Anneri
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Joined: 8/25/2005
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Posted: 10/8/2005 3:33:40 AM | * grins at Rio*
No Rauol people who give a smile a shoulder and you can joke around with are freinds. xx | |
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Posted: 10/8/2005 11:12:54 PM | I believe true love can never be lost.
I hope to find it one day.....still think its
out there somewhere waiting for me after
two marriages, three kids and many
relationships  | |
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Posted: 10/10/2005 1:51:42 PM | ok!! i have yet to fall in love,
but i want to.
if you do not experience all you can
you are not living!!.
But i do think it is expected for everyone to
want love, some people may want never to share themselves
completely!! is it not wanting love or being afraid you may like it. | |
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Posted: 10/10/2005 2:05:21 PM | | I THOUGHT I WAS THERE ONCE OR TWICE BUT IT WAS SHEER LUST AND I LOVED IT!! BUT I HAVE NEVER HAD MY HEART BROKEN BY SOMEONE LEAVING ME BUT BY BEING LET DOWN TIME AND AGAIN AND JUST KNOWING IN YOUR HEART YOU HAVE TO MOVE ON FROM THE RELATIONSHIP...I ALSO THINK MY SHEER LOVE OF INDEPENDENCE STOPS ME IN MY TRACKS! BUT I WUD LIKE TO MEET SOMEONE THAT DOESNT INFRINGE ON THAT...AND LETS ME AWAY WITH MURDER...LOL.. ONE DAY................... | |
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Posted: 10/10/2005 2:20:07 PM | | Yes I better to Have Loved and Lost..then Never to have Loved at all ...if we didnt how would we know we had found love...I would Never it was a waste of time..it something we all have to go through..Till the Right One Come`s Along | |
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Posted: 10/10/2005 2:49:00 PM | | Ooooooooooh I love to love, but my baby he loves to dance he wants to dance, oooh I love to love........ | |
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Posted: 10/10/2005 4:53:44 PM | | My friend has just found out her bf was cheating, i think she probably at the moment wishes she hadnt ever loved him! | |
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Posted: 10/11/2005 3:14:56 PM | Its hard to even know when your really in love, i've been with someone for 6 years and cared alot for him but not sure it classified as love. I respect Anneri's view, good on you that you can enjoy your life with out the need for that one person.
I think we look to that special person for the security and closeness which is beyond what your family can offer, in the end all we want to be is happy, what ever form it may come in. If thats what makes you happy then despite the deep pain at the end its better to have experienced the positive feeling rather than never have. Its all about what makes us happy, its different with every individual.
gosh it all sounds aload of waffle what i've typed lol | |
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Posted: 10/13/2005 5:25:14 AM | | It's great to be in love. The effects are similar to that of a potent narcotic substance. The problem of course is the intense withdrawal after the party's over, which makes me wonder whether it was worth it after all. | |
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Posted: 10/24/2005 5:18:29 AM | Dancin with Flames, being in love is a lot more than having security and closeness, when
you find your true love you will know, trust me. You will have no doubts about it, he will
be on your mind at all times, everything you do will be done with him in mind, you two
become one, he will feel and think the same about you. Yes I have loved and lost, all i
have now are good memories. | |
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Leece
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Joined: 10/9/2005
Msg: 37 | |
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Posted: 10/24/2005 6:41:11 AM | You take away something from each relationship you have, even if it's just a little more knowledge about who you are as a person and how strong you can really be.
I mean you get your heart broken and you think oh god it will never get better, I will never love again, then time passes and you do move on. But you've learned something valuable, that your heart has infinitely more love to give and that you are stronger than you ever thought you could be.
Prefer not to lose... but at the same time... glad for the experience and the knowledge that I am still around and in the words of Gloria Gaynor... "I will survive" | |
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Posted: 10/24/2005 7:41:59 PM | | definately to have loved its an experience you will never forget even if it breaks your heart when its over | |
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simpa
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Joined: 10/1/2005
Msg: 41 | |
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Posted: 10/24/2005 8:41:58 PM | Loved and lost...
One is the most painful thing in the world which leaves you with feelings of vengence, hatred, hurt, denial, grievance, and self-loathing... and then you lose that and have to start again... | |
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Posted: 11/12/2005 7:23:10 AM | | Well I think it is better to of love than not at all, although I hear a few people all around me speaking like Anneri did ont he previous page having no problem about being on her own and I am wondering myself if that is what life is about, or maybe going back to, getting a bit scientific here. I have been hurt many times and now I am getting a bit bored of it and no longer want to get hurt and am thinking I am better on my own, guys are not honest enough and run away from their feelings too much, a bit like me at the mo but i am bored of it all and want more emotionally and mentally, physically it gets boring to, been there seen it done it, la la, so what next? The more you know and see the more you want, well i am bored of that to... | |
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Posted: 11/13/2005 3:39:29 AM | Peronally I could really do without having my heart ripped from my chest.....shown to me...stomped on...What an awful awful awful feeling. The lasting feeling is the heart with cleat holes in it, not the good times.
guys are not honest enough and run away from their feelings too much
I dont' know if that's true. I think guys just internalize things more than girls. We're more thinkers....girls are more feelers...or something like that lol
Bottom line, you best be able to make yourself happy and not depend on someone else for happiness, because chances are they are going to let you down. If you are happy with yourself, I would think you stand a better chance of attracting the same kind of person who can enhance your life rather than being your life. | |
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Posted: 11/13/2005 9:14:27 AM | I'm afraid. as Humans. We Have to experience Pain.
To be able to Understand Pleasure.
Or how would we know the Difference...?
Anyone who says it's better to have Loved and lost.
Hasn't | |
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Posted: 11/13/2005 10:11:26 AM | | It's better to regret something you've done, than something you havent. | |
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Posted: 11/13/2005 10:52:59 AM | Some great views here, I agree with most, love can be different every time, who knows if each one is 'true love' but if it feels good at the time and leaves a memory, I am happy to call it love.
I never regret anything I do, as if I didn't do it I would not know how to make a choice in the future. Life is a journey to be enjoyed, pain is a part of life, but one exists from the other. If you hadn't experienced such pleasure in the first place it wouldn't be so painful when it is gone. | |
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