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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser Posted: 1/26/2008 3:55:42 AM | Well, I did actually go on one meet and one date with somebody under my previous screen name before I closed my account - not because of him - very shortly after the Victoria Day weekend last year. That weekend was a pretty stressul one for me because I had my 19-year-old child in the hospital in the midst of a four month stay. And my 30-year-old was proving once and for all that anything I was b!ching about when it came to him, was far more than me simply being a party pooper.
I had jumped into one of these type forums with both feet because I thought the majority of the posters were being unfair and ignorant. [Which is both a forum and a real life trait of mine that is sometimes a strenth and sometimes a weakness of character.] So someone contacted me. No big surprise there, I guess. I honsestly try not to have anything against anybody unless they give me a good reason to.
But apart from damn near sleep-walking through our meet and date because of my own stress, I did realize that I'd have to meet someone I could fall in love with first -- and then the cross dressing part wouldn't matter. I also learned that my date simply being a cross dresser was neither going to harm me nor do it for me. I passed on any further contact, and made another mental note [yet, again] to reign in the rhetoric and readiness to come to people's defence. | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser Posted: 8/8/2009 5:15:20 AM | | Id be more into a transsexual...some are incredibly gorgeous.Im pretty open minded,however not attracted to masculinity at all.But if a male can make himself look damn good,id check it out | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser Posted: 8/8/2009 7:14:58 PM | | This question has been asked over and over again. Some of my best friends are cross dressers or transgendered. If I met someone, that I clicked with on all levels, and found out they were a cross dresser, I would still be okay with it. It doesn't necessarily do anything for me, but as long as they aren't hurting anyone else, who cares? | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser Posted: 8/8/2009 8:19:00 PM | lol @ applepie
one night at the bar this very tall attractive blonde walks in
then she gets a little closer and in my mind i say "oh its a dude" just as somebody else says very loudly "its ahhh duuuuuude" lol
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser Posted: 8/27/2009 1:27:44 AM | Some guys you could never tell cross dresses cuz they're so manly (for example weight lifters , men with very male oriented work places etc).......but yet they have a side to their personality that leads them to cd.
Most cd's don't have the urge to surgery & are quite happy with the way things are. | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser Posted: 11/19/2009 8:03:52 PM | Its pretty complex.
Some Cds just wear undies. Some TVs want to dress every day. Some (Like me dress once in a blue moon.
Labelling a CD or TV as a stereotype can be foolish.
Yes i dressfully,yes i have gone out dressed up. But, a different TV may have an urge to do it most days.
Get to know the person, not the stereotype | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser Posted: 11/19/2009 10:26:58 PM | I NEVER would I date a cross dresser. I like MEN who LOOK like MEN wearing 30 inch waist jeans and tight black shirts with longer hair. I would like to see men wear eyeliner, but I do NOT want to see men dressed as women or wearing their make up like women, or wearing wigs like women. I really want men to wear eyeliner but the way the man rock stars do. I do NOT want men wearing make up the way Boy George did. That was too much like a woman. I want men who look like men with a man's way of wearing eyeliner. Everyone, men and women should wear eyeliner. Male rock stars do. Eygptian men and women including male warriors wore eyeliner. Eygptians in the day of Marc Anthony and Cleopatra loved cats too. Men looking like men with Eyeliner and loving cats, I like that. Strange, but I am aware, cross dressing men are usually sexually straight as there have been men of this type who have consulted with me, to help them with their "look". I wrote them advice, but I NEVER would be interested in meeting them. I want men dressed as men and looking like men, as I already stated. If there are want to be rock star men who want to consult me for their look or have me professionally help them with their look in person, I am a licensed Cosmotologist. Crossdressers, I will write you but never be interested in meeting you. Men who want to have that man rock star look, that look like men, this interests me. | |
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| Have You or would You consider Dating a Crosstresser Posted: 11/20/2009 3:18:25 AM | [/Nope.. I don't think I would... I'd be afraid he'd look better in a dress then me!]
The other problem is if I meet both of you at the night club I may ask her/him (I am confused) to dance with me!!!!  | |
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