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 Author Thread: When should the woman start paying??
 Brian85BC

Joined: 1/5/2008
Msg: 243
When should the woman start paying??
Posted: 1/22/2008 4:31:22 PM
Shes a ****in golddigger. dump her
 nickphilosoph

Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 244
When should the woman start paying??
Posted: 1/23/2008 4:27:16 AM
A gentleman does not mistake or mix charity with dating. A gentleman and a gentlewoman help the needy, via charity.
 bosox0407

Joined: 11/9/2007
Msg: 245
When should the woman start paying??
Posted: 2/12/2008 2:48:00 PM
Always get a kick out of this response...how many woman ask a guy out AND pay? Not many but SOME do.This is a case of most women EXPECT the guy to ask ...So therefore he pays...Just another little manipulations SOME people use.....Spin on old world ettiquette,don't you think?
 bosox0407

Joined: 11/9/2007
Msg: 246
When should the woman start paying??
Posted: 2/12/2008 2:58:11 PM
Carol....That is an unfair statement.I agree he should communicate with her,however whatever happened to a woman sying "Hey...You've payed twice and a good chunk too! Let me pay once"? Typycal manipulation of the "old world" system of thinking! Least THAT made some sense.Now a days there are plenty of women who own their own businesses or have great jobs or that are well off for some reason or the other.Yet in many cases men are still expected to foot the nut or risk bieng called "cheap"....If a woman has that old world view then she should find a guy to take care of her financially and she should stay home and take care of the yousehold needs of her man....If she wants a career then she should be willing to cough up some dough on occasion too! It's either one way or the other,or a compromise beneficial to both parties...One way benefits don't get it!
 bosox0407

Joined: 11/9/2007
Msg: 247
When should the woman start paying??
Posted: 2/12/2008 3:05:14 PM
So why wouldn't you just SAY I'm hungry and order something to eat,if your willing to pay for it...who cares?
 kathareeene

Joined: 7/26/2007
Msg: 248
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When should the woman start paying??
Posted: 2/12/2008 3:35:33 PM
dont git played son
but NOW is when u should stop u have been a gentleman
u need to find a date thats cheap n see if she is still interested or if ur gettin played
tell her hadda pay offa big ticket no money what do u wanna do this wknd?
THEN AND ONLY THEN WILL U KNOW
sorry bud it happens every day
kathi
 djrichpowers

Joined: 9/12/2005
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When should the woman start paying??
Posted: 2/12/2008 3:44:39 PM
Need some advice, i have been on 3 dates with the female friend of mine, and i have had to pay each time. Now i am not complaining, except for the fact the average cost for each night was roughly $100, and she never offered to pay once. Like Seinfeld "There wasn't even a reach".

What the heck is up with that, i am not accustomed to that. Most girls i have dated have even payed on the first date.

Now she wants to go out again, and i have no idea if i should, cause i don't think its fair for the guy to always pay?? Oh ya she does work, and I believe she makes ok money.

Oh ya, i am 28, shes 24. Any advice??

lykis 101 never more than 50 bucks.
 djrichpowers

Joined: 9/12/2005
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When should the woman start paying??
Posted: 2/12/2008 3:47:27 PM
A gentleman does not mistake or mix charity with dating. A gentleman and a gentlewoman help the needy, via charity.

english please
 grrlnxtdr

Joined: 11/7/2005
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When should the woman start paying??
Posted: 2/15/2008 4:03:04 AM

Need some advice, i have been on 3 dates with the female friend of mine, and i have had to pay each time. Now i am not complaining, except for the fact the average cost for each night was roughly $100, and she never offered to pay once. Like Seinfeld "There wasn't even a reach".

What the heck is up with that, i am not accustomed to that. Most girls i have dated have even payed on the first date.

Now she wants to go out again, and i have no idea if i should, cause i don't think its fair for the guy to always pay?? Oh ya she does work, and I believe she makes ok money.

Oh ya, i am 28, shes 24. Any advice??


The fourth date. She should at least offer up something, like a tip. By the third date, you should know if you want a fourth date with her anyway. Obviously she has something about her that attracts you enough to take her out on three dates. And by the sound of this post, you're considering the fourth date. By this time she ought to be confident enough to offer up paying for part of the date. I suggest that on this fourth date take her on a cheap one - to the park, to the beach, a picnic, a museum, a nice walk something out of the scope of regular dating (dating doesn't have to be expensive - sometimes the dates that are the most fun cost nothing at all and you really get to see the true nature of someone) - and see how she reacts to it. If she turns her nose up, move on - she's just seeing what she can get out of you at this point.
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