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 Incuubus2113
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The more responses I read, the more depressed I'm getting. Is it impossible for a good looking guy in the scene anymore?
 Erinlove
Joined: 11/30/2008
Msg: 302
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Posted: 7/20/2009 7:20:41 PM
I'm not.

Once this police officer came to my house to bring me stuff my ex high jacked, and I looked at him and my jaw dropped, he was gorgeous. I never had a man make me stand there with my mouth open like that before. That was something lol

He met my eyes and an it looked like he thought I was more attractive than he thought I'd be too. It was one of those moments that slow down. That split second felt like forever. Anyway, I quickly gained my composure and talked to him like he was any other guy.

I even dropped something on his cruiser and he stepped forward to catch it from falling on the cement. I said "opps, I am dropping things" and I heard him give a gentle laugh. The air was thick with something. I never had a moment like that before in my life.
Intimidated? No. Knowing when it is inappropriate to hit on someone? Yeah.
 elektra89
Joined: 6/27/2010
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Posted: 7/10/2010 10:47:53 PM
IKR...I feel the same. I'm probably the same size and height as Queen Latifah. I feel because of it I can't get a quality man.
I'm almost 40 and feel like it's almost too late for me. Attractive guys never say anything to me so I just assume I look disgusting to them.
 elektra89
Joined: 6/27/2010
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Posted: 7/10/2010 10:48:19 PM
IKR...I feel the same. I'm probably the same size and height as Queen Latifah. I feel because of it I can't get a quality man.
I'm almost 40 and feel like it's almost too late for me. Attractive guys never say anything to me so I just assume I look disgusting to them.
 Alekhinejr
Joined: 12/4/2009
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Posted: 7/11/2010 1:45:01 AM
a cross you bear, sir....no matter how heavy....
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
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Posted: 7/11/2010 11:09:07 AM
I am so afraid of attractive guys, my poor knees buckled down and my heart beat boom! boom! boom! whenever I see an attractive guy that I am force to lie down any where and any time...

Oooops! I hope there is no nun and priest on this dating forum,because my post is a little bit ex rated...............

 skirtsnboots
Joined: 6/27/2009
Msg: 307
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Posted: 7/11/2010 11:20:09 AM
Ooh! Absolutely not!
I saw a very gorgeous one yesterday..spent most of the afternoon watching him actually!
 06mc69
Joined: 8/31/2009
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Posted: 7/11/2010 11:57:35 PM
I am intimidated by hot guys as well. Most are conceited. I had a fwb that was very hot, we were fwb's for a year and a half, but, he was in it for himself.. most of the time. Hot guys are always looking for more hot girls..
 TheReason_
Joined: 5/16/2009
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Posted: 7/14/2010 11:56:39 AM
Women are always afraid of my ridiculously good looking good looks. I guess that's why I'm doomed to be alone.


*blue steel*





 DragNFlyBuzzez
Joined: 12/9/2009
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Posted: 7/14/2010 12:11:52 PM
there is a full moon out or somthing, attractive guys are whining!!!!! Holy Toledo,
OP, get a hold of yourself, your whining that your too good looking to get a good looking date,

Turn your man card in, immeadiately, do not proceed with it,

I'm to good looking that good looking girls dont want me............whaaaaa
 gingergeek
Joined: 5/23/2010
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Posted: 7/14/2010 1:04:43 PM
see, not only am i ginger, but i'm also scottish... at best, i'm middle of the road in the looks department, so on that bombshell women seem to have no problem talking to me ;)

its definately true of the reverse, men do get very nervous around good looking woman. some have the charm and c0ckyness to deal with it. i have no problem chatting to good looking woman, as i know i ain't getting anywhere with them anyway ;)

my only bit of advice to the woman out there, is... take a punt, if you started with nothing and you leave with nothing, you've lost nothing. same goes for guys. so you got shot down? so what? should that hamper you when you see someone you like and the chances are the feelings could be mutual, only you can get in the way of yourself.

Cheers
 thetennisgal
Joined: 7/12/2010
Msg: 312
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Posted: 7/15/2010 9:58:58 AM
hahahaha is this a serious post ?
 Yew4ics
Joined: 9/30/2010
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Posted: 6/24/2011 11:57:34 AM
No, I'm not intimidated by attractive men. I love to flirt, smile and talk to them. Then again, I'm pretty outgoing with everyone, not just attractive men. Ironically I do have a fear of any kind of public speaking, as outgoing as I am. I guess I can talk freely and comfortable with anyone, as long as it's one at a time. If it's a good looking guy, that's even better. However...put me in a public speaking situation or the center of group attention in any situation, and I'm sweating bullets.
 Consigliori
Joined: 1/7/2008
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Posted: 6/24/2011 1:28:36 PM
Get married and tote a couple of kids around. It works like a charm. Women everywhere suddenly seem to think you're one of them.
 Stray__Cat
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Posted: 6/24/2011 2:36:44 PM
Only the unattractive ones are.
The really cute ones aren't scared of me at all.
So really I have to work hard in getting the upper hand with them.
 Vannili
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Posted: 6/24/2011 2:40:22 PM

Are women afraid of Attractive guys ?



Just a question:



If those attractive guys are a threat on my Life, yes I will be afraid and run for COVER.

Just an answer...............
 PittsburghVixen
Joined: 6/27/2009
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Posted: 6/24/2011 7:58:15 PM
I've never been afraid of them. They put their pants on one leg at a time just like anyone else
 recreator611
Joined: 1/29/2011
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Posted: 6/25/2011 6:34:57 AM
Goes both ways..and the ones that miss out are the ones who dont try....never know till you approach.....but it is too bad as adults we tend to demean if we THINK we are above someone....see it where i work all the time...
 Natgoat
Joined: 3/24/2011
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Posted: 7/21/2011 9:02:42 AM
I suppose it's the same for Both sexes...attractive guys tend to be 'playa's'...
No telling what abusive traits they let out in the bedroom!!
The 'Conceit-factor' tends to act as a repellant (to Me, anyway)
Yeah...I ~admire~ a beautiful lady...but she gets a 2-point deduction for conceit...
and I probably couldn't Afford her lifestyle, either...
 Pingshooter
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Posted: 7/21/2011 3:19:33 PM

Are women afraid of Attractive guys?


Well..hmm..ahhh..don't know. Not qualified to answer.
 Whole 9 Yards
Joined: 6/6/2006
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Posted: 7/21/2011 5:48:42 PM
I believe some women are.
Those are the ones who are used to being "the hot one" in relationship.
Playas or men with options, can sometimes upset the balance of power. It does not compute.

Others are just shy.
 femaleandflirty
Joined: 7/16/2011
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Posted: 7/21/2011 6:09:50 PM
Everyone's idea of attractive varies but no I am not scared of them, I prefer them.,. As someone once said better to be rejected by a hottie than a bozo.
If they have a superior air or seem unapproachable then I dont bother naturally.
 femaleandflirty
Joined: 7/16/2011
Msg: 323
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Posted: 7/21/2011 6:10:55 PM
Come on, being good looking is never a disadvantage but being too into yourself, is.
One wonders why such a man is on dating sites of course......looking for variety and choice I guess.
 waxinglyrical
Joined: 7/4/2011
Msg: 324
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Posted: 7/21/2011 6:13:00 PM
I'm not intimated by attractive men or women.
 home_osorio
Joined: 2/12/2011
Msg: 325
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Posted: 7/21/2011 7:00:56 PM
ya i am. i got self esteem issues
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