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Posted: 1/1/2005 7:09:57 PM | Hey, I can still hold my own !!!! | |
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Posted: 1/1/2005 9:19:51 PM | NEO - Um... ahem... um.. err... sheesh Penis Envy? Tomboy? I have trouble atributing either to you... er um... I would volunteer to share.. ;-)
In any case.. I am...er.. Older... I still enjoy it... great good fun, and so nice and sweet when it is right... Not obsessed with it as I once was... how ever... I still like it just as much if you understand that...
~~Dragon Rider~~
I know it is here somewhere...
Guess I will keep lookin' | |
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Posted: 1/5/2005 9:59:42 AM | | Increased age has definitely made me more in-tune with both his wants/desires/needs and my own. I'm more confident, more open and more adventurous than I once was. And I think about it a lot more than I used to.. now whether that's because I'm older or because I'm single..I'm not sure.. | |
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Posted: 1/5/2005 10:07:36 AM | being older has made me better, and more open to learning different things like tantra, male multiple orgasm and other techniques for giving pleasure | |
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Posted: 1/5/2005 8:19:05 PM |
male multiple orgasm [\quote] Hmmm... one of the few real advantanges of dating younger men..  | |
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Posted: 1/30/2005 10:04:10 AM | more interested that you both mutually enjoy it !! | |
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Posted: 1/30/2005 10:11:02 AM | | With age I have lost 96% of my ability to have sex. It is entirely impossible without concerted effort and direct manipulation. Of course this might also be due to my being single. | |
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Posted: 1/31/2005 2:07:24 AM | | Are you kidding?? For me sex is OUT OF THIS WORLD! Its a sensation of biblical proportions. Im amazed at how little I knew about a woman. To quote the book The DaVinci Code, they are the sacred feminine. As one of you posted it here its about making love, not having sex. To me its all about exploring a woma's body and specially her mind to be able to appreciate them and share some explosive sensual quality time in bed. I refuse to believe that a man in his 20s would have the wisdom and depth that you can only acquire with age. I'm 42 yrs old and Im having the VERY BEST time with my sacred feminine :) | |
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Posted: 2/1/2005 12:24:41 PM | Heck Yes it has changed since I hit my 30's
For all the right reasons of course | |
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Posted: 2/2/2005 12:22:40 AM | Shadesofgrey ...it has a LOT to do with you being single... use it or lose it. Being in the +- 45 age group you should not have lost 96% ... finding a suitable, sensitive and caring partner should bring that percentage down a heck of a lot... that's probably the hard part (excuse the pun), but start dating... get out there and start meeting people. By the way, a picture of a dock at the lake doesn't cut it... good pictures of "yours truly" get 10x the response. How about one of YOU sitting or standing on that dock.
Get a general physical and a chat with your doctor about the little blue pill should further help. Don't forget to ask about "le weekend" pill Cialis... almost the same price...lots more milage. That physical should also include losing a few lbs and a check for diabetes... not to mention the psa....
Richard | |
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Posted: 2/2/2005 5:12:16 PM | | I raise my hand for the sex is better after 40 crowd. We've become more comfortable ( maybe excepting is a better choice of words ) with our own bodies and more in tune with our partners. There's more pleasure in giving, than receiving. The physical pleasure you receive is short lived, the mental pleasure in giving is constant. You care enough to find out what pleases your partner and rejoice when you do. I do believe you can have a mind-blowing, monogamous, on-going sexual relationship without the pitfalls of committment, marriage or such. As far as sex drive, mine has steadly increased over the last 10 yrs. I'm 15,400 days old (give or take a few days) so what, age is so much a mental state anyway which, by the way, CAN be controlled by the way we treat our bodies. Even our perception of time can be altered through diet and nutrition. I love you all, good nite. | |
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Posted: 4/7/2005 11:16:01 AM | | Well hadn't had sex in a REALLY long time due to health problems...and as such it was pretty much the last thing on my mind. But since "taking it for a spin" again...I must say that it's better, although it really wasn't too shabby to begin with, as I can vaguely recall....! lolol Despite many trying circumstances, I was lucky in that I almost always had sexual partners that were as concerned with pleasing me as I was with them, and I'm one of those "unusual women" in that I like sex and feel that a lack of interest in the bedroom, (bathroom, car, outside, swing set...ahem!!! Sorry, I digress!) is grounds to end a relationship. It's a given that having a good level of intimacy makes for better sex, but it is possible to have a good time in bed, utilizing ALL learned skills, with someone that you just have good physical chemistry with, too, in my experience. And yes...it DOES seem kinda unfair that men and women "peak" sexually at different ages...cosmic joke? Maybe....lolololol | |
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Posted: 4/7/2005 11:21:00 AM | dee,
Is it the "peak" you want and looking for or all the experience you gain with maturity and knowledge? Being older does not mean being unable or deficient.....at all....it is a matter of attitude, being in shape, good health and genes and a healthy diet...
Those of us that work hard at aging slowly and with some form of grace can still be good in and out of bed in many many ways   | |
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Posted: 4/7/2005 4:46:59 PM | Not knocking older men Deacon....some of them are, as you alluded to...ahem...quite skilled!!! lol  | |
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Posted: 4/9/2005 2:13:49 PM | | Probably more of a freak than ever - - but have certainly learned that truly great sex / love making usually does NOT exist with someone you just met. | |
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Posted: 4/9/2005 3:04:35 PM | | well since hitting 30 my sex drive has gone through the roof....to bad its been 2 years since i had sex...thanks god for toys!lol | |
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Posted: 4/9/2005 7:03:32 PM | Much, much better now that I'm 50!! | |
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Posted: 4/11/2005 4:33:01 PM | | u don't look a day over 30 to me...as far as the post, i think it would be better now, but unfortunately do not have a partner--i wished he'd hurry up and find me alraedy... | |
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Posted: 4/11/2005 9:23:18 PM | | Well I am at the age in my life where sex all depends on the person I can find. I am 37 never married no kids, But do I find someone who is probably younger that wants to have kids or do I look for someone who is probably older and doesn't want kids because they have already been there and done that. Older more mature women are not up for games and know what they want sexually, emotionally and aren't afraid to tell you. As for younger women they may not be in touch with theirselves sexually and might not be quite as mature. Now not all women older or younger are the same. I am just making a point and this is only my opinion. So this my dilemma and I guess it all depends on who I find in this lifelong treasure hunt. | |
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Posted: 4/13/2005 6:44:02 PM | A slightly different perspective, perhaps. Being over 30, I find "getting laid" is no longer #1 through #5 on my top ten objectives when dating. In fact, it's not even #1 in some situations and it's never a consolation prize for a date that otherwise doesn't meet expectations.
Sure, it's still important but it's amazing how other things take precedent and how much better it can be (the sex too) to establish a relationship based on respect before hiding the sausage that first time. | |
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Posted: 4/14/2005 12:55:28 PM | Well it's nice to see that there are some men my age out there who actually put some thought into who they want to sleep with...No offense guys...but I've just run across one too many who seem to be either chasing their own lost youth through every willing and able-bodied 20 year old they trip across or else they're even LESS discriminating about it than that!!!
Nice to hear men talk about sex within a larger context too....Good stuff!!! Dee  | |
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Posted: 4/28/2005 2:07:16 AM | Men and women claims 40-somethings are enjoying the best sex ever . Call it the naughty '40s . Those in their 40s feel confident and creative about sex. Specifically, 42 percent believe they are "wiser" about sex after all these years. Fully 36 percent of men, but just 11 percent of women, said sex in the '40s was "better than ever."
that's why i FAIL to understand all of those frikkin' ri-dick-ulous "erectile dysfunction" commercials for viagra, cialis, etc. with men around my age (50) or younger.
unless you have a SERIOUS PHYSIOLOGICAL problem there is no reason for you to have E.D.
either that or you're a frikkin' closet homo afraid of women after all these years.
if at this age you are not more comfortable and enjoying sex more now than at 20 you deserve to have ol' mr. floppy hangin' in the wind.
you would think that according to these commercials once you hit 40 the incredible mr. limpet effect automatically takes place and the only ones getting laid are college students.
i'd like to smack the p!ss outta the idiots that come up with these commercials. | |
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Posted: 4/28/2005 2:21:10 AM | OHHH defintely I am enjoying myself sexuallly 100% more now than I did in my 20's. You hit it right on the head (oops that could be taken in many ways ) We are comfortable in our Sexual Prowress and know what we want and what our men want!!!! We are not getting Older We are Getting Better!!! I really Love that Old Saying!!!! Although I am with a partner that is 10 years younger. He can keep up with me!!!!
~Kyrie~ | |
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