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 midevil
Joined: 11/14/2005
Msg: 101
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what's your idea of Mr.Right?
 Mr. Hmmmmmmmmm........?
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 102
Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 11/29/2005 2:49:49 AM
I'll make it easy for you: Mr. Right is right here!
 GoddessThemis
Joined: 11/6/2005
Msg: 103
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Posted: 12/11/2005 2:23:40 AM
I'd settle for Mr. Right for Right Now
 cwunreal
Joined: 11/4/2004
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Posted: 12/11/2005 2:53:54 AM
i know the feeling yummy i have been hurt lots too. keep your chin up there is someone out there for all of us.

 nonick
Joined: 12/11/2005
Msg: 105
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Posted: 12/11/2005 3:17:47 AM
hmm maybe mr right now is blocking your view
you want mr right ..look around he may be someone you already know... when we narrow our vision to "mr" right the blinders dont let you see those who are already by your side

its human nature to want what we cant have

mr/mrs right isnt someone that just shows up and is absolutly perfect no work needed
where's the fun in that ..good for awhile.. but we all have to feel needed,desired and wanted and thats where compromise an change come in.
we need to grow,learn and compromise with each other thats where the value and security comes into a relationship is not immediate ..its a journey

then again ..maybe i'm just full of shyte

happy hunting
 kcub63
Joined: 11/15/2005
Msg: 106
Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 12/11/2005 3:19:46 AM
There is no Mr. Right nor a Mr. Perfect, but in time there is a true love. Plus nothing wrong with Mr Right Now. LOL Good luck, Foxylady.
 -Aussie Buff-
Joined: 11/28/2005
Msg: 107
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Posted: 12/11/2005 3:21:54 AM
All the Mr Rights live in Australia - unfortunately all the Miss Wrongs live here as well
 nonick
Joined: 12/11/2005
Msg: 108
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Posted: 12/11/2005 3:23:46 AM
oops
sorry bout the typo's didnt realize there was no edit button

 sweetNsexy27
Joined: 2/9/2005
Msg: 109
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Posted: 12/11/2005 6:33:44 AM
make that 3, my name is Tammy too......lol
 sweetNsexy27
Joined: 2/9/2005
Msg: 110
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Posted: 12/11/2005 6:35:08 AM
I believe that if its meant to be it will happen......and everything happens for a reason........you'll find that "one" some day...........
 l4ng
Joined: 10/21/2005
Msg: 111
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Posted: 12/11/2005 6:36:56 AM
If you lower your requirment you will find many .

the more you listen to them ,the more chance you get one

I think so
 po1
Joined: 3/6/2005
Msg: 112
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Posted: 12/11/2005 6:41:50 AM
I guess I got lucky....miss right was miss hot, too!

 GoddessThemis
Joined: 11/6/2005
Msg: 113
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Posted: 12/11/2005 7:06:13 AM
If you lower your requirement you will find many

I already knew this, tried this and then added even more requirements -

Mr. Right for Right Now requirements for me are:


He is intelligent

He is taller than me from 5'10 and up so I can still wear my heels out

He is in college, some college, tried college or a college grad

He would be between 28 and 54

He would be able to make laugh

He is working in a profession that is ethical

He will not conform to the general way of thinking

He would love music as much as I do, maybe even play an instrument

He would be able to make me want to just melt when I look at him

He would be able to pass a criminal background check and have it come clean

He would not use illegal drugs

He would have his own clean apartment, condo house whatever but he would live alone

He would not have any children

He would know how to dance or at least try with me in private

He would watch Seinfeld

He would have a car or truck that is spotless on the inside and out

He would have a drink when he gets off work

He would be "clean cut" looking

He would buy me inexpensive yet meaningful gifts

He would live within 45 minutes from my place

He would never pressure me to marry him or live with him

He would make me happy enough so I could stop dating Mr. WRONGs
 totallyspunt
Joined: 11/23/2005
Msg: 114
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Posted: 12/11/2005 7:25:06 AM
i agree with tammy/3 if its meant to be then so be it.until then ,quit worring,enjoy life,and never sell yuorself short..
 bandit7220
Joined: 12/3/2005
Msg: 115
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Posted: 12/11/2005 7:40:46 AM
well Maggie, the answer is actualy pretty easy to your question, it's because of limits. we limit ourselfs to what we will consider dating, their to young, their to old, their a geek, their to fat, their to skinny, to wimpy, and the list goes on. so why do we do this? because of what we see in life,TV,movies and so on, all these places dictate what we think we want, now granted there has to be an attraction of sorts, but to many put everything on looks, why?
well who doesn't want that hot girl, or hot guy on their arm when they show up places, making your friends and strangers thinking how lucky you are, but you know what? it doesn't last, because once the feelings of lust had passed, (which is what most people concive as love at first sight), but the day comes when you find out there is nothing deeper to sustain the relationship, and looks only go so far. we all get older and change as we age, it's part of growing up.
why do you think movies always show the happy ending? they ride off into the sunset and all that crap. why dont they show these people 5 or 10 years later? well thats because there not together anymore. and wouldnt make for a very good movie. and the other problem in relationships? we hook up with people thinking we can change them, istead of accepting who they are, we think we can make them into something we want, or women very often look at time invested in a relationship, so they wont move on when they should of.
so here is some insight for you, you cant change people!!!! we are who we are, if you find things about someone you dont like, (and you will with anyone you date). you better be sure you can life with these faults, even the ones you think are so cute will get on your nerves over the years. and lets look at changing in people, if you do change them, now there not the person you first fell in love with, and chances are you won't like the changes, and the other person isn't going to be happy either, because there feeling lost, of who they once were. so where does it end up?
going bad again. people have to learn to love, learn to overlook things, and not have unreachable expectations or their partner. thats what is called unconditional love, you have to support each other no matter what you think, people have to learn on their own, and change on their own' because they want to, not because their made to feel they have to, or because its something someone else wants. or needs.
well sorry this got a little long winded, but to sum it up, don't limit your options. would be much nicer to be happy the rest of your life, then the emotional rollor coaster, and crash and burn of a relationship, or a bad marraige. Well thanks for reading this and if you have any other questions i can help with, feel free to contact me, that goes for anyone else also that reads this post. Well good luck to you Maggie
 zeee1969
Joined: 10/4/2005
Msg: 116
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Posted: 12/11/2005 12:31:05 PM
All you females are not looking for Mr Right your looking for the Bad Boy or the 6 ft Tall Dark and Handsome Prince, just like a lot of men your looking for what raises the temerature right now.Wrong wrong wrong. Its the same with us the first thing we notice on here is her big tits popping out of her shirt or her ass pushed up against the screen and you know what to do to get are attention
 -Aussie Buff-
Joined: 11/28/2005
Msg: 117
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Posted: 12/11/2005 12:35:25 PM
Found this on the web - makes for an interesting read - when you see how much of it there is you will see that it is impossible for men to live up to the "Mr Right Tag"

taken from www.nomarriage.com

Rachel's (18yo woman) "Perfect Guy" Qualities List.

Rachel is a real girl. The list was taken from her website. Rachel is a typical young American woman. Keep in mind that she expects everything on the list simply because she has vagina.

1. 5'8” and taller
2. Dark brown hair with brown eyes/blue eyes
3. Handsome
4. Muscular
5. Weight depending on height – not skinny, not fat
6. Good sense of humor
7. Dimples
8. Cute laugh
9. Sensitive
10. *Affectionate* in front of friends
11. Gives me lots of attention
12. Outgoing
13. Popular but doesn't know the whole state
14. Friends with my friends
15. Nice smile
16. Straight teeth
17. No facial or body hair (except legs n under arms)
18. Pierced ear(s) if any
19. Not too many tattoos if any
20. Likes to cuddle
21. Likes to party
22. Takes me out
23. Grabs my hand to hold
24. Kisses me unexpectedly
25. Dresses nice (*ABERCROMBIE*) hehe
26. Has a good job
27. Tells me he misses me when we're not together
28. Makes me laugh
29. Open minded
30. Polite
31. Holds doors for me
32. Opens car doors
33. *Romantic*
34. Likes all type of music
35. Likes going to the movies
36. Talks to his friends about me
37. Looks into my eyes when just laying there on the bed
38. Gives massages without me having to ask
39. Plays with my hair
40. Calls me to just say hi
41. Tries not to argue
42. Apologizes for when he does wrong
43. Says what he's feeling
44. Has a car
45. Has a dog
46. Has a family that likes me
47. Compliments me
48. Is tan
49. Doesn't curse all the time
50. Wants to be with me as much as possible
51. Comes over unexpectedly
52. Wakes me up with a kiss
53. Same age or 3 years at the most older than me
54. *Trustworthy*
55. Patient
56. Likes to shop
57. Has good manners
58. Doesn't smoke
59. Occasionally drinks
60. Athletic
61. Is on time for dates
62. Calls back later when he says he will
63. Lives close to me
64. Wants to meet my family
65. Treats me like a princess
66. Has a cute butt
67. Good kissable lips
68. Good kisser
69. Good memory
70. Does special things for holidays/birthdays/anniversary/etc
71. Intelligent
72. Has direction
73. Creative
74. Likes everything about me
75. Committed
76. *My best friend*
77. Respectful
78. Mature
79. Persistent – Hard working
80. Likes walks on the beach
81. Likes just staying home sometimes
82. Writes me songs/poems
83. Likes to dance
84. Has a sexy voice
85. Cooks for me
86. Likes to show me off
87. Calls me or introduces me as his "girlfriend" not "Rachel"
88. Likes to take pictures
89. Flirts with me in public and in private
90. Puts up with my mood swings
91. Comforts me when I'm sad
92. Doesn't say “sorry” all the time when it's not needed
93. Sticks up for me
94. Likes animals
95. Sends me flowers for no reason
96. Ignores my imperfections
97. Surprises me (good surprises)
98. Doesn't ever yell at me
99. Likes picnics
100. Likes to clean
101. First to say I Love You
102. Listens to me
103. Smells good
104. *Doesn't lie*
105. Likes kids
106. Makes me the center of his world
107. Not in trouble with the law
108. Isn't a goody-goody
109. Doesn't stare at other girls
110. Doesn't talk to other girls more than me
111. Doodles our names on paper
112. Likes to draw
113. Leaves notes on my car
114. Let's me go out with him and his friends
115. Will hang out with me and my friends
116. Puts pictures of me in his car and wallet
117. Gets jealous but not too jealous
118. Dependable
119. Doesn't hang up on me
120. Calls me babe, sweetie, etc
121. Calls me cute pet names
122. Isn't conceited
123. Isn't a penny-pincher
124. Likes sports and going to sports events
125. Likes to play board games/video games and lets me win
126. Doesn't play mind games
127. Doesn't just think about sex
128. Cares about world issues
129. Doesn't make me cry
130. Leaves sweet voicemails/text messages on my phone
131. Isn't shy
132. Has hopes, dreams, and wishes
133. Not opinionated
134. Will watch chick flicks even if he doesn't like them
135. Can spell
 chattergal
Joined: 9/6/2005
Msg: 118
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Posted: 12/11/2005 5:51:51 PM
Maybe because you are trying to hard? Let Mr.Right come to you. When you least expect it; it will happen. It takes time,effort and the willingness to have patience and confidence. I am hopeful that my Mr.Right will bump into me on my worse hair day and there will be a sparkle in our eyes. That way I will know he is my Mr.Right. If he can accept me on my worse hair day then it was meant to be. Good luck in your search.
 Tastey
Joined: 12/3/2005
Msg: 119
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Posted: 12/11/2005 6:04:08 PM
there is no mr.right
only who is right for you
he may be right for you but bad for everyone else
 Mike Anthony
Joined: 10/23/2005
Msg: 120
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Posted: 12/11/2005 6:12:23 PM
Its hard to find Mr. Right because he is to busy looking for Ms. Right. Two rights make a wrong..look for Mr. Wrong and you will find Mr. Right....Okay I know this dont make any sence but I figured it out...
 Ducimus
Joined: 8/21/2005
Msg: 121
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Posted: 12/11/2005 6:13:57 PM
It like they think they are car shopping and sites like this only make it worse. They apprach finding a man like like looking for a used car, except in this fantasy they ar not limited by what they can afford. The want the righ make model and year with a very specific set of options that thrir personal ideal. the thing is we never need what we thing we need. were to close to our own situations to be objective

They could sit in the perfect car and not know it because they are not open to anything other than the ideals they have set up.
 angel_smile
Joined: 9/18/2005
Msg: 122
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Posted: 12/11/2005 6:14:08 PM
Maybe bacause Mr Right doens't exist, mind you there's plenty of mr wrong...
 SemiGoodLife
Joined: 7/4/2005
Msg: 123
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Posted: 12/11/2005 6:19:03 PM
Mr. Right seems to be so hard to find because either he's with someone else, or he's much too old for you. It's sad to say, but the younger generation isn't exactly doing much to change my mind.
 Shock and Awe!
Joined: 8/2/2005
Msg: 124
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Posted: 12/11/2005 7:17:49 PM
No one can tell You why!
Only You can answer that, and even You will never have the
answer till You get Yourself straightened out?
It's a state of mind more than any list of requirements.
And sometimes people have to forgo something they
thought was important, not to settle for less, but only
to discover something else in the person, which
makes Your relationship much more fulfilling!
 codemonkey
Joined: 11/16/2005
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Posted: 12/11/2005 8:59:20 PM
Because your not looking for mr.right. Your looking for mr.armCandyExcitmentFlashyboyUsesHairGellGetsAttention.

Don't lie.
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