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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 12/14/2005 8:55:58 PM | | Dating, love, relationships are tricky, I think a good many of us are so concerned with this grand ideal of our perfect mate and all the attributes that are musts, but I like to think that this person isn't stuck to be the way they are that they can become so much more and I don't mean change for my expectations but to change over time and grow as an idividual. Alot of guys are scared of rejection from women so it's hard for them to just start a conversation, personally I can start a conversation with virtually anyone, but to meet women in a place like a bar or club is a little different just so much more pressure involved people know what I mean hard to describe on the net, but in the end who can really say conclusively who is Mr/Mrs Right or what they are. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 12/21/2005 2:48:34 PM | God only knows??? I dont know myself,and felt at one point,the way the dating scene is out there ,well its ok if im single.as you have to be ok with that possiblity in life.My friends got me on this site recently and i never knew what to expect.I dont go out to bars etc.Its funny when you least expect it ,is when someone is right there,sometimes for awhile.then it hits you like a ton of bricks'''.You just have to take a chance and meet people till the right one comes along. Be true to yourself,and know what is best for you. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 12/21/2005 2:58:39 PM | | There is no Mr. Right. By expecting one, you are setting yourself up for failure. Relationships are about give and take. However, You can find a compatible partner only if you are willing to except his flaws and work through your differences throught understanding each other. That is the only way to find lasting love. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 12/22/2005 5:41:45 AM | | Yea, very hard to make a relationship work, especially if you move in with the other person, it gets to the point that you start to "hate" the sight of the other person since your around each other too much. At least thats what happen to me with my ex, she tended to be like the dominating control person over me. anybody try E-harmony? | |
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 12/22/2005 6:15:01 AM | when ya find mr right ya know it just make sure ya not looking for mr perfect cos noones perfect and ya wont find it so dont confuse the 2 lol | |
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Joined: 9/9/2005
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ya472
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Joined: 8/8/2005
Msg: 208 | |
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 12/22/2005 11:01:24 AM | | my observation is that there are more and more men who really don't want to commit, which makes the selection fewer .... | |
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Joined: 8/8/2005
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 12/22/2005 11:23:42 AM | ..
my observation is that there are more and more men who really don't want to commit, which makes the selection fewer ....
What it NOW means for a guy to commit:
1) After years of hanging out on POF, you finally find someone who will reply.
2) Three dates and the guy is expected to put out, meet the family and plan an expensive and elaborate wedding, again.
3) Six months later, sex is only available at the street corner, again.
4) Another six months and she finds a guy who is less boring and she enjoys the dating and wooing stage of a relationship
5) This is followed by a vicious search and seizure of all home furniture and appliances plus half of his accumulated assets.
6) Causing erosion of the relationship with his children who expected an inheritance.
7) The less boring fella was your best man.
8) Repeat the cycle.
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 12/22/2005 12:50:23 PM | | Years on POF ... Yikes .... that's scary in itself ... this is exactly one of the points i was referring to .... a lot of bitter people out there .... believe me i have had more than my fair share of things going BAD ... but hopefully i learned a few things from that and proceed on with life being wiser but not limiting myself .... i truly believe in the saying "life's too short" make the best of it ! | |
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Joined: 9/9/2005
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 12/22/2005 2:37:47 PM | Well the times they are a changing as one poet once wrote and people can't bring their past into new relationships....we have also become a disposable society which is a shame in many ways. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 12/22/2005 3:28:35 PM | Yahweh gave me my Mr Right. This is not to say he's perfect after all we live in an imperfect world. However I love him with all my heart, soul, and mind and want only what's best for him no matter what.
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Joined: 10/9/2005
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Joined: 9/6/2005
Msg: 217 | |
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 12/23/2005 1:35:24 PM | A few months back I gave some advice to a friend in Europe, which she followed. Basically, I suggested she be open minded about who she meets, and to learn about them before meeting them, and only meeting those who definitely have potential. However, there is one other thing you need to find what you want. Anyway, the following is a quote from her:
I am very happy with myself in all aspects. I am also choosing the people I want to meet after talking to them and getting to know them and about them and obviously it works.
Clearly, if you are NOT happy with yourself, then noone is going to make you happy. Once you know who you are and are happy with that, it is easier to find someone, and it is easier to wait to meet someone when the time is right. It worked for me, and it is working for my friend. She has several wonderful choices, but she and they are in no rush to make a choice, instead they are enjoying the journey.
Happy Solstice and Happy New Year to all! | |
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 12/23/2005 1:57:48 PM | | I found Miss Right once. Then, me being Mr. Wrong, I lost her. I have been trying to find Miss Right ever since. It's a long, hard road for some, and easy baby steps for others. I am glad it is the long hard road for me because, when I meet her, it will be worth it. Some people may that sounds like a pile of BS. Go right ahead. I'm not being picky, I'm being selective and making damn sure that this time, I am Mr. Right. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 12/23/2005 2:47:05 PM | | No, it's not! I can honestly say that I find interesting, handsome and successful men everywhere I go...and most of my relationships have been happy. You have to have an open mind set and NOT EXPECT anything when you meet someone. You go with the flow and you have a positive outlook in relationships and yourself and watch how all the Mr. Rights will come runnign to you. There were times, when I had so many Mr. Rights around me, that I didn't know what to do! | |
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 12/23/2005 7:45:50 PM | I'm sorry, I just have to comment on Jeniva's decliration of her own self worth.
If you place yourself on a pedistal so high noone can reach you, dont be surprised when you find yourself alone. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?
Posted: 12/23/2005 8:09:07 PM | | Because there is no Mr. Right or prince charming. All men have flaws, so do all women. Like the song that says "shoes don't stretch and men don't change" fits. If their not what you want when you meet them, then move on because people don't change (there is always an exception to the rule, but rare). | |
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