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| oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 9/27/2007 5:43:51 PM | | I wouldn't even go out with a woman who didn't like both. Luckily for me I have never met many like that. | |
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| oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 9/28/2007 7:08:43 AM | omg,,, john40m... Tongue ring,,now your talkin,,,dayummm For some reason men think that a "woman" with a tongue ring is hot,, but a "man" having one,, and vibrates mmmmmmmmmm! I took my tongue ring out, it kind of got in the way of technique I have had good, excellent and freaken "mindblowing" experiences and agree with the ladies, anyone can lick but only few can make your eyes roll back and grab anything you can and hold on until your fingers go numb, bite a hole in your bottom lip, and moan so loud that the world can hear it,, then slam my legs together and cross them so hard I can ride the waves of pure ectasy for a few minutes over and over again...mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmyeahhhh that good,, again,, I must excuse myself to take "care" of something...lol!!! | |
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| oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 9/28/2007 12:36:39 PM | MsMicki.... a woman that knows what she is doing will use her hands because she knows there are other things she can do with them to heighten the experience.. I think most guys would agree that the best BJs they have ever gotten were from women that not only used their mouths but their hands as well.
Speaking from personal experience I've had plenty of guys say that they enjoy "hands on" head much better than just sucking! | |
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| oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 9/29/2007 9:45:29 PM | miss anwat i cant agree more. hands and mouth oh yea much better.
a little personal experience of my own... i had a woman put scratchews in the wall cause there was no headboard at the time. i know how to use fingers as well as mouth. | |
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| oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 9/30/2007 7:44:57 AM | I once had a GF who wouldn't let me go downtown. One day I just forced myself on her. About 7 or 8 seconds later she was addicted and from that point on would FREQUENTLY ask me to take a drink...and I happliy oblidged.
Anyone who doesn't absolutely LOVE giving and receiving oral has a problem and should see a therapist. And no, it's not OK that you don't feel that way. This is a clear indicator of a problem that needs to be addressed.
Oral Sex = normal and healthy
No Oral Sex = abnormal and unhealthy | |
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| oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 9/30/2007 11:13:50 AM | dont you people get it? havent you always heard the expression "foreplay, foreplay,foreplay"?? (or maybe the word is defense? humm..cant remember) anyhow, its the same old addage. you get what you give" guys get down there and do whats expected of you in an intimate moment with your woman. i do, hell i love it. and i get this strange pleasure of looking up and seeing the "glazed over" look on her face. eyes all rolled up in her head etc. etc. ive done it so much i actually got extra little musles built up in my mouth that allow me to "love on her long time" . and ladies, you to need to get down there and show a man just how much you appreciate them and love them for whatever reason you do. 69s are the foundation of what should be some good ol'e get down to business love making to follow. wake up people and smell the.............well you know. | |
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| oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 11/2/2007 11:27:31 AM | Hmm... if a man won't go down on me, then I probably won't consider dating him.
Case closed. I will go down on a man, I love pleasing a guy orally (just no cum in the mouth FFS), but he BETTER return the favor. I'll let him cum first if he wants but... yeah. I can't live without oral sex preformed on me, its the only way I can orgasm except via masturbation. But sex won't make me orgasm at all.
Theres nothing gross about the vagina, I wouldn't mind going down on a few girls (recap: I'm bi), heh. But its gross if its not kept up and clean... yick. | |
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| oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 12/2/2008 9:48:04 AM | | I would never allow a woman to go down on me without returning the favor. In fact I met a woman last year that at age of 56 never had oral done to her, it took sometime to convince her to give it a try, once she allowed me the pleasure and she had a toe curling orgasm she was hooked. Now we have a good open sexual relationship that always includes mutual oral pleasures. | |
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| oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 12/2/2008 12:50:05 PM | Though it seems somewhat petty to keep score, and stuff along those lines, for me it's a matter of give AND take. If I give her face, she better be prepared to return the favor, though it doesn't necessarily have to be right then and there. As long as there's some give AND take, I'm cool with that.
If she's the type that enjoys giving but not receiving, then we wouldn't make it outta the starting gate. If I was given the "No faces allowed down there" routine, yea, her and I wouldn't get to a first date. I ask about all this stuff prior to dating someone, because it pays to be in the know.
Sex, especially oral sex, has to be a combined effort, not a one way street. If it is or ends up that way, it's selfish of the perpetrator. Keeping score seems petty, but sometimes ya gotta do what ya gotta do.
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| oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 12/2/2008 12:55:06 PM | | I know its a double standard-but its diffrent cuz its two completely diffrent body parts. Ya can put a condom on a guy and most of him is covered.Ya can use dental damn on women but the ones that i encountered dont really like em.I love to give,but i also make sure to hold hands before and after pap smears if ya get my drift.Most women also bleed once a month -its just not the same.Look at it this way-ya do a guy 9 times out of ten he shoots once and its done.If ya do lady the rite way she can spill a couple of times- i just like to be cautious | |
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| oral sex and the double standard
Posted: 12/2/2008 1:39:35 PM | ...and the radio goes to Alice Cooper...all together now, you over 35's..."Only Women Bleed...!" Ha!!   | |
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