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 PhyneLiquor

Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 51
Medal and Applause for NS_PI, please!!
Posted: 10/9/2005 11:24:02 AM
everybody chip in to buy a medal for NS_PI and give him a standing ovation because he's such a "hero" for wanting to please the woman and not have sex in return, as he has told us over & over again..

maybe if he had self-esteem he wouldn't be reduced to being a sex-toy to be used by a woman with no pleasure for himself..
 redseven07

Joined: 8/11/2005
Msg: 52
oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/9/2005 11:42:30 AM
If she does not let to go down on her, maybe she has something to hide...dont you think? :)
 Jaybo_31

Joined: 6/27/2005
Msg: 53
oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/9/2005 12:07:52 PM
Is it easy: it feels much better to get your****sucked them to eat a women.
 dunebug715

Joined: 5/21/2004
Msg: 54
oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/9/2005 12:34:17 PM
always thought is was better if the woman has hair, and not clean shaven. different postions are great
 NS_PI

Joined: 2/24/2005
Msg: 55
Medal and Applause for NS_PI, please!!
Posted: 10/9/2005 12:50:39 PM
Just to let you know i have a gym in my home so i work out whenever i need to. As for the bike my woman loves it!!! As for the medal sure bring it on, i deserve it! lol The bike is a toy as for me being a toy thats up to the G/F i get my fair share. But thats neither here nor there...I am not worried how u feel dude, just worry about yourself and your love life i will worry about mine. I do not need someone telling me wat i should and should not be doing in the bedroom. The forum was about double standards and as far as i am concerned yes it is a two way street, but but why force your partner to do something they may not always want to do, just go with the flow and it's all good!
 -lebanese-lion--

Joined: 5/23/2005
Msg: 56
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oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/9/2005 1:04:23 PM
me personally, oral sex performed on me is not one of my favortie things,,, i prefer to just give then recieve..
 augus

Joined: 10/19/2003
Msg: 57
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oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/9/2005 3:53:48 PM
I think oral sex is the best thing since white bread, sometimes I think I cannot get enough. Love the taste of a woman.
 bigcats

Joined: 5/31/2005
Msg: 58
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Posted: 10/9/2005 4:06:28 PM
I don't know about a lot of men, I do know I would rather enjoy the jiuces than have her go down on me. But again, everyone is different and we all enjoy the differences.

 Swept Away

Joined: 9/2/2005
Msg: 59
oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 10/9/2005 7:28:54 PM
FaLLeN__AnGeL
[i wish i had personal experince to back up that tidbit of knowledge lol]
Come down and visit me then, darling!
 vladtepes97

Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 60
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oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 9/25/2007 2:36:00 PM
God must be an engineer. only an engineer would run a refuse disposal pipeline through a recreation area.
 WIMMPLEWOP

Joined: 8/30/2007
Msg: 61
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Posted: 9/25/2007 2:42:30 PM
HEYCRAZYASTHEYCUM,,,,,,,,,
THE SWEET TASTE OF A EXCITED CLIT IS EXCITING AND THER IS NO DOUBLE STANDARD HERE.
ENJOY TH ONE NUMBER RIGHT SIDE UP AND THE OTHER UPSIDE DOWN ALL THE WAY TO THE END.
MOIST AND TASTY.
 JetsfaninDE

Joined: 9/20/2007
Msg: 62
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Posted: 9/25/2007 4:08:44 PM
I think it really depends on the "flowers" in question. I was with a girl for a bit and anytime she wanted me to do that I had to fight back gagging (stink weeds). The girl after her was a "bed of roses", which made made me want to get down there and do my thing. Needless to say we had great sex most of the time because of it. It really snapped me out of being the selfish lover that I either was or that "stink weeds" may have perceived me to be.

There's usually a good explanation somewhere if you look hard enough.
 nice_catch77

Joined: 3/28/2007
Msg: 63
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Posted: 9/25/2007 4:32:13 PM
I'd rather give it any day if I receive its a added bonus now I admit there is nothing like a good bj every so often but its no big deal to me.
 imkimmi

Joined: 5/18/2007
Msg: 64
oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 9/25/2007 4:34:51 PM
Ohh WOW!!! ummm yeahhh!! Nothing compares to either,,yummm
now excuse me,, I have to take care of some "ahem" business!!
 john52758

Joined: 8/19/2007
Msg: 65
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Posted: 9/25/2007 5:40:17 PM
Geez! I could not even imagine not going down....and all around !
 thickpipe

Joined: 9/13/2007
Msg: 66
oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 9/25/2007 5:43:23 PM
I like to eat p****y. You know I am having the same issue with my girlfriend. She likes it hen I go down on her but she won't put the hog in her mouth.
 thickpipe

Joined: 9/13/2007
Msg: 67
oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 9/25/2007 5:47:48 PM
HA HA HA HA HA!! STINKWEEDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I always called a nasty smellin kooch "ViVa Laree" or even better "Vinigans Farm"
 JLDouglas

Joined: 4/4/2007
Msg: 68
oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 9/25/2007 6:31:16 PM
I tend to find it's the other way around, the women expect oral sex but don't want to return the favor.

If I give and don't receive, I won't be giving again.
 hardngood

Joined: 2/22/2007
Msg: 69
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Posted: 9/25/2007 9:29:11 PM
I could care less if I get oral...but I LOVE to GIVE a lady head!! I'd rather eat than f**k and I'm hungry all the time!!
 mr. dynomite

Joined: 9/11/2007
Msg: 70
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Posted: 9/25/2007 9:34:24 PM

why is it that alot of men will let a woman give him oral sex, but will not return the favor?



some won't let you.

then the question becomes... "why won't she let me return the favor?"
 dutchpirate

Joined: 3/4/2007
Msg: 71
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Posted: 9/25/2007 9:46:03 PM
A woman needs to be very secure with herself to enjoy oral sex. But I agree that if a guy wants some action but doesn't want to dish it out, then he shouldn't get squat.
 Keithslegacy

Joined: 6/20/2007
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Posted: 9/25/2007 11:12:40 PM
I've never had a problem with it......unless it reeks down there.
 Obtained?

Joined: 6/7/2007
Msg: 73
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Posted: 9/25/2007 11:19:23 PM
Actually, there could be a few hygenic reasons for a woman not to want to be pleasured orally, but, more interestingly, several psychological studies have shown that it may be an issue of control.

Controlling/demanding people tend to resist anything or anyone who tries to manipulate them, for fear of losing their grip(control)on reality. What does oral sex feel like to the reciever? Losing touch with reality to slip into an oblivion of sensations so intense, that with orgasm you lose control!

With the equal rights so prominent, it's not surprising that multitudes of women have turned to those little (completely controllable) gadgets that make relationships so much easier for them!

Personally, if I don't trust my partner, he's not going down there. Thank god I'm not one of those control freaks(sorry sis!)
 tick tock

Joined: 7/30/2006
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Posted: 9/25/2007 11:26:20 PM
Either way, one partner will feel neglected and resentful over time. You can bet that the free ride won't last forever.
 LaddyMike

Joined: 9/14/2007
Msg: 75
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Posted: 9/25/2007 11:36:49 PM
Both partners should want to please the other. It is very selfish for guys to expect head and
to not recipricate. Part of the fun of sex is giving pleasure and making sure your lady is satisfied.
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