What's sad is how many women are agreeing with and defending the OP...yet when a man starts a woman-bashing thread, it's a call for blood...why doesn't ALL of this crap just stop?
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned? 
Reality is, everyone is different, and if you choose to judge "all" of any class of people by the actions of a few, you're only limiting yourself. Agreed Eldubu, if a woman thinks "all men are jerks", I'm wondering why she'd be on a dating site... she's looking for a jerk in her life?
If the same thing keeps happening to you over and over, yup, maybe *you* are the problem and you should be looking at your choices, not blaming others.
But then, its *sooo* much easier to blame everyone else than look at yourself, isn't it? 