| oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/3/2005 6:33:02 PM | | Hustler, I cannot believe that you have not had a lot of men wanting to give you ORAL. I could spend all day with you honey. | |
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| oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/3/2005 8:52:59 PM | I find lots of women talk about it, but get shy about it for some reason.
I also notice when they are starting to lose control of their body, they pull back not wanting to completely go wild. I guess I'll go back to licking envelopes and eating mangos. | |
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| oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/5/2005 1:52:47 AM | | ok, i never said that if i go down that you better go down too, what i said was that when a girl or guy will let someone go down on them but wont go down on thier partner EVER, that it was a double standard. | |
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| oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/5/2005 3:10:23 AM | | dude, if I can't eat ****, she isn't goin down on me!! for real!! I like to munch so much that if she won't let me at the fish taco, she can't even look at my wiener funny | |
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| oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/6/2005 11:23:58 AM | | i much rather give..i love grabbing the ass and feeling her try to get away from the feeling my tongue gives when I'm doing my magic. | |
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| oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/6/2005 11:50:58 AM | | Um this is a little embarasing for me, but here goes, I got married at 18, stayed with him for 12 years and he would never go down on me, said it was gross!!! Well needless to say when I met the next guy he wanted to, and OMG I am a firm believer that it is awsome, makes me wanna give bj to the guy who does it and let them know how good it made me feel, its true should be a give and recieve situation | |
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bez001
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Joined: 9/29/2005
Msg: 33 | |
| oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/6/2005 1:30:42 PM | those guys dont know what they are missing!! nothing quite like numbing ur lady and listening to her moaning.. squirming on ur face until finally she explodes!!! damn.. im in the zone now!! LOL... | |
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| oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/6/2005 1:44:01 PM | I think as long as she's clean, I will lick and eat her until her cooch and ass wrinkles up as if she was bathing in a tub. IMO some women are inhibited and are afraid to have a guy go down there. On the other hand, some women think its gross or demeening to fellate a guy. I guess, if it becomes too much of a problem, then MOVE ON. Someone else will appreciate you much better. | |
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| oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/7/2005 3:27:35 PM | i actually love to give, but i don't like to receive...
...i think maybe because an ex once stopped in the middle of doing it and calmly told me that she "could bite it off" if she wanted to..
I immediately suggested we move on to "other activities" , ever since I've had a phobia..
but I still love to give, and feel, see, hear, & taste her excited reactions...
Since then I have had women try to go down on me but I push them away, I just can't relax and feel comfortable with it..but I go down on them, almost all love it and want more..I can't complain that they are selfish since many do make the offer..but I turn it down..
come to think of it, what a B**** my ex was.. LOL | |
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| oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/7/2005 5:04:21 PM | LOL It took awhile before I would let a man go down on me again...
My first lover....he would go at it like eating an ear of corn...That shit hurt ..I think I still have teeth marks and thats been over 20 years ago...
But once I had it done right 
I'd rather suck a d!ck than eat chocolate  | |
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rwrong
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Joined: 9/16/2005
Msg: 39 | |
| oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/7/2005 6:10:07 PM | | I don't know...I once dated a woman where the only thing we did was ... well, me going down on her... But I knew a guy who wouldn't...so I've no idea... I'm with the guy who quoted Robin Williams about packing a lunch and staying down there for the duration!!! | |
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| oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/7/2005 8:29:13 PM | | I am a rare case,I love giving head to my guy..I am not a huge fan of getting eaten out..so I am all good when it comes to men who don't give oral...you just best be good with your fingers,boy:) | |
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| oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/7/2005 8:42:53 PM | | OK, any guy that does not go down on his partner, is a terrible lover. He apparently has no respect or feelings for the person he has lain with, and just wants to be satisfied regardless. He may as well use a hooker. I feel very sorry for the gals that end up with these selfish men. I will always go down for an hour or so, allowing my partner at least one orgasm before she can even think about pleasuring me. I get off, by watching and feeling my partner get off. Nothing more exciting then watching her eyes roll into her head as she loses herself in pleasure. To me, going down is the most intimate play I can do with someone. I am honored to be there, and I treat it as such! | |
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| oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/7/2005 10:34:20 PM | | A terrible lover?..There are girls who will not give head and men who will not eat their women out,but that does not make them a terrible lover,are you basing all the love on sex?..Like come on some people just do not like doing oral,maybe they've tried it and it just does not agree with them.Sorry but I found that to be a very shallow comment,everyone has their preferences..whatever floats your boat.What would you do if someone considered you a terrible lover..say if you had sex outside your marriage?..If you did that would be business and no one else would have the right to judge you... | |
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| oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/7/2005 10:39:44 PM | is it just me or is anyone else getting a little turned on with all this oral sex talk lol cuz i havent had any in so long and i wasn't even thinkin bout it till i came on this site and now im craving it lol  | |
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NS_PI
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Joined: 2/24/2005
Msg: 46 | |
| oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/8/2005 3:42:45 AM |
Hello Falln. I like your thinking. I would never expect a woman to go down on me, just because I gave her oral. I do it because I want to satisfy them
I would have to agree with this, I have never asked or pushed the subject about getting anything in return for oral sex. I love to do it and I could care less if I got anything in return BJ or sex itself. Just let me go down on you and that is all the pleasures I need. | |
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| oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/9/2005 3:57:47 AM | For all the guys so proud and intent on advertising they can eat it all night and not want or do anything else, I don't think there's that many women that want only that and NOT a good pounding after..(IME, anyway..)
and if there IS, they can get THAT from a woman! (maybe better than you can do it..)
So I wouldn't be beating my chest TOO much about the only thing you love to do is eat it..they'll probably think it's because you can't get it up anyway! LOL :)
Are you guys lesbians trapped in a man's body or what??
or think you're so ugly you "have to", etc. | |
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NS_PI
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Joined: 2/24/2005
Msg: 48 | |
| oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/9/2005 10:58:27 AM | | Not to disappoint you Phyne but I personally know that i love to go down on a woman because i know what i am doing and i do it well. As for the not being able to get it up, mine works fine. Some womanj ust want that and thats fine. If they want sex after, i'm game for that too, but like i said i do not expect anything in return for pleasuring my woman. Maybe if you spent less time in the gym and more time in the bedrom, you might understand what a woman wants and not wat you think she wants. | |
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| oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/9/2005 11:05:51 AM | ooh a touch of hostility there?
I spend a max. of one hour a day in the gym, if it's any of your business..
(I'm sure you're way too busy to spare an hour every other day though...)
seems like maybe you are more in love with your 'cycle than with your woman? do you lick it too?
does it keep you warm at night? (maybe if you get 'er good & hot & snuggle against the tailpipes..)
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