ksue44
| | Joined: 6/20/2005
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| what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/10/2005 9:44:31 PM | Oh, I'm not afraid to say that a man's looks may open the door for me, but get real here. Looks don't sustain a relationship. If you're in a dander because some of the fellas I've voted for are in their 30's, shame on you. Just because I vote for someone doesn't mean I want to date them. If I pick up a Playgirl and read it, does it mean I want to date or marry the guys? Of course not. Same thing if you watch a porno or pickup a Playboy, doesn't mean you want to date or marry the women...
The first thing you notice about a person is their looks. Many of women will gripe the same issue that all the men do is look at their pictures and not read their profiles. Looks alone will not make a man stand out in the crowd for me, it's got to be the whole package! | |
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| what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/10/2005 9:48:27 PM | I think crazy people stand out most in a crowd....
I always hear whispers...some of them even make circular motions..around their temples..
I revel in the attention...of every body is giving me...
Then I look down ....and I see ........I forgot to zip up my fly............ | |
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| what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/10/2005 9:55:28 PM | They make circular motions around their temple? That's odd.... why wouldn't they just say something like "Caribbean, XYZ!" or "Hey, King! You're barn door is opened!?"
OT: I love to hear you say that Country. So sweet about your mystery man! | |
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Garf
| | Joined: 4/4/2005
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HB2
| | Joined: 5/11/2005
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| what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/10/2005 10:03:26 PM | Please don't go by my voting history......it's not me doing the voting.
His profile and the first few mails say it all | |
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| what makes a man stand out in a crowd
Posted: 10/10/2005 10:03:44 PM | | Pgooper...... You're still going on about this I see.... I don't get it... Making me the enemy because I can't be attracted to a large woman. I love it. | |
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