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| Why don't any one in Michigan reply when you send mail on here
Posted: 7/3/2007 7:06:30 PM | | Hi. I reply to every email that I get ans I am from Michigan. But I politely rpyed 4 times to a 62 yr. old man who was trying to date me and I was very nice to him and told him that I was looking for someone closer to my own age and he insulted me and then blocked me so that I could not reply to his insult, so to be honest , a couple of more times like that and I will stop responding. | |
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| Why don't any one in Michigan reply when you send mail on here
Posted: 7/9/2007 6:15:38 PM | The whole thing is pretty hilarious if you step back from it a bit. There has to be enough material in just this topic for several anthropology papers.
I assume there are factors we just don't realize at the gut level. The big one may be the gender ratio here. Of those women who do reply (and even initiate contact) here I can't tell you how many just disappear and come back months later. Then if pressed confess they "cyber dumped" you for a fancy lad who later did them wrong. Of course you're expected to deal with all of their renewed distrust of men and relationships. Like I'm their personal Ann Landers, or whipping boy, or what?
Then the ones who keep sending emails but never more than a line or three. But they want a book about you each time around. I wonder if they read 'em at all though because the same questions arise over and over.
Or the ones who can hardly be bothered to write because they're so busy with kids, parents, pet emergencies, etc. Forget having time to meet either. But "please write back" and "thanks for being my friend." The best part? Usually they have "Not Looking For Talk/Email" in their mail settings. LOL Why are these women even here?
Maybe instead of those "Bag Yer Millionaire" site ads they have here they ought to show ads for "Desperate Eunuch Pen-Pals." Or maybe just post a "Prison Pen-Pals" list of lonely-tattooed-guys-behind-bars email addresses.
So there's a whole spectrum from not replying to wasting your time to (I assume) legitimate contacts. | |
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| Why don't any one in Michigan reply when you send mail on here
Posted: 7/14/2007 11:56:44 AM | Why don't any one in Michigan reply when you send mail on here
OK its time to quit whining, first off you need to learn how to compose a sentence before you send email.
I make a lot of typo's, spell wrong at times, ect but you may not be getting responses because of your grammer.
Shouldn't it be "Why doesn't anyone in Michigan reply when you send them email on here" ??? | |
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| Why don't any one in Michigan reply when you send mail on here
Posted: 7/20/2007 7:20:05 PM | I have not been on here that long but, no guy asking this question has emailed me. In all fairness you may not be able to get past my restrictions either. Here is the way I feel about it though: If you take the time to write I will take the time to answer, even with poor grammar. If you are a perv you will be blocked. I have my email settings to 50+ characters to avoid just getting a hi. If the message is real short I will just ask them how they are doing and tell them to take care and have a great week.
Just my two cents.
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| Why don't any one in Michigan reply when you send mail on here
Posted: 7/21/2007 5:36:42 AM |
I have not been on here that long but, no guy asking this question has emailed me.
Bingo! I look at the headline "why don't any one in Michigan reply when you send mail on here" and what I think it should have said was: "why won't the hot women I drool over that are out of my league date me"? I bet the men asking this question didn't try to email 99% of the women on this thread...just a web-educated guess. | |
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| Why don't any one in Michigan reply when you send mail on here
Posted: 7/28/2007 3:54:36 PM | Hey I'm from michigan sexy guy and I answer all my email's....You just got some luck of the draw baby....Hit a girl up and you will get a reply
I have e-mailed a few ladies on this sight and I am polite when I do so . I dont even get somuch as a no thank you. and I thought men were the rude ones.
I was begining to wonder myself---- Hello is this thing on. | |
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| Why don't any one in Michigan reply when you send mail on here
Posted: 7/29/2007 12:37:06 PM | | hello, i do agree with you on this matter about Michigan plentyoffish chatters, and realy know why they doing this, and to be honest i think this site have most meanest people i ever seen!!!!!!!!!!!!!, and why they are in this site if they dont want to chat in the first place???!!!!, Good luck to you | |
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| Why don't any one in Michigan reply when you send mail on here
Posted: 7/29/2007 12:40:30 PM | | hello, i do agree with you on this matter about Michigan plentyoffish chatters, and i realy dont know why they are doing this??, and to be honest i think this site have the most meanest people i ever seen!!!!!!!!!!!!!, and why they are in this site if they dont want to chat in the first place???!!!!, Good luck to you | |
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| Why don't any one in Michigan reply when you send mail on here
Posted: 7/29/2007 7:06:32 PM | Honestly maybe the girls just aren't interested. When guys write me that are clearly not in my age range (like about to be my father...), I just don't write back because it clearly states what age I am looking for, so why waste my time. Also make sure you profile says something good and not something simple like I'm just looking for a nice girl blah blah. Tell a bit about yourself and what you really are looking for. Those are the types of things I like to read and are better than just a good looking picture as well. I think if the girl is really interested in you then she will write back. Good luck 2 U!  | |
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| Why don't any one in Michigan reply when you send mail on here
Posted: 7/30/2007 11:47:30 AM | | I do partially agree with you ramziinmi that most of the girls are mean, especially in the MI section. They shouldn't be in this site if they don't chat. There's only a few who are nice but I'm not arguing with you here. MI people are disrespectful and you're not the only one who thinks that and neither am I. | |
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| Why don't any one in Michigan reply when you send mail on here
Posted: 7/30/2007 4:40:47 PM | Michigan people just don't give a damn, That should be the state motto...
I don't get it either, I've actually met a girl on IMVU rather than this haha
Though another girl on here, wanted to go out with me. But she was mighty crazy and had way to many problems for me to keep interest. Plus she wasn't creative, I only go for intelligent women.
The girl I'm hooking up with. She lives a little ways up north, But she is well worth the travel....lol | |
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| Why don't any one in Michigan reply when you send mail on here
Posted: 11/14/2007 9:15:30 AM | It is simple....that in todays world it is easy to hide behind a computer...it is easy for others to be rude, mean and since you will never have face to face contact with those that dont respond some act very child like.
My advice is to treat others as you would like to be treated...no matter if the other party answers you back or not at least in your mind you can say that you treated that mystery person with white gloves.
Don't give up. | |
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| Why don't any one in Michigan reply when you send mail on here
Posted: 1/27/2008 5:35:13 AM | I get plenty of emails,...... and I can tell most of them are soooo busy shopping they seem to wander off like a 2 yr old in a candy store,.....
(I think its great ,tells me who to ignore)
if your female put a picture up that gets there attention, no im not saying nude im saying ,a decent picture of how You present Yourself to your world,.... .... look !!after two minutes men cant hear anything past blah blah blah,..........
so what do you know about men?,....there about looks ,looks and what is the best looking woman they can get ............ thats step one,.......... there tastes run as varied as womens,......take care of yourself,....you dont have to be J-lo just brush ya darn hairs nice,.throw on a bit of make-up put that bra back on ladys and wear some thing decent,....men about first what you look like ........ there lying if they say there not or (shrugs) there blind,....
if your going to fish use the right bait for the fish you want,..........
Guys if Your sporting that big azzed beer belly and trying for some one who isnt into all that belly mass,.....PFFt no wonder you dont get replys
reply to every email?,........are You kidding me?,..... thats like saying reply to every spam mail in your email,............I dont think there are any laws on this site about having to email every strange dude who writes,..
stop whinning and relook your profile over,......
hey maybe they just dont like whinners? | |
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