| kissing after oral sex
Posted: 5/5/2007 11:08:53 PM | I love the idea of a gal doing kissing me with my cum in her mouth, i turns me on big time - though having said that, i just need to find a gal who is into doing it...
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| kissing after oral sex
Posted: 5/18/2007 8:53:10 PM | | I do not see the problem with kissing after oral sex. If a man goes down on me it is no big deal for me to kiss him. They are my juices and don't taste bad. But there are some guys that after a woman swallows they do not kiss. I have no clue why, becasue i believe it is all the same. IF a guy is good enough to get a woman off by oral pleasure, he tastes her. So, the same should go for the man. It isn't like she is going to spit it in his mouth. | |
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| kissing after oral sex
Posted: 5/19/2007 8:47:23 PM | ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT,...lol....I look at this way,...if my partner and I are sharing intimacy and pleasing one another via oral sex ,...then kissing afterwards is a natural progression and if he is not comfortable kissing me afterwards then I would not be so willing to give him oral.
Hell it is his body and mine,...so what is the issue about,......and for the record,...most woman find their own scent an aphrodisiac and a real turn on ,...so you best get used to the idea. | |
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| kissing after oral sex
Posted: 5/20/2007 4:41:26 AM | I agree with you heartily: I think it heightens the experience and intensifies the sense of emotional as well as physical intimacy between two people. I find it to be a pervy kind of bonding experience. Some people might find it "dirty" or something. In a way, it's just that possibility that makes it a little more exciting. But it's also a very private, special thing that only you two can share. And that exclusiveness can add attractiveness to it.
Also, it's matter of a person's preferences. Some people like sweet drinks, like a White Russian, whereas others might prefer the bitterness of vermouth in a martini. This can have a night-and-day effect on someone's experience here.
As a courtesy to any girl I would be with, I drink a glass of pineapple juice every day to completely erase cum's bitterness and to make it taste pleasant. There's also pills like "Sweet Release," which is mostly concentrated fruit extracts, which can give your cum an apple flavor (it works for women too).
You can improve the experience for your partner by drinking pineapple juice, eating parsely, taking flavor enhancement pills, limiting your intake of things like spicy food, garlic, alcohol, dairy products, coffee and beef (this goes for both sexes). When they say "you are what you eat," it's true. Combine this with thoughtful hygiene and there's no reason why this should be a problem for a couple.
Nonetheless, I typically let the girl set the pace. If she's not into it, then I just give it up and don't bother her about it. If nothing else, both people should be on the same page or you won't have fun.
I tend to think that the more you like sex or the more h*rny you are, the more you'll be willing to experiment with each other. The more erotic your relationship is and the more passionate your are about how you approach sex, the more likely you'll be more energetically open-minded, seeing stuff like this as somehow titillating instead of gross (even if it doesn't turn out to be your favorite thing to do). In a way it can be seen as just another form of mutual exploration. And that's healthy. | |
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| kissing after oral sex
Posted: 5/20/2007 8:53:33 AM | | I'm Gay and my BF cum in my mouth ank we kiss afterworth... and It's so good! | |
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| kissing after oral sex
Posted: 5/20/2007 10:08:50 AM | "...just the thought of my cum in her mouth it just turns me off!"
Then why do it? | |
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| kissing after oral sex
Posted: 5/20/2007 5:29:00 PM | | snowballing is not my thing , i don't wanna keep it in my mouth any longer than neccessary . however if u aren't gonna kiss me after then i wouldn't be giving u oral sex in 1st place . | |
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| kissing after oral sex
Posted: 5/20/2007 5:54:27 PM | | do you know what "snowballing" is? A little kiss after oral is nothing, but what is gross to you is nothing to someone else. | |
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Posted: 5/20/2007 6:24:18 PM | | MY man is so into this. Not only can I kiss him after oral, he wants to kiss me after going down, and worst of all, he wants a BJ when he pulls out in the middle of sex. My own juices?! Yuck! | |
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Posted: 5/20/2007 6:34:49 PM | | So after giving my partner the tongue lashing she so richly deserves, I should go wash my mouth out with soap before I kiss her? | |
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| kissing after oral sex
Posted: 5/20/2007 8:32:55 PM | If you are afraid to kiss afterwards you have no business sharing your bodily fluids with another person anyway.
Most of my previous partners have not only been okay with kissing, but actually seemed to enjoy it. | |
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| kissing after oral sex
Posted: 5/20/2007 8:38:09 PM | | I think that would hurt my feelings. Like I'm okay to kiss until I show you how much I care about you and am turned on by you and I want to please you in a very personal way, and then I'm not good enough to kiss. Now, mind you, I don't think it's awful if you're turned off by it, but if you show me that you're disgusted by me at that point, I know it's gonna hurt my feelings and change the way I feel about you sexually. I won't want to feel that way again, so I won't be having oral sex with you again. | |
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| kissing after oral sex
Posted: 5/21/2007 4:25:09 AM | | Then there's the whole "It's okay for my mouth, but not for yours" thing ... but we won't go there. | |
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| kissing after oral sex
Posted: 5/21/2007 7:05:08 AM | No problem. First its mine, and if its bad where you would want to even taste it, why expect her too. Also, I usually have my tongue stuffed in her orifices, so that seems rather light compared to what I do.... | |
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| kissing after oral sex
Posted: 5/21/2007 8:28:45 AM | | I have tried to get thru most of the disscssion on this topic and come to the conclusion that once again personel preference but have to agree with majority kissing after oral sex is an outstanding act between people and if your actually thinking should I kiss or not then your head ,pardon the pun is not where it should be. | |
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| kissing after oral sex
Posted: 5/21/2007 8:35:14 AM | | do you go down on her because you want to, or because you feel you should! I would think if you let her go down there, you would not feel grossed out kissing her if you truley enjoy that part of sex. I find it exciteing both ways! just my opinion though! | |
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| kissing after oral sex
Posted: 5/21/2007 1:34:04 PM | | Wow, there are alot of things you wouldn't like me doing then if you can't handle just a simple kiss after giving you head. Sex with you would be quite boring. | |
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| kissing after oral sex
Posted: 5/21/2007 3:52:06 PM | You can improve the experience (one's taste) for your partner by (daily) drinking pineapple juice, eating parsely, taking flavor enhancement pills (e.g., Sweet Release, which gives you an apple flavor), limiting your intake of things like spicy food, garlic, alcohol, dairy products, coffee and beef (this goes for both sexes).
When they say "you are what you eat," it's true. Combine this with thoughtful hygiene and there's no reason why this should be a hassle for a couple.
Nonetheless, I typically let the girl set the pace. If she's not into it, then I don't bother her about it. If nothing else, both people should be on the same page or you won't have fun. | |
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| kissing after oral sex
Posted: 5/22/2007 12:21:18 PM | i think if you can gve it you should take it guys!!!!!!!! i love kissing after sex so if i have been down on you and you have done your business then i would like to be kissed afterwards. if you dont like it then dont do it in my mouth!!!!!!!!!  | |
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| kissing after oral sex
Posted: 5/22/2007 12:27:12 PM | | Is sex all about you or what! If so,stick to masturbation.If not,get over it & grow up. | |
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| kissing after oral sex
Posted: 5/22/2007 2:17:51 PM | | It amazes me when guys say that they are grossed out by this, I love kissing during and after every sexual act, most girls do to in my experience. She can kiss me all she wants after oral, unless she was blowing some other guy first I could care less,lol | |
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| kissing after oral sex
Posted: 5/22/2007 3:14:56 PM | | wow and I thought I was a germ freak......come on its your own stuff !! and if she swallowed it, there wont be much left !! | |
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