| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 5/29/2006 5:37:41 AM | short answer... No one is perfect.
Long answer ..... try to find a "perfect " diamond... it's possible , but it will take time , energy , patience , perseverence , persistance.... and maybe a smidge of compromise.... sounds a lot like finding a good person doesn't it ? | |
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 3/3/2007 5:08:39 PM | | Why is it so hard to find Mr Right? Because in reality, there is no Mr Right. You can conjure up that "perfect man" in your mind but in reality you need to work at a relationship. What did we do for dating before computers? We actually met the person, face-to-face and went from there. Mr Right is who you make him - not the "perfect man" on the other end of the computer!!! | |
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 3/3/2007 5:46:56 PM | Funny... I ask every night why it's so hard to find Mrs. right. Perhaps try looking for Master Right while I look for Mistress Right? Those married types tend to be a bit stingy with sharing :P
But on a more serious note... maybe we project our hopes, dreams and ambitions a touch too much onto others, and are disappointed when they don't measure up? | |
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 3/3/2007 5:52:55 PM | | Definite Mr./Mrs. Right. Define what they are supposed to be able to do for you. If impractical for you to do to them, you may have set the goals too high when trying to locate them. Don't ask for Mr./Mrs. Right in your profile, as you won't get replies from people who know the expectation is unrealistic. And those who know it is unrealistic usually are the best to have. They will make every effort to make the best of the relationship and try to communciate with you, and verify that communication is good with you, because they know they aren't perfect. These are the people to go for. Not the person who says "yes sir", and "yes madam" to every statement. You need a little debate, but not too much. You need a little difference, but not so much they are completely outside of your scope of desires. Look for partial matches, and grow to enjoy them for what they are. Just to have the partial match is leagues above having none at all. So think of the Goldilocks principle "not too hot, not too cold!" When you reach that happy medium, go for them and don't look back. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 3/3/2007 6:13:51 PM | Its kind of like looking for Ms. Right.
I stopped doing that awhile ago.
I'm just looking for Ms. Right Now who happens to be carrying a 12 pack of beer and a large pepperoni & olive. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 3/3/2007 6:21:38 PM | I thought I found my Mr Right but it happened I wasn't his Miss .Right,,, you win some you lose some,,,,,,life goes on and when you least expect it he will find you.....,  | |
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 3/3/2007 6:48:53 PM | Remember the old saying "the teacher will appear when the student is ready?"
Confuscious say: "When you work on becoming Ms. Right... Mr. Right will show up."
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 3/3/2007 9:27:10 PM | Dear Maggie,
Its usually hard to find mr, right because u focus on it too much. try this, focus on making yourself a better person and he will find you. we get so hung up on "MR RIGHT" we forget to take care of ourselves. the trick is once u know yourself you know what u are looking for in a potential mate. good luck friend and remember,
"IT CAN'T RAIN ALL THE TIME!" | |
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 3/3/2007 9:53:23 PM | | Not sure if that even exists. I am trying to just be happy with what i have, and the people in my life who are my friends. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 3/5/2007 12:53:55 AM | | a lot of women are on hundred's of favorits lists, mabey they should take the time to look at a few admieres more seriously,wen i see a woman that has 2t0500 fav's, i take it as a red flag | |
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 3/5/2007 3:33:08 AM | I don't think it's that hard to "find" Mr. Right.
I do think it's hard to get the guy with all the things you want to "want" you.
Mr. Right usually is a good looking tall guy with a good job, great finances, good physical shape, a sense of humor, a good family background, someone you have chemistry with and has good health. He's probably not too old and hasn't been beaten down by multiple divorces either. Well there aren't that many guys out there like that. And the ones who have that can pick from any number of girls out there.
If you see "Mr. Right" and he walks past you, it's because he can do better than you. That might sound cruel, but that's just how real life works out. Too often I see people get angry about the fact that the best they can do is "Mr. Good Enough For Right Now" They end up resenting the person they are with and they end up resenting themselves.
"Mr. Right" isn't going to walk up and bump into you. People have to go out there and socialize and get into activities and put themselves in a position to be noticed. Too many people want something for nothing. They want maximize results without putting in maximum work to get it. Then they cry about their dating lives. No one gives it to you in life, you have to go out there and take it. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 3/5/2007 3:44:38 AM | Mabey your not looking in the right spot. But it could be that you need to give someone the chance to show how good they can treat you. Some times we figure people are goingh to be as bad or worse than the others. So you don't give them a chance and you end up running them off before you can find out. Hope it helps some. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 3/5/2007 3:58:44 AM | | As a guy I prefer the traditional ways of meeting. To find the so called Mr. Right be active with work, festivals or what ever is happenning around town. I have more fun getting out and doing things. You meet people that way but u have to apply your self..I know this sounds weird but like animals, birds for instance, do flirt with one another before they hook up. Dating sites suck because the flirting is taken away and it is put at a level that a key board will never replace the real eye contact and real life physcial glue...be active, don't be afarid to flirt and do not hurry into relationships. Know one another first and hopefully it will come. Hoo-ray for traditional ways.... | |
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 3/5/2007 4:12:31 AM | | The answer is simple: There's no such thing as Mr. Right. All relationships involve a certain degree of compromise. People who can't do that are never happy with whoever they happen to be with. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 3/5/2007 4:27:44 AM | Well Maggie,
I have often asked myself the same question.
I found some of the answers to your question a few years ago,
when I made a list of the qualities I was looking
for in a man.
This has to be a very extensive list, minimum 75-100 attributes
that are important to you.
When you are done, look at the list and ask yourself honestly...
Do I have this quality to offer, if you don't, but you are attracted to someone
who has, consider developing it in yourself.
When you list is done, and you are satisfied with it,
close your eyes for a few moments, and in the silence, just allow
unconditional love, joy and peace to begin to flow through you.
Now, in this state, surrender your request for the perfect man
to the Universe, and trust that the Universe will provide
the right partner for you at this time in your life.
You may notice that many of your needs will be provided for
by someone other then the ideal mate, it could be from a family member,
a child, a co-worker, it does not matter.
The more your needs are met, the less you will require from
your partner. As you grow, you will notice that the experiences
you are attracting in your life will become full of joy and laughter and you
will be more present and grateful for each moment.
CREATE JOY
SOULDREAMER | |
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 3/5/2007 4:32:11 AM | I think Its not that hard, if you look in your white pages, I am sure there would be plenty of Mr Rights. But if you like to go out with a Mr Right when you get the number then call them and ask them if they are married, otherwise you might have to have Mr Right and carry his baggage too, good luck.
Do you know Who? please let me know I have checked the white pages but there is no Who. For years everyone's been telling me Who knows but I can't find him.
Okay if you don't find Mr Right but by chance you find Who, he might know the answer to your question.
Good luck
Goddess of Lightning
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 3/5/2007 5:04:59 AM | | Why is it so hard for women to tell the truth and tell what they really want? It seems most women want men with money and whom will give them the most. They seem to not want a real MAN. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 3/5/2007 6:08:41 AM | | There are so many wonderful men out there, with all the right quality traits...but I don't care who you are...chemistry...chemistry...chemistry! No matter how terrific either party is, if there is no chemistry it won't work. How hard is any one really going to want to try to please his/her partner in bed if there is no chemitry to get things started. Be honest about who you are and what you REALLY want! My X was not very good looking but we had chemistry...so it is not all about looks either! | |
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 3/5/2007 6:26:49 AM | Mr Right is not supposed to be found. It's supposed to remain a figment of our imagination. Someone we'll always dream about, but never quite get to meet.. He's supposed to have all the traits of our personal hero. And he's supposed to love us to death. And have a personality of prince charming. Etc.
We make him someone out of reach.
It's all in our heads.
He might be someone living close by, but once we get to know him, he loses the mystery and the charm of a magical creature, so he can't be Mr Right any longer...
Such silly life... | |
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 3/5/2007 7:10:31 AM | | the main reason is in my veiw that most people are mess up and their are too many guys and girls that are sleeping with everybody and thats why its hard to find mr right or mrs right. Its too easy for people to sleep around and thats the reason. i like being picky for a reason im not sleeping with everybody. i want to find somebody who is fun and resepectfull and who i find to be goodlooking and doest sleep around with everybody id rather be single than settle for something i dont want.people have lost their morals. in my veiw thats why its hard to find mr. right. in my veiw. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 3/5/2007 11:29:54 AM | | Because he doesn't exist. and prince charming is married to cinderella. I know they say that there is someone out there for everyone, but sometimes i wonder if some of us were just meant to be alone. | |
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