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 .Marc
Joined: 2/11/2007
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Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?Page 13 of 13    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13)
Because finding someone that matches you is difficult.

Interacting with people is complicated. Finding someone with social quarks that are similar enough that you can live together forever is tough.
 wanderer1999
Joined: 2/10/2007
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Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 5/4/2007 6:21:23 AM
Lots of possible answers. Here's a few possible scenario's...

-You blew him off when he asked you to dance/for a date/for a phone number
-You scared him off with your desperation/neediness
-You made him think you were uninterested because you never call/e-mail guys
-You made him feel unimportant because you didn't make time to spend with him
-You made him feel like an object when you showed him off to your girlfriends
-You made him feel like a bank machine when you asked him to buy you things
-You appeared unapproachable after you turned down the five guys who asked you to dance before him
-Your friends dragged you away to the ladies room because they thought he wasn't right for you
-You lost his trust when he found out your photo/age/weight wasn't accurate
-You made him feel useless because you were unable to emotionally let him in
-You made him feel like he wasn't sexy because you wouldn't give him more physical attention
-You made him feel smaller when your conversations were always belittling of men
-You made him doubt your feelings when you became unwilling to fully commit
-You made him think you don't care because you never asked what he wanted
-You decided he wasn't Mr. Right because someone else told you so
-You deleted his e-mail without reading it
-You decided not to answer his e-mail because he had a fuzzy/no picture
-You decided not to answer his e-mail because he had spelling/grammatical errors in his profile
-You decided not to answer his e-mail because it didn't read like a literary masterpiece

-You lost him because he respected himself, and decided to find a woman who wasn't afraid of being Mrs. Right.

The morale of the story, just because you want Mr. Right, doesn't mean you actually deserve him.
 sunshine2900
Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 302
Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 5/10/2007 1:00:17 PM
Hi Yummy fox

There is no such thing as Mr Right in the dating world. According to relationship expert. There is no Mr Right or Miss Right. You yourself have to make yourself a Miss Right or Mr Right. Looking for the girl or boy next door. Dont ask for the impossible.
Reach out and love and serve others. When people got to know who you are that you are a very lovable person willing to reach out and touch and make a difference in others life. People will just come knocking at your pathway. Look for the things that normal couple do while dating and dont ask for any expectation in return in a relationship. Just be geninue, be yourself. And proof to others that you are a person that is credible, geninue and honest. Approachable, easy to get along with. Help others and go the extra miles to help others in need. Be people oriented and love other. Then you will not have difficulty find the people to have fun, laid back and easy time to get along and go with the flow. Find out others interest and cultivate a geninue interest in other people's activities. Be postive, considerate, p0lite and fun to be with. In no time you will have friend to be around with, to share and enjoy life with. Good life and make yourself Miss Right first..
 bullielover62
Joined: 12/2/2006
Msg: 303
Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 5/10/2007 1:22:32 PM

Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?

Cuz he's hiding under my desk at work......
 A New Adventure
Joined: 3/31/2007
Msg: 304
Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 5/10/2007 1:36:42 PM
Wanderer1999 is right: we're wise enough to see right through the games and are fully aware of the excruciating details you look at that we're becoming more savvy of looking at them ourselves (IE: We know you'd turn a man down for spelling so we use a spell check, we know you'd turn a man down for having too dry of skin, so we moisturize as a result), and we know you test us and that's why we're all ways on our toes when we interact with you.
 Hott Buttered Soul
Joined: 5/2/2007
Msg: 305
Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 5/10/2007 1:51:37 PM
Why is it so hard to Ms. right..

Touche!
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