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Posted: 10/3/2005 4:54:48 AM | Wow you gave him you're adress to you're house? thats one of the  WORST things you could ever do. Because you could not even like the guy and will probably love you and stalk you after. Or he could be a rapist YOU have to think about that!!! | |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 5:59:45 AM | Those type of ppl don't follow through, no intent on any kind of commitment friendship or other wise. soooo I always say it happened for a reason ,usually a good reason. You are better off, thank your lucky stars.
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he just was not that into me period...
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Posted: 10/3/2005 7:39:52 AM | Hey Soulfishy!
Let him know that unless he contact you ASAP with regard to the return of your jacket, you will have to consider the item stolen and will be contacting the police. That should get his attention! | |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 9:33:46 AM | | I hadn't quite given him my address. He was going to call when he was on his way and I never got a phone call. but you make a great point. | |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 10:20:16 AM | Notaprincess, good idea, I had entertained that thought. You know Jamie, sometimes we can be way too trusting huh? Too bad this dating thing doesnt come with a set of rules.EG
#1 dont invite them to your house or tell them your last name or home phone number until date seven
#2 at the end of your date, make sure you have all your personal belongings, do an inventory, so you dont have to contact each other ever again if you dont want to!
etc....
 anyway, live and learn hey, such is life in the puddle | |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 10:40:46 AM | amen norolim
get back in the saddle and fish
people get stood up all the time onPOF or not!
ican tell you though my rule for myself is 2 chances then whoever gets the boot!
only becausethere maybe some legit reason
that he or she didnt make it
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Posted: 10/3/2005 10:49:39 AM | | Thee must be some very stupid guys out there because the women saying they have been stood up are down right beautiful. I have had the opportunity to go out with a couple of women from POF and some were not quite what I expected but had a wonderful time anyway. Any guys reading thios post need to keep in mind that the time you spend with someone is what you make of it. If the person is not what you think is right for you let them know that but have fun and make a new friend. There have been ladies that I went out with and we have remained friends but they are definatly not right for a relationship. | |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 10:58:27 AM | online dating is a SCAM.
less than 1% relationships are actually Successful. I got that figure from doing my own stats based on a study we did back when we were in School. HAHAHAH.
It was just a test but, online dating is a SCAM!!!!! Think of it this way...
What are the chances of you finding a future husband/wife in a raunchy sex club?
Exactly my point. I am just here to learn from other people's experiences.
If something DOES come along, I'll take it for what it is. But not really looking. Thats why my profile says "Friends"
Friendship is unbeatable. It wins over any kind of a relationship in my opinion.
Its funny in today's world, Friendship is for free, yet it seems that love comes at a price. | |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 4:48:18 PM | I'd like to see the methodology and complete results of that 'test' Mr. Clean.
And, how did you compare that data to the other various places that you can find a spouse?
Me thinks that 'test' was missing all kinds of data. | |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 4:51:04 PM | First you said he was supposed to show up, then you said he was supposed to call?
If a guy told me he would give me directions when I get close to his place, you can bet your ass I'd be thinking he's sending me to the wrong place just to watch. Yeah maybe he did back out but under the circumstances one can't blame him. | |
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Posted: 10/3/2005 5:09:17 PM | Jamie remove your female restrictions...so some of your female friends on here can find out who it was   | |
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Posted: 10/7/2005 12:14:07 PM | Some men are just weird. With me it's mostly the females "saying" they want to talk on the phone, or however, but NEVER do. Not always, but the majority.
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Posted: 10/7/2005 12:23:13 PM | Do you know how this kind of thing REALLLLYYYY SUX?
Makes me real mad when guys do this.....
Makes it that little MORE difficult for guys that really do honestly want to get out there and meet someone and make friends  | |
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Posted: 10/7/2005 6:34:10 PM | Posted By: Soulfishy [drove him back to his bike,]
Hey Soul! That shoulda been your clue bout this dude right there!!! u drove, he has a bike.  consider it a blessing! | |
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Posted: 10/7/2005 6:40:37 PM | | I don't get it, it has never happened to me but that is pretty damn LAME if you ask me!! | |
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Posted: 10/7/2005 6:55:30 PM | There's nothing wrong with inviting someone to your home if you have been conversing on the phone and your gut tells you, you're not afraid of this guy.
I met a guy on-line a year ago and the first time I talked to him on the phone I felt a connection so I said "come pick me up" (although I'd had a couple drinks by then) He did and we were together for almost a year, so always go with your gut or "woman's intuition"
If it feels good in your gut go for it .......if not then avoid at all cost!! | |
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Posted: 10/7/2005 6:59:39 PM | Haha, I have a very strong feeling that I'm going to get stood up tomorrow...
Hopefully it's just a feeling. Ah well, we'll see. | |
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Posted: 10/7/2005 7:00:23 PM | loving you-
I agree with you, I have met a dozen guys online in the past 2 years and I've dated a few, but they've all remained really good friends........all of them. Some of them are actually some of my BEST friends!!! | |
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Posted: 10/7/2005 7:01:47 PM | | if this was the first time some one stood you up then you are lucky I cant even remeber how many times it has been for me. but I will tell whats worse is when you pick them up and they ignore you the whole time, and then leave with some one else. they stood you up with out standing you up its no big deal you get a little mad then laugh at there loss good luck and the big lunker will be just around the next bend in the river | |
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Posted: 10/7/2005 7:02:47 PM | Mr. Clean-
I think you are barking up the wrong tree, I know alot of people that met this way that actually got married and are happy. Not sure what the stats are but it does happen!!
Why are you on here then????? | |
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Posted: 10/7/2005 7:03:05 PM | | only reason someone could have for standing you up is that they were not who they pretended to be. thats my take. | |
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Posted: 10/7/2005 8:31:23 PM | AI03, you dont like Harleys?
Okay, so he did perhaps turn out to be a loser, but a lot of "normal" guys have bikes too...I think... | |
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