| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser
Posted: 1/9/2006 8:24:50 PM | Well... I have met transvestites before and I know what they are like. Would I date one? maybe.
It's not really something I'm "in to" but then I've been supportive of other kinks that don't really do much for me... I like that my partner explores themselves fully. I could probably live with it in moderation like a lot of the kinks I've encountered at some level every kink (lifestyle) that I don't completely share would get annoying. I mean, I wouldn't mind even going out in public with them dressed but I probably wouldn't be into having a man that spent most of his life as a woman.
Probably need to be discussed and maybe experienced to decide what I feel about the whole thing... | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser
Posted: 1/12/2006 10:31:35 AM | .... you mean date a woman who enjoys looking like a man... like one who never shaves anything and wears felt shirts, bib overalls, boots and smokes a pipe?
If she had a bod like Sophia Loren or Jayne Mansfield, I might...
Conversely, if you mean a man who dresses like a woman.. uh uh... NFW. | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser
Posted: 1/12/2006 11:25:44 AM | | I'll be the only one wearing panties in that relationship....thank you! Although I could support my FRIEND with that sort of fetish and not have a problem, it would be a huge problem if it were MY man. I realize this is a double standard, one that I participate in, but that's how it is. | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser
Posted: 3/6/2006 11:34:22 AM | cagewench wrote:
I was married to one, but I didn't know until I ended the marriage... so how do I answer this one?
I for one would be real interested in how you would answer this. Finding out after the marriage is over is not good. I'm sorry he could not have been up front with you and told you. Maybe, when the love was there you could have dealt with it.
See, I happen to be a CD. I was married to two different women (1 died in 1984) that both knew before we were married that I was a CD. It never was an issue or a problem in our marriage. Everything with moderation and limits of each other's tolerance towards anything your mate might be into. Even if that was fishing or golf. So count me as one of the lucky ones that was able to share this with a loving mate and have her total acceptance and understanding. Many men go through life with a wife and she never knew. That to me is sad. This phenomena is NOT a choice we make. It develops in us at an early age and is part of us for life. What most people do not know is that most of us are not gay or even bisexual. According to some surveys that have been done. Please do not judge us by what you might have seen on Jerry Springer!
I will not hide this important fact about who and what I am from any woman I happen to be attracted to if I am lucky enough to find that new love I want and need. it is private from my business world and most all of my friends. No one would know unless I chose to share this about me with them. | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser
Posted: 3/6/2006 7:35:01 PM | Gosh... I'm always telling men I'm not "foo foo" can you see how I would feel if my man dressed up and looked better and more "foo foo" than me???....
To each their own.. I'm a tomboy and love GUY CLOTHES.... does that make me a cross dresser? So what if a man likes to dress up... that is his "hobby".. or the one thing in life that he really enjoys so let him do it. I would just have a "girls night" with us.. we could sit around and he could dress like a girl.. and I could be the guy... yep.. role playing... lol.. or we could sit in front of the tv.. both dressed foo foo and eat bon bons.. I dont' see the problem.. | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser
Posted: 3/6/2006 10:22:08 PM | | well it can be true for weman too this friend of mine told me that she likes me one time. now she is a nice girl tall slender smart but a huge tom boy for the first yr i knew her i thought she was gay. But i had to turn her down because of the guy factor. well told her because I just broke it off with some one and didn't want to date for awhile but hey it's better than the truth | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser
Posted: 3/6/2006 11:09:38 PM | i was with a guy wqho lied about it to me.did not find out till i caugt him in a dress,heels etc. broke offour relationship soon after that because he was not honest to me.
he was cute though lol
widh i would have taking my biggest toy to him so he would see all that womanhood could offer him.
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser
Posted: 3/8/2006 9:38:53 AM |
i was with a guy who lied about it to me.did not find out till i caught him in a dress,heels etc. broke off our relationship soon after that because he was not honest to me.
he was cute though lol
widh i would have taking my biggest toy to him so he would see all that womanhood could offer him.
That seems to be the biggest issue I have read about with most wives, girlfriends, or otherwise SO''s. That is he kept it from them for a long period of time.
I think a guy that is a cross dresser should tell the woman as soon as he is starting to have special feelings for her. Or more important, when he sees she is getting attached to him early in the courtship. I confess, I have seen a CD since age 9-10. I have dome exactly what i just suggested with my past wife (died in 1984), and my recent ex-wife. In both cases, my being a CD had no bad effects on the marriage. In fact both had some fun with it. But it was something I did not push on them or flaunt in their face either. I think with enough love and communication most anything can be worked out in some sort of compromise and not adversely effect the relationship. | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser
Posted: 3/8/2006 1:10:07 PM | | I've dated two crossdressers. They were very much straight and still are. I wasn't really ever bothered by it. I have my own look and life and standing, so it never really made me feel like less of a person to other people by dating them. They both were/are very successful and personable men. One is still a friend of mine... | |
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