| | Are women afraid of Attractive guys?Page 13 of 14 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14) | | The more responses I read, the more depressed I'm getting. Is it impossible for a good looking guy in the scene anymore? | |
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| Are women afraid of Attractive guys? Posted: 7/20/2009 7:20:41 PM | I'm not.
Once this police officer came to my house to bring me stuff my ex high jacked, and I looked at him and my jaw dropped, he was gorgeous. I never had a man make me stand there with my mouth open like that before. That was something lol
He met my eyes and an it looked like he thought I was more attractive than he thought I'd be too. It was one of those moments that slow down. That split second felt like forever. Anyway, I quickly gained my composure and talked to him like he was any other guy.
I even dropped something on his cruiser and he stepped forward to catch it from falling on the cement. I said "opps, I am dropping things" and I heard him give a gentle laugh. The air was thick with something. I never had a moment like that before in my life. Intimidated? No. Knowing when it is inappropriate to hit on someone? Yeah. | |
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| Are women afraid of Attractive guys? Posted: 7/10/2010 10:47:53 PM | IKR...I feel the same. I'm probably the same size and height as Queen Latifah. I feel because of it I can't get a quality man. I'm almost 40 and feel like it's almost too late for me. Attractive guys never say anything to me so I just assume I look disgusting to them.  | |
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| Are women afraid of Attractive guys? Posted: 7/10/2010 10:48:19 PM | IKR...I feel the same. I'm probably the same size and height as Queen Latifah. I feel because of it I can't get a quality man. I'm almost 40 and feel like it's almost too late for me. Attractive guys never say anything to me so I just assume I look disgusting to them.  | |
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| Are women afraid of Attractive guys? Posted: 7/11/2010 11:09:07 AM | I am so afraid of attractive guys, my poor knees buckled down and my heart beat boom! boom! boom! whenever I see an attractive guy that I am force to lie down any where and any time...
Oooops! I hope there is no nun and priest on this dating forum,because my post is a little bit ex rated...............
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| Are women afraid of Attractive guys? Posted: 7/11/2010 11:57:35 PM | | I am intimidated by hot guys as well. Most are conceited. I had a fwb that was very hot, we were fwb's for a year and a half, but, he was in it for himself.. most of the time. Hot guys are always looking for more hot girls.. | |
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| Are women afraid of Attractive guys? Posted: 7/14/2010 11:56:39 AM | Women are always afraid of my ridiculously good looking good looks. I guess that's why I'm doomed to be alone.
*blue steel*
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| Are women afraid of Attractive guys? Posted: 7/14/2010 12:11:52 PM | there is a full moon out or somthing, attractive guys are whining!!!!! Holy Toledo, OP, get a hold of yourself, your whining that your too good looking to get a good looking date,
Turn your man card in, immeadiately, do not proceed with it,
I'm to good looking that good looking girls dont want me............whaaaaa | |
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| Are women afraid of Attractive guys? Posted: 7/14/2010 12:25:41 PM | I get all nervous and tongue tied when I look at myself in the mirror becuase I'm so good looking. Does that count?
@electra89: You have to be joking! I don't really get nervous around attractive women but you're so good looking, I think I would if I were face to face with you. I find it ironic that you're actually in the top 10 beautiful people of all the profiles I've seen on here yet you could think of yourself that way. I'd be on cloud nine if I had a date with someone as attractive as you. | |
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| Are women afraid of Attractive guys? Posted: 7/14/2010 1:04:43 PM | see, not only am i ginger, but i'm also scottish... at best, i'm middle of the road in the looks department, so on that bombshell women seem to have no problem talking to me ;)
its definately true of the reverse, men do get very nervous around good looking woman. some have the charm and c0ckyness to deal with it. i have no problem chatting to good looking woman, as i know i ain't getting anywhere with them anyway ;)
my only bit of advice to the woman out there, is... take a punt, if you started with nothing and you leave with nothing, you've lost nothing. same goes for guys. so you got shot down? so what? should that hamper you when you see someone you like and the chances are the feelings could be mutual, only you can get in the way of yourself.
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| Are women afraid of Attractive guys? Posted: 6/24/2011 11:57:34 AM | | No, I'm not intimidated by attractive men. I love to flirt, smile and talk to them. Then again, I'm pretty outgoing with everyone, not just attractive men. Ironically I do have a fear of any kind of public speaking, as outgoing as I am. I guess I can talk freely and comfortable with anyone, as long as it's one at a time. If it's a good looking guy, that's even better. However...put me in a public speaking situation or the center of group attention in any situation, and I'm sweating bullets. | |
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| Are women afraid of Attractive guys? Posted: 6/24/2011 1:28:36 PM | | Get married and tote a couple of kids around. It works like a charm. Women everywhere suddenly seem to think you're one of them. | |
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| Are women afraid of Attractive guys? Posted: 6/24/2011 2:36:44 PM | Only the unattractive ones are. The really cute ones aren't scared of me at all. So really I have to work hard in getting the upper hand with them. | |
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| Are women afraid of Attractive guys? Posted: 6/24/2011 2:40:22 PM |
Are women afraid of Attractive guys ?
Just a question:
If those attractive guys are a threat on my Life, yes I will be afraid and run for COVER.
Just an answer............... | |
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| Are women afraid of Attractive guys? Posted: 6/25/2011 6:34:57 AM | Goes both ways..and the ones that miss out are the ones who dont try....never know till you approach.....but it is too bad as adults we tend to demean if we THINK we are above someone....see it where i work all the time... | |
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| Are women afraid of attractive guys? Posted: 7/21/2011 9:02:42 AM | I suppose it's the same for Both sexes...attractive guys tend to be 'playa's'... No telling what abusive traits they let out in the bedroom!! The 'Conceit-factor' tends to act as a repellant (to Me, anyway) Yeah...I ~admire~ a beautiful lady...but she gets a 2-point deduction for conceit... and I probably couldn't Afford her lifestyle, either...
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| Are women afraid of attractive guys? Posted: 7/21/2011 5:48:42 PM | I believe some women are. Those are the ones who are used to being "the hot one" in relationship. Playas or men with options, can sometimes upset the balance of power. It does not compute.
Others are just shy. | |
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| Are women afraid of Attractive guys? Posted: 7/21/2011 6:09:50 PM | Everyone's idea of attractive varies but no I am not scared of them, I prefer them.,. As someone once said better to be rejected by a hottie than a bozo. If they have a superior air or seem unapproachable then I dont bother naturally. | |
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| Are women afraid of Attractive guys? Posted: 7/21/2011 6:10:55 PM | Come on, being good looking is never a disadvantage but being too into yourself, is. One wonders why such a man is on dating sites of course......looking for variety and choice I guess.
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