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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser
Posted: 3/9/2006 4:21:17 AM |
HELL NO..........homosexual men are a total turnoff for me...lol..I like REAL men..and that would be a TOTAL turnoff for me...
Sad that so many people are so mis-informed. Must be watching Jerry Springer way to much.
The majority of cross dressers are not homosexual. In fact there are less homosexual men among cross dressers then there is among the rest of the male population. There are many REAL men who happen to also be cross dressers.
Oh, I happen to like REAL women myself. I'd hate to find out my date was in fact a cross dresser! And I am a CD myself! See? I am not gay!
But understandably, But of course I can see where most women would find it a turn off too.
Some of us got lucky and found accepting, understanding, mature, educated REAL women that loved us in spite of how we, as REAL men, were wired at ages between 4-10 years old. | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Cross dresser
Posted: 3/22/2006 2:35:58 PM | Yes woman can get away with wearing anything designed for a make and still look good.
The cold had fact is men look ridiculous in a dress if he is not in dull dress mode meaning wig, makeup padding et. to make himself look as much like a woman as he can. Frankly most men can't pull it off. So again, they look silly. | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Cross dresser
Posted: 3/22/2006 3:03:02 PM | | I could not do it! I have this streak in me that generally comes out and I would probaibly end up hurting my mans feelings if he ever presented his little hobby to me. But to each there own! | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser
Posted: 3/22/2006 3:14:55 PM |
The majority of cross dressers are not homosexual. In fact there are less homosexual men among cross dressers then there is among the rest of the male population. There are many REAL men who happen to also be cross dressers.
Oh, I happen to like REAL women myself. I'd hate to find out my date was in fact a cross dresser! And I am a CD myself! See? I am not gay!
You are a labeling machine. Using 'Real' and men while associating it with crossdressing. The only way your statement that there are more homosexual men in the general population then in the crossdressing community is by shear numbers. Per capita, there are more homosexuals in the "crossdressing' community.
You want a woman or man to accept your lifestyle but you could not accept theirs, and it's the same lifestyle. Did I hear that right?
OT: no | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser
Posted: 3/22/2006 3:27:12 PM | Again, if we ignore "it", maybe "it" will go away!
And no freespeech , you took my statement out of context like you always do with everything!
Once again, I challange you to present proof of your off the wall false statements.
No, there are not more gays in the crossdressing community! That is an out and out lie fabricated in your mind! | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser
Posted: 3/22/2006 3:45:48 PM | I notice you didnt clarify your statement, LMAO. The sheer irony of this is that I am not the one with proof to my arguement, rather you are. You see the one thing about me is I know the answers before I start and I do believe you are holding out on us JIM. A matter of a study involving crossdressers and one in particular who's revelations shocked the good psychologist conducting the study. I believe the exact words were ' an uncharacteristic behaviour that could only be classified as malevolent in nature'. I wonder what and more importantly who made her so shocked to redefine those very statements and findings in her report?
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Cross dresser
Posted: 3/22/2006 4:12:30 PM | I will not even justify myself to you. You seem to only go to forums where you can cause trouble and taunt those that respond in an intelligent manner on topics they know better then you, or whatever crack pot so called experts you dig up.
Really freespeech, Haven't you got anything better to do?
I am now further convinced you are a gay in denial Or you would not try to ruin threads with your long very boring nonsense. Homophobic comes to mind too.
Trust me, this is the last time I will ever waste my time with the likes of you. We are on to your stupid little game. You add nothing to any thread you have participated in.
You are annoying at best. Stop ruining otherwise good intelligent threads. | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Cross dresser
Posted: 3/22/2006 4:21:00 PM |
I will not even justify myself to you. You seem to only go to forums where you can cause trouble and taunt those that respond in an intelligent manner on topics they know better then you, or whatever crack pot so called experts you dig up.
Now what was her name again? You are right you do know alot more about the subject then most, some might say you are a 'subject' in the profession of Crossdressing. Correct me if I'm wrong, but is denial not the key component to fear and in turn homophobia. Perhaps it is just a river in Egypt or maybe one of the southern states. Now which one was it again?
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Cross dresser
Posted: 3/23/2006 10:27:16 AM | I never rely on "so called" experts but prefer to do my own studies. Either way, I get an education and meet some fascinating people. As with most things there is never any right or wrong answers.
Some CD's are gay, some are straight
Some CD's look great, some look ridiculous
Some CD's prefer to do this in the home, some like to venture out and try to "pass"
Oh, and I didn't just limit my study to men but included women who like to CD as well.
Funny thing is my grandmother used to dress up as a man from time to time when she was younger. My grandfather said she had a lot of spunk. | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Cross dresser
Posted: 3/23/2006 11:37:43 AM | Most of the cross dressers I have met in person were otherwise normal, heterosexual men who were married, had children, and tried to be good fathers and husbands. They also happened to like to wear women's clothing.
Because cross dressing carries a very strong stigma, most cross dressers are not known and are difficult for researchers to count or survey. There are no good, reliable statistics for what percentage of men or women are cross dressers.
Because it is hardly unknown for former girlfriends or even wives to use a man's cross dressing against him, cross dressers often do not reveal this aspect about themselves to anyone.
Therefore even the most respected researchers of gender identity don't try to say with any significant certainty how many men are cross dressers or how many cross dressers are gay. There simply is no way to tell. You can't count someone who does not want to be counted. | |
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Posted: 3/29/2006 5:27:15 AM | Hi Vixen,
I'll just chalk your comment and opinion up as lack of maturity at your age. And I don't mean that in a vindictive way.
Confused? No, not in the least! I know exactly who and what I am and what I am not, what I want and what I don't want. Now maybe if I was your age and a crossdresser, I'd maybe be still confused. As I think back, maybe I was on and off, about why I did what I did. But back then there was no such thing as the Internet and information was next to none. The Internet has been a wealth of knowledge on most any topic or issue. | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser
Posted: 3/29/2006 3:39:17 PM |
vixen1985:
CROSSDRESSERS ARE JUST CONFUSED, and i dont date confused men, i like them to know what they want...and who they are...
I'm not confused about who I am, what I want, where I am, and where I am going. Confused people rarely can maintain healthy relationships with others, they are unhappy, and they tend to not be successful. I have great relationships with many long term friends, I'm happy, and very successful in my own business. | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser
Posted: 3/29/2006 5:52:42 PM |
I'm not confused about who I am, what I want, where I am, and where I am going. Confused people rarely can maintain healthy relationships with others, they are unhappy, and they tend to not be successful. I have great relationships with many long term friends, I'm happy, and very successful in my own business.
A crossdresser is basically a confused individual with a sexual fetish. To validate an existence as a bonefide sexual orientation using examples of everyday routines is absurd. All forms of deviant sexual lifestyles can still maintain 'normalcy' as far as social justifications are concerned. The difference between yourself and the rest of society is that you wear woman's clothing for sexual stimulation and very questionable psychological reasons.
OT: A woman who dates a cross-dresser is dating a person with a deviant sexual fetish. | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser
Posted: 3/29/2006 6:44:09 PM | I have and would again in a heartbeat! I loved dressing him up and him screwing me with my crotchless panties on *so hot* I absolutely LOVE men in black eyeliner too!
And just because I'm writing this doesn't mean I'm a freak either I like the normal macho outdoorsy type too, occasionally.
I just like the not so close-minded fun types more! | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser
Posted: 3/29/2006 8:43:48 PM | | I really want to reply some more but I don't feel the need to argue tonight.. I've had too good of a day to deal with close minded morons tonight. I think I'll go borrow my friendboy's tux to wear... | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser
Posted: 3/29/2006 10:45:23 PM |
I just like the not so close-minded fun types more!
I do believe you intended to say you like borderline homosexuals who are suffering from 'Transvestite Fetischism'. Perhaps there is an underlying psychological disorder that you are suffering from which makes you more attracted to Crossdressers.
OT: a Crossdresser is a sexual deviant with a psychological disorder who is basically gay or at least dressed to be. | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser
Posted: 3/29/2006 11:05:20 PM |
Freespeech.. you are just so dang funny.... And besides being so funny.. you're an idiot!
Alas where intelligence leaves off pure wit does prevail. LMAO pardon the acronym.
You are merely a toy as I am quite certain relects the impression of all who had previously dated yourself. Perhaps your pseudo-intellect would be better suited addressing the topic as opposed to myself. I am sure your pro-tranvestite stance could be better suited dressing up your 'barbie' doll as they will enjoy your wit as much as I do.
OT: I retain my original stance as PERTAINING to the subject matter at hand. | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser
Posted: 3/29/2006 11:10:04 PM | I second that!
Does the term educated idiot come to mind? This jerk is a damn bore and a true nut case! He harasses every single forum about bisexuals, gays and cross dressing. Now that's a guy with some serious personal issues with his own sexuality. He offeres nothing to any and every thread he addresses/ he is negative about everyone and any and all lifestyles.
I thank God I am not that lonely and miserable with myself.
I wonder if he knows how stupid he makes himself look. And how disliked he is by anyone with half a brain.
Somene needs to go get a life and quit harrassing all the forums with your idiotic BS. | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser
Posted: 3/29/2006 11:13:36 PM | Your name calling and negative remarks about people does not exactly stay with the subject matter either. You try and sound so smart when that is hardly the case. I being a "toy" to all who have previously dated me?? Awwww.. did that make you feel better???
You obviously are a homophobic and think people should not be different. People enjoy different things in their lives, that does NOT mean they have major mental problems. It does not mean they are wrong in doing it. What is sad is that some people think they have the right to judge others and feel they are above anyone who chooses to be different. At least some of these people have the guts to be who that are.
And what is a "pro-transvestite stance" and where did that come in? I believe the THREAD TOPIC is about cross dressers not tranvestites'.. and NO they are not the same, you need to read up on this more before blurting out false statements. | |
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And besides being so funny.. you're an idiot!