| Older woman / Younger men?
Posted: 7/26/2006 4:27:16 PM | from my last girlfriend and lately I have noticed is that I have an interest more with those the same age or older.
The ladies i have met at parties or talked to online have been great and I feel that a connection can be possible!
Obviously physical attraction is important to me as well as personality and interests!
In some cases some of the women that I have talked to dont have similar interests than i do and i think that is where problems may occor.
On the other hand there is ladies who listen to the same music as i do and dont seem to mind my fun, wild nature lol.
Age is just a number ;) If you have a great time with them on the first date then that is promising for a bright future
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| Older woman / Younger men?
Posted: 7/26/2006 4:36:59 PM | As do I...but then, I also salute the ones my own age...usually with a 'SCHWING!!!!!' | |
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Joined: 5/1/2005
Msg: 104 | |
| Older woman / Younger men?
Posted: 7/26/2006 6:39:07 PM | | It all depends on the person, I would say yes, when there is magic, i become a victom to it. | |
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| Older woman / Younger men?
Posted: 7/26/2006 6:58:02 PM | Speaking for me only... I have always attracted younger men..my ex's were both 7 and 6 years younger respectively....I feel I don't look my age..so maybe that's why...
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| Older woman / Younger men?
Posted: 7/26/2006 7:05:46 PM |
my ex's were both 7 and 6 years younger respectively....
Unfortunately, that is the problem. Be it male, or female, it seems relationships like that don't work (for the most part). Also, how often do spouses leave for a younger woman/man just to fail in the end?
For both, or for one, of the two involved, it seems as if it is more of a physical thing because the complaints I hear of most is that the sex was great, but we weren't at the same level of maturity and perspective. | |
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| Older woman / Younger men?
Posted: 7/26/2006 7:10:36 PM | Oh Red you naughty young boy you! lmao
OT: I think it depends on the two people involved for the most part. We never know who we will actually fall in love with. That being said, I normally never go out of my way to date much younger... | |
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| Older woman / Younger men?
Posted: 7/26/2006 8:46:39 PM | | Age is a number. If the younger of the two has a maturity level. I was partners with a guy 16 years younger than me. "They" said it would never last. We were together 11 years. I would much prefer someone my age or older now...if he can keep up, lol. | |
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| Older woman / Younger men?
Posted: 7/26/2006 9:13:23 PM | Forever,
Again, it's the same old, same old, "If he can keep up"
Keep up to what? In my opinion, I question the maturity of that premise. Also, the young guy obviously kept up.. but he also packed up.... how should we interpret that?
But continue on and flame men your own age... now you have to find one who is willing to allow you to "settle" for him.
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GUMMLE
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Joined: 10/15/2005
Msg: 111 | |
| Older woman / Younger men?
Posted: 7/26/2006 9:51:34 PM | MI...
Older woman/younger guy relationships...
DO work...
I was the younger guy...
The other posters...
Are right about maturity levels...
Physically, it didn't differ from any previous relationship...
It lasted for 13 years...
And was the best relationship I ever had...
And would still be going strong...
If her number hadn't been called...
Would you care to discuss why...
This topic seems to be...
Such a sensitive issue with you? | |
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| Older woman / Younger men?
Posted: 7/26/2006 11:45:54 PM | Simply put, in order to justify their choices, they demean an "older" man's ability to keep up with them.
I seriously wonder about the mentality of these type women. They deserve as much respect from 40 something men as they displayed on the 'net.
If she prefers younger, fine, I have no problem with that. But don't demean me or other's abilities and capabilities in order to vindicate something she obviously feels uncomfortable with... call it like it is... she wants young meat... plain and simple.
40 something men shouldn't be the scapegoat... nor, should they accept a person to settle with us after she has years of miles driven in to her.... it tells me she can no longer keep up with the younger guys....ironic, isn't it? | |
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GUMMLE
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Joined: 10/15/2005
Msg: 113 | |
| Older woman / Younger men?
Posted: 7/27/2006 6:48:27 AM | Oddly...
I don't feel like a scapegoat...
And I would certainly hope...
That in our 40's...
Us men have learned to...
Be wise enough to...
Just not get involved...
With someone who is "settling"...
Regardless of age...
I do not see irony...
I see bitternesss... | |
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| Older woman / Younger men?
Posted: 7/27/2006 8:20:47 AM | I prefer men around my age or older. I recently took off my age restrictions because I was hosting a party and I can't believe how many men in their early 20's contacted me!! Sorry, boys - go home to Momma. I already take care of guys your age - they are called my sons!
Restrictions went back on quickly. | |
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| Older woman / Younger men?
Posted: 7/27/2006 8:27:59 AM | Yup those young bucks - hhhmmm - oh wait I mean yeah go home to Momma damn you!!!
My restrictions are off 'cause of all the nice people I have met at parties etc. that like to chat or send me info for parties etc. - it's not that bad getting messages from someone outside of your personal limits but they understand and have been very nice.
I have dated mostly younger guys and a few older - but not by that much - I find that it's all good if you connect and have common interests and can hold a conversation. | |
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| Older woman / Younger men?
Posted: 7/27/2006 8:32:37 AM | | "Years of mileage driven into her". God , I find that statement so very crass to be honest. MI, are you saying a man of your age has not had his own share of "years of mileage"???? I think perhaps you are being too harsh on this gal who states "as long as they can keep up". Do you have any idea how many men my age could pass for my Grandfather? Sorry, guys, I do not mean all, but come on! I do not think ladies actually intend on "seeking out" younger, but if it happens, what is wrong with it? MI, you state they leave eventually, for a younger woman more their own age? Same damned thing could be said about guys our own age. Plain and simple! Nothing in life is easy, guaranteed. Does not matter who is what age! | |
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dar50
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Joined: 5/26/2006
Msg: 117 | |
| Older woman / Younger men?
Posted: 7/27/2006 9:06:23 AM | | In my humble opinion...it seems that more 'mature' men leave their wives and significant others for much younger women....than visa versa........I agree with Kit on this subject..no guarantees in life..no matter what the age similarities or differences are......the problem is not in the age of a couple...it is in a society that has flaunted sex in our faces...and taken away something that should be so special for a couple and made it just another easily attainable commodity. There will always be people that 'cheat'..and there will always be someone left behind...to nurse a broken heart...that will not change...as unfortunate as it is...I hope you don't read any bitterness in my statement...because there is none intended..I am a 'pessimistic optomist'...lol...when it comes to affairs of the heart. | |
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| Older woman / Younger men?
Posted: 7/27/2006 9:40:38 AM | | age is just a number..im 19 but i always go after the older ones..the girls my age are sluts lol..no offense to any girls in here that are my age lol..but its true most of them are anyways...i like being with an older women because there lookin to settle down with one man before its to late..and i like that | |
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| Older woman / Younger men?
Posted: 7/27/2006 10:39:11 AM | When I was younger, I dated older men.
I have dated a small amount of men born the same year that I was and now I primarily attract and am attracted to younger men.
Perhaps it's because most say that I don't look my age (almost 34) or because there are less men my age who are single...
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| Older woman / Younger men?
Posted: 7/27/2006 11:37:33 AM | Ahh Doc, if only you were 23 (as that's the current age of the youngest man I have dated)...
*lament*
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| Older woman / Younger men?
Posted: 7/27/2006 1:06:17 PM | well i have dated a mix of both older and younger although the older men are at most time more matture i still have a thing for the younger ones maybe cuz i dont really look my age and want someone that looks as young as i do LOL | |
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| Older woman / Younger men?
Posted: 7/27/2006 2:41:18 PM | Hey MI, who's rubbing you the wrong way?
I don't think what us mature ladies are looking for are in their 20's. Just men that are as active as we are, if we need to look at younger men than us, so be it! It's not easy to find men who are still active in all the things we like to do!
I still go camping a lot, I like to swim and play on the beach, go for walks in the country, but try to find someone my age who is still willing to do those things!
Tried mailing a few and got, used to, not anymore tho!
The other problem, men my age tend to want trophy wives, something pretty to hang on their arm! Bruised egos wanting someone prettier and younger! Us average women just don't seem to measure up to some mens expectations! Yet some men a few years younger find us very attractive, they make us laugh, appreciate us more and truly enjoy our company. | |
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| Older woman / Younger men?
Posted: 7/27/2006 2:56:46 PM | "Years of mileage driven into her". God , I find that statement so very crass to be honest
I agree Kit. It was not a very nice comment, but I said it to prove a point. Take all those statements made by many women claiming men in their 40's (her age) can't get it up, are fat, lazy, blah, blah, blah then reverse it as I did... obviously it wasn't nice for you to read so you responded... I am doing the same thing.
I am not against any arrangement regarding age, gender, sexual preference, but on the other hand, I have no problem responding to comments that are demeaning and inaccurate... everyone else does it on other topics, why should this topic be any different?
Maybe I should label those with differring opinions on other topics as being "bitter" towards that particular topic?
I am simply differing with the premise that older men are to blame for women chasing younger guys. It's a poor excuse. It's similar to a cheating spouse blaming the other spouse for their infidelity.
I do not think ladies actually intend on "seeking out" younger, but if it happens, what is wrong with it?
Kit, check the age restrictions... it's not coincidence for many of those seeking younger (both genders). Again, it doesn't matter about age, but they should at least admit to the real reason he/she seeks that preference... don't blame others for it.
Does not matter who is what age!
Again, I agree. But those who need to justify their preference through degradation of others are the ones with the issue.
Bluedew,
I swim, camp, play baseball, hockey, golf, volleyball, clean, cook, laundry, work full time with an additional 5 - 25 hours overtime a week..... and I still wake up in the morning with an erection.
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