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 Eclipsa
Joined: 7/20/2007
Msg: 126
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A few years ago I had a pregnancy scare.Naturally I was freaking out so I decided to confide with my mom and told her what was going on.I was 22 at the time and it was my "first time" so I was quite over-whelmed and emotional because of that-and it had hurt like hell!Seriously,I walked like a penquin for awhile because I was in pain lol.
When I told my mom I was crying because I was terrified of how she'd react and I was having a hard time adjusting to losing my virginity if that makes any sense.All in all I was an emotional mess lol.
Anyway my parents tell each other everything and I mean everything!So that's how my parents found out that I was sexually active.BTW it turned out I wasn't pregnant thank God!We were very lucky as we didn't use protection.I know,it was a very stupid thing to do and when I get into a new relationship Iam going on the pill!
 coldlogic
Joined: 12/29/2008
Msg: 127
How did your parents find out that you were having sex?
Posted: 5/30/2009 8:42:28 AM
I said , hey mom i think i need to get birth control now
and she said
alright.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 128
How did your parents find out that you were having sex?
Posted: 5/30/2009 9:16:51 AM
They got suspicious when the babysitter started working Pro Bono.

 humptyhump1984
Joined: 5/14/2009
Msg: 129
How did your parents find out that you were having sex?
Posted: 5/30/2009 9:36:23 AM
My mom found a used condom under my bed full of sperm.
 Cherysh
Joined: 4/1/2009
Msg: 130
How did your parents find out that you were having sex?
Posted: 5/30/2009 6:42:19 PM
Well I had my boyfriend over at the time, they had been out all evening and walked in, we were embaressed. Oh well. I was over 20. lol
 crazy4mars
Joined: 2/9/2009
Msg: 131
How did your parents find out that you were having sex?
Posted: 5/30/2009 10:47:51 PM
I told my mom I was sleeping over at my boyfriends as I walked out the door.
 MADE_4_U
Joined: 6/4/2009
Msg: 132
How did your parents find out that you were having sex?
Posted: 7/22/2009 6:51:28 PM
My dad found a single blond hair (I'm a brunette) and a footprint on the ceiling in the backseat of his Toyota. I tried denying it but eventually broke down. He was pissed.
 BlondE324
Joined: 6/17/2008
Msg: 133
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How did your parents find out that you were having sex?
Posted: 7/22/2009 7:00:49 PM
I was 25 the first time I had sex. I kinda, casually confirmed it, that after 7 months together, we had made love. I had already been on the pill for 4 months by that point. It wasn't a big deal, again, I was 25.
 El_Mariachi
Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 134
How did your parents find out that you were having sex?
Posted: 7/22/2009 7:34:04 PM
I told my mom. Hehehehe I still don't think she's over it either.
 Connor-19
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 135
How did your parents find out that you were having sex?
Posted: 7/22/2009 9:00:29 PM
I used to hide my condoms and then I stopped caring about hiding it. Mommy found them and flipped, I just laughed. Protective as usual she went to daddy and ranted...I found it all funny because a sex talk is given to you wheb you're like 16...not 19.

The best part was they thought that since it was the first ones they found...it was the first one I bought.

Whatever helps them sleep at night
 HazelRose
Joined: 6/15/2009
Msg: 136
How did your parents find out that you were having sex?
Posted: 7/22/2009 9:20:03 PM
I was 19, and was living on my own when I met the guy of my dreams. The condom broke, and I called my godmother for help.
 Technical Buddha
Joined: 3/11/2005
Msg: 137
How did your parents find out that you were having sex?
Posted: 7/22/2009 9:42:36 PM
*to mom*

Hi, Grandma ! *points to ex's baby bulge*

thankfully, too old to be grounded at the time I broke the news.
 longlocks40
Joined: 2/5/2007
Msg: 138
How did your parents find out that you were having sex?
Posted: 7/22/2009 9:51:28 PM
The same thing happened to me, my dad payed for my birth control pills way before i ever had sex! I am gald he did because 10 months later I had sex.
 parklabrea
Joined: 1/4/2009
Msg: 139
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How did your parents find out that you were having sex?
Posted: 7/22/2009 10:32:41 PM
My family happened to rent the first porno I had a role in. I was Sven Holer. the Scandanavian pile driver. They were upset because I was still 15 and and also because I had talked the entire neighborhood into being extras.
 Miss W
Joined: 12/4/2006
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How did your parents find out that you were having sex?
Posted: 7/22/2009 10:45:50 PM
Mine both denied it for years, I knew that they knew but looked the other way. The first time my dad acknowledged it, was when my beau at the time (who became a good friend and confidante to him) mentioned to me that he told Dad that it was weird waking up next to his nose in the morning. I scolded him profusely for Dad believed that I was a virgin. Dad and I never discussed it.

The other time was when Mom (well in to her 70's and divorced from Dad for over 30 years) mentioned that he jumped on and off like a jack rabbit. I let her know that I did not need the information. She then asked me why for she figured that I was a big girl who had at one time in my life had the same experience. Mom is now 89, has dementia and still says pretty much still says what she damned well pleases.
 WalkingInLondon
Joined: 2/21/2005
Msg: 141
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How did your parents find out that you were having sex?
Posted: 7/22/2009 11:38:58 PM
My mom is a snooper, and I had been with my boyfriend for six months and we had decided that the time had come to take our relationship to the next level. He took me to my appointment early one morning and waited while I went through the examination and got put on the Pill. Those were the days when you had to wait a whole month before it kicked in, so needless to say, the anticipation was building, and I was nervous as a cat.
Well the month passed, and he had a whole romantic evening planned for us at a friend's home. We were going to go out to dinner, then go back to the house and go at it for the first time. But before the date, my mother comes out of my room and confronts me in the kitchen. She had gone through my purse, found the pills, and was ballistic. She sat me down and lectured me for over an hour about how 'They don't buy the cow if they get the milk for free.' I was so traumatized, I called my bf, told him what happened and canceled the date. I stayed on the pill, and told my mother I was still a virgin, but that I wanted to keep taking them because they helped my period pain and made them so short. She agreed I could stay on them, but two weeks later, I broke up with my boyfriend because of the guilt (I felt like I was leading him on, by not going through with things after all the planning) and I started dating a guy 6 years older than me. Fast forward two months later, he had a ring on my finger, and convinced me to give up my virginity on the top of a mountain in his new Ford Ranger. Needless to say, it was horrible, unromantic, and all the way home I kept thinking to myself 'This is what I was so worked up about?' I felt like an idiot.
Mom found out what had happened about a month later when she found my journal, hidden behind my clothes in my closet. She told me I got what I deserved, and she hoped that I would wait to do it again until I was older and wiser. But then she told me she was glad that I had taken the initiative to get on the pill, so at least there wouldn't be any chance of pregnancy. I don't think she told Dad about it, at least I hope she didn't, he would have been extremely embarrassed.
Looking back, I should have stayed with my boyfriend and waited until I was really ready. He was a really good guy, and he cared a lot for me.
Beth
 Shay~Shay22
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 142
How did your parents find out that you were having sex?
Posted: 7/22/2009 11:54:09 PM
When I told them I was pregnant.lol I was 23 too

My mom thought I was a virgin too... I'm sneaky
 08wrx
Joined: 7/16/2009
Msg: 143
How did your parents find out that you were having sex?
Posted: 7/23/2009 12:19:00 AM
my mom found some condoms in my car, but I was 17....
 Joeld49
Joined: 8/12/2005
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How did your parents find out that you were having sex?
Posted: 7/23/2009 3:37:21 PM

How did your parents find out that you were having sex?


My GF and I put an ad in the local paper for another couple, and my parents showed up.
 Miss W
Joined: 12/4/2006
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Posted: 7/23/2009 10:22:13 PM

My GF and I put an ad in the local paper for another couple, and my parents showed up.

Now if this is true, this is the absolutely most hilarious thing that I have ever read on these forums!
 PTgurl
Joined: 8/5/2008
Msg: 146
How did your parents find out that you were having sex?
Posted: 7/23/2009 10:31:23 PM
I think I may have tipped them off when I asked if they would buy me a crib and a stroller for Christmas...
 ~JustSimplyMe~
Joined: 8/18/2006
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How did your parents find out that you were having sex?
Posted: 7/23/2009 10:49:11 PM
when I was 17 and asked my mom to please remember to fill out my birth control prescription...she offered to buy me a pregnancy test instead. She had noticed I hadn't had my period for quite sometime...
She was smarter than I
 dt_freak1
Joined: 6/2/2009
Msg: 148
How did your parents find out that you were having sex?
Posted: 7/24/2009 5:56:14 AM
quite frankly, I'm not sure if my parents know or not. if they believe me to still be a virgin then I guess they can go on believing that like all the crazy babble that their preacher tells them. I really don't give a care what they think anymore as their crazy religious views and embarrassing stories and my dad's obsessions with organs and organ music has really turned my life into a living hell. *shrug* yea mom, im still a virgin and no ive never ever been drunk i swear! hahaha. and if they believe that i have a bridge to sell them.
 janebow
Joined: 7/20/2009
Msg: 149
How did your parents find out that you were having sex?
Posted: 7/24/2009 12:09:32 PM
my mum walked in on me and saw all lol
 ohio07
Joined: 12/27/2008
Msg: 150
How did your parents find out that you were having sex?
Posted: 7/24/2009 5:28:56 PM
My dad doesn't want to know that any of us are having sex. My sister's are 35, 33 and I just turned 29. I tried to talk about who I was dating the last time and he got all defensive. I mean what the hell. Talking about dating as an adult. Some parents just see you as a "little girl, or boy" even years after puberty, when you don't even look like a child anymore. I find it odd and amusing at the same time.

I could understand the aversion to knowing about sex when your kid is a teenager... But an adult. I mean if we're married, um I assure you we've had sex with that person at SOME point!
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