| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 1/23/2005 9:08:06 PM | | There is a difference between being overweight, and not giving a d*mn anymore about how you look. I'll date the former, but stay away from the latter, because that sort of apathy tends to carry over into other aspects of life. | |
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 1/24/2005 10:47:24 AM | So, so true.....Some women are big and smell to high heavens! I take care of myself and shower daily,....I refuse to wear shorts but will wear my jeans and burn the polyester pants!
Also women that wear spandex or stirrup pants and overweight..ewwwwwww!!
It's how you conduct yourself being overweight...It's funny I have dated men that had never dated a thick woman... | |
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Mpanka
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Joined: 1/21/2005
Msg: 31 | |
| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 1/26/2005 9:42:45 AM | Yes its hard,
but to me it sounds like (no offense) those who are overwieght, have just learned to accept it or live with it because it is SO hard. I was overweight at one time, but have a greater love for myself, my health, and how long im going to be on this earth for my 2 sons.
Look at it this way, Some people can afford to "pay" to loose weight, for those of us who cannot, work at it. Its no different than having a habit of going up for seconds, or after you pick the kids up from school...stopping by McDonalds, its just Habit!
If you change your diet (meaning the kinds of foods you eat) keep yourself active, the weight will literally fall off. All i did was ate every 3 hours portions no bigger than my fist, rode my bike and by all means im no twig but I feel I look a hellova lot better than I did......Sorry people, just my little rant...Be happy with yourself no matter how you look...just love yourself and be happy you woke up this morning!! | |
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Webbum
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Joined: 1/18/2005
Msg: 33 | |
| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 3/17/2005 5:24:25 AM | Are you asking for weight loss suggestions Bicurious4u?
If so, ask away, I've been a personal trainer for over 20 years, I can give you some 'basic' advice. | |
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 3/17/2005 6:43:15 AM | lol
Its not hard being full figured., the only hard part about is trying to loose that weight. There is another thread going on about diet-advice., take a look over there and tell me its difficult again.
Its all about the effort you make, but i bear with you., know what you feel like.
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 3/17/2005 7:00:02 AM | What do you guys mean by fat? would that be a European fat or an American fat?
Judging by the way obesity is taking hold in America i think the dictionary should be changed and there should be an entry Americanfat.
Sorry to all the Americans but you guys are getting outta control! | |
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 3/17/2005 10:00:21 AM |
i forgot to add that i too fantasize about being with another woman, but i'm afraid it is wrong to do. (morally) in fact it turns me on more than thinking about a man. if the situation actually came up, i don't think i could go through with it. i'm not judging anyone who does it, but i worry what God will think of what i do these days, where as in the past i never cared.
Beleive me, I know God personnaly, and he doesn't mind you wanting to tryout with another women. As long as it's enjoyable and fun, it belongs in the kingdom !!!
As far as weight goes ... LOTS of women aren't happy with themselves. Heck I'm unhappy for being too skinny. So I'm on a weight training program and things are starting to change. I do it for myself, and certainly not to please other. I still atract women without 100 pounds of muscle. I'm sure lots of you girls ARE beautiful even with the weight on. I once had a crush on a more "round-up" girl myself !!! | |
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Sliv
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Joined: 3/9/2005
Msg: 37 | |
| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 3/17/2005 10:11:39 AM | | Personally I find it more "acceptable" for men to look at themselves before looking at a woman. Like if you're 250 with a king size beer gut, I don't know if it's quite so fair to be demanding the 110 pound girlfriend... | |
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 3/17/2005 10:38:06 AM | | Expectations, expectations? Get webbum's advice, it's a better opportunity than you might imagine. I was 287 pounds last April 1. I've lost 80 pounds, and the last 20 or so are proving problematic. You've got friends, and where did God say exploring homosexuality was wrong? Stop listening to people that are full of crap. It took centuries to write, rewrite, write, rewrite, etc., etc., the supposed word of God. Why would God care about two people satisyfying their desires when nobody gets hurt? God is a great concept, but until you do in fact meet him personaly don't take anybody else's word as to how he would judge. I am tired of hearing about how people fear God. What God is worth fearing, honestly? Be a good person, don't let someone else define what that is for you. There is to much judgement in the world as it is. | |
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 3/19/2005 12:41:34 AM | Our fast food industry and national obsession with drive-throughs has made us the fattest nation on the planet, while our d*mn media & hollywood keeps pushing the "thin is in" image. Talk about double standards & hypocracy! It is no wonder so many people get depressed & confused,,,,
Back to the original question,, Real women have curves! Flat & boney does not & never has done it for me. A soft lady wins every time. The few thin women I have dated (the few & the minority) were obssesed with image, were high maintanence & were overall a general pain in the ass. Snuggles are 100% better with BBW's, and all it takes is one good hug then I'm up and ready. | |
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 4/5/2005 2:30:34 PM | A BBW can be beautiful Not all are of coarse, just as all small women aren't. It is often an indescribable quality that makes the difference. If a woman is pretty, and carrys herself well, she can be very sexy. Of coarse BBW often have big boobs, which is a pluss for me.
I fancy myself a catch, but I'd bet many women on this site couldn't care less for me. It all depends on who sees you for you I guess. Although there are some people who are uggly to the bone, and rotten at the core. | |
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 4/5/2005 3:02:03 PM | It is more about attitude than the size of you.
Anyone who doesn't wash and is a little bit sweaty or smelly would be unattractive to me becasue that isn't what I find appealing. However someone with a preference for this will find it very attractive.
Different strokes for different folks. It would be very boring if we all liked the same things and were mini clones of each other.
I do get irritated sometimes when shopping and I can't find something in particular in my size or I find some thing and it is good and fits me but is twice the price of the other items in the store. I find this particularly with bras and shirts.
I am me and if people dont like me, its their loss not mine.
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 4/5/2005 4:54:41 PM | Also women that wear spandex or stirrup pants and overweight..ewwwwwww!!
I am me and if people dont like me, its their loss not mine
^^^i agree with both of these statements..I am too a "BBW", i dress to flatter my figure, show off my assets, but not let my fat hang out, i think thats gross, I shower, keep myself clean, dress nicely...and so what if im big...flaunt what you have, cover whats not so attractive
I am losing weight, but I'm still gonna be the same person personality wise I am now when im at my goal weight :)
I figure if someone dosent like me cause im fat, then move on, their loss, because I know im a beautiful person, inside and out | |
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 4/12/2005 5:41:15 PM | | went to the doc today...well they loveeeee to weigh ya ....found out since Jan and starting my new job I have lost 15 lbs! Just being active helps...my husband loves me bbw...and I like big guys... | |
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 4/12/2005 5:53:31 PM | I think for me I had to accept that I wasn't the tooth pick ...stick figure..
but hey there is more of me to love and well never had any complants about my weight soo...I have no ideal what it is like ...I think if you feel beautiful it will show to other just the same
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 4/13/2005 1:34:38 PM | | I am BBW too. And I love having a big ghetto booty. LOL. I walk as much as I can and I started going to the gym but not to lose weight, to be healthy so I can be around for my kids. They tell me im beautiful the way i am | |
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 4/13/2005 9:57:10 PM | It is hard to lose the weight I know from personal experience.. I didn't know how to say no to food while I was pregnant. I gained 67 lbs with my daughter... not including the 9 lbs I gained back after the morning sickness. I had to work really hard to lose that weight and I still carry a couple extra lbs compared to my Prepregnancy weight.
You know what I say tho.. I luv me and I luv the way i look. Hell I earned this body and if they don't like it well then don't look, 'cause I am not changing to please anyone. (unless of course it is myself)
So... No worries!! | |
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 4/14/2005 4:19:47 AM | Well.....
I am a bisexual.....kinky....sexy BBW lol
I have no trouble meeting people its the are they compatible thing that gets me
Being overweight is not a bad thing well depends on how much if it becomes a heath issue or is stopping you from living your life then yah I would diet.
but if you like the way you are and don't feel held back by it then live with it!!
Also if you do decied to lose weight one thing I've learned is own up to it
Don't blame bad realationships or medical conditions
You put the food in your mouth no one had a gun to your head
You won't lose it until you've owned up to that fact that only you could have gotten yourself that way and only you can get yourself out!!!!
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| BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured??
Posted: 9/12/2007 2:09:45 PM | Hi there....
Please take it from someone who is not thin and has never been thin. I am full figured but learned at an early age the importance of carrying myself with poise, a straight posture, and with DIGNITY. I am told nearly every single day of my life that I am beautiful, that I ooze sexiness, and that I'm HOT. I'm not exaggerating. Feel confident and secure in yourself and realize that you have a lot to offer.
When you start feeling sexy and then portraying your sexiness...that will be the beginning of the rest of your life. I am 5'8" tall and weigh 250lbs. I wear high heels everyday, short skirts (just above my knee), I show cleavage as much as possible...I have no shortage of attention from men OR women. The same will happen to you if it doesn't already Sweetie. | |
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