| oral sex and the double standard Posted: 9/25/2007 11:44:09 PM | | Giving a woman oral sex is like an amusement park for my senses. Only thing is that everyone is different and what works for some may not work for others. When performing oral, communication is a must in telling your partner what feels best and what doesn't. | |
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| oral sex and the double standard Posted: 9/25/2007 11:54:51 PM | | Personally, I liken oral sex to being at the controls of a pinball machine. You can push buttons, rock or tilt the machine, be aggressive or gentle with the flippers, and each action has a unique reaction with bells, whistles and sirens heralding each successful twist and turn. You, and only you (legal disclaimer: with her consent, of course), are completely in control of the outcome at that point. And...and...if you're really, really good, the machine will gyrate into an orgasmic frenzy, signalling your ascent into the ranks of the sublime. | |
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| oral sex and the double standard Posted: 9/26/2007 2:27:36 AM | This is crazy!
Personally, yes I love having oral but enjoy giving much more!
I could be down there for hours, the pleasure a woman receives whilst receiving oral is awesome and yes it does taste extremely good.
Men in general are selfish in bed.
It's about high time women who don't receive any, stop giving any!!!
C'mon girls..... | |
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| oral sex and the double standard Posted: 9/26/2007 3:35:17 AM | hi x ive bin wiv a few women over the yrs , while they have been happen to go down on me, when i attempted to go down on them, they jus push me away , i luv oral sex to be honest its my favorite x giving and recieving x i even had my tongue pierced for the sole reason ov giving maximum pleasure x i like nothing more than to make a woman cum with my tongue and could munch a nice juicy (preferably smooth shaven) **** for hours x i even got sum little rubber ticklers that fit over the bar and have jus purchased 2 new (get this girls) viberating tongbars x wehey!!!!! giz a shout n lets cht x take care xx john | |
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| oral sex and the double standard Posted: 9/26/2007 11:38:08 AM | | i think giving oral sex to a woman is the best sex of all and compliments her. if she returns the favor even better. problem i see with most women is that they judge you without knowing what pleasures they may enjoy. | |
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| oral sex and the double standard Posted: 9/26/2007 12:08:08 PM | OMG and who are these men who dont enjoy giving oral sex? I have a few rules when it comes to giving oral.... #1. The woman must keep that area VERY clean and smellin good.... #2. The woman must keep trimed in that area, Im not much into parting like Moses did with the Red Sea! #3. The woman must enjoy oral, if ya dont then dont ask for me to give it.... I only give to please.....
With that being said, I could give oral ALL night long with the right women, even better if she's kinky and mixing in alittle dirty talk during...thats a HUGE turn-on!!!
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| oral sex and the double standard Posted: 9/26/2007 2:17:59 PM | i want **** u u look so good ,but don`t worry i`m very good on the bed i`ll show u if u like chat with me,remeber we are in the sem city is easy finde us so do ulike a appoiment with meon this friday?  | |
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| oral sex and the double standard Posted: 9/26/2007 2:29:54 PM | | I could not have long term relationship with a woman who would not go down on me. Especially when she wants me to lick her. Don't get me wrong I love to lick **** and could do it all night. But if she's not willing to please me what's the point. | |
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| oral sex and the double standard Posted: 9/26/2007 6:09:40 PM | Any man that doesnt perform oral sex on his partner is a fuggin douche in my book. In me and my wifes relationship she always cums first and 2nd, then she can play with me.. But then again i have a thing for it..I can eat a peach for hours and be truely content..Nothing better then looking up from down there and seeing her eyes rolled in the back of her head and her biting her lip while moaning..Pure joy in my oppinion.. But just as some women dont like giving up the head there are guys who dont either.. I have problem lickin the naughty bits, and do so with much glee.. Sorry for any of you ladies who dont get your oral lovings..Tis a shame..My wife on the other hand gets it whenever she wants..Shes gone as far as just sitting on my face whilst im in bed watching tele..No arguements here, hehe.. But at the end of the day id expect the same attention from my lover too..  | |
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| oral sex and the double standard Posted: 9/26/2007 6:33:20 PM | Hey I don't mine oral. it just depends whose giving it. Some guys are just not good at it ,while some guys are pros. | |
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| oral sex and the double standard Posted: 9/26/2007 10:31:50 PM | | It all depends, doesn't it? If you truly love something to the point of being passionate, then you will devour it...that is, to crave and devour it like you've never eaten before, and to savour like you've never tasted something so exquisite in your life , and to feel and realize that your sole purpose and your meaning for existence was this one fleeting moment in time. To truly envelope yourself in another and to become one with another soul means nothing can be taboo or grotesque. Ah, whatever...what do I know? | |
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| oral sex and the double standard Posted: 9/26/2007 11:09:18 PM | | I tend to play a bit of a weird game. I don't expect men to go down on me. I'm happy if they want to, but I never ever expect it. I also expect my partner not to expect oral from me. I have a jaw problem (TMJ) that results in a lot of pain after I've gone down on a guy. As in, pain meds, hot pads, and only soup to eat the next day. So when I want to do it, I do. But when someone starts expecting something, it means they've stopped appreciating it. If my man appreciates it, then I'll gladly do it and put up with the pain in the morning/evening (after whenever). | |
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| oral sex and the double standard Posted: 9/27/2007 2:53:53 AM | I absolutely LOVE giving oral sex to a woman! There isn't much more exciting than that, and enjoying her response while your doing it.
The taste of a woman is so erotic, too, and that sexy smell.... oh, yum! Give it to me often! I'll do it as long as you like! :) It's the best. | |
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| oral sex and the double standard Posted: 9/27/2007 7:17:56 AM | Did anyone notice that this thread was started almost 2yrs ago....LOL
But as long as we are still talking about it....
I love giving my guy head.... notice I said "my guy" I don't do that for just anyone and vice-a-versa. When I was younger I was very uncomfortable letting a guy go down on me, guess just becasue I was not that comfortable with sex period. There may seem to be a double standard because... we women know how much guys judge and compare our oral skills.. so maybe some women opt not to give for fear of not being good at it... I know that was my fear at first but hey practice makes perfect  | |
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| oral sex and the double standard Posted: 9/27/2007 7:43:38 AM | uhm...a guy no good at it? Teach him what to do.... If you're at the point where you're this intimate.....u should be able to tell him what feels good and what doesn't.... A willing student scores big in my book.
OT: Selfishness has no place in a relationship. Someone that refuses to give their partner the pleasure they seek....is probably just as selfish in other areas of life. | |
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| oral sex and the double standard Posted: 9/27/2007 10:04:30 AM | | ive never required thats a woman go down on me. i agree that should be a want to thing. but what gets me is the women that just do it as some way to get the guy hot and bothered .there the ones not really good at it. you can tell the difference from a woman that enjoyes it and wants to. and someone thats just doing to get you started. the ones that really like it will finish what they start. i dont care if they swallow or milk it with there hand either way its a hell of an orgasm. if you dont enjoy it enough to finish what you start tne dont bother doing it. its really frustrating and can be a turn off. i love going down on a woman and i dont stop till she cums. i like drinking my reward for a job well done. | |
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| oral sex and the double standard Posted: 9/27/2007 10:15:45 AM | A girl can get aids from giving oral, it's high risk, one drop of HIV positive sperm hits your mouth inside and it's lights out, unless it's done it over a condom which I can't imagine but have heard of.
A woman can not get aids from recieving oral, unless he has a cut in his mouth but the risk is much lower.
That may be one of the reasons. | |
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| oral sex and the double standard Posted: 9/27/2007 10:44:44 AM | | im very repect ful to women in this matter. ive never made someone do something they dont want to. ive never grabed there head. if im reaching that point ill tell you. but a woman who really knows what she doing is usung her hand more then her mouth anyways. so her teeth dont scrap it,that hurts. and so her mouth dont get tired and start hurting. | |
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