knome
| Joined: 4/11/2006 Msg: 226 | |
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knome
| Joined: 4/11/2006 Msg: 227 | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/5/2006 5:44:18 PM | God i hope there are!!! The problem is i seem to attract all the freaks hhahaaa, as for cool cars nope doesn't do it for me and wealthy nope that doesn't do it for me either. I went on a couple dates with a rich man and i did not feel comfortable with the money part, we have 2 diffent lifestyles and i happen to like mine just fine. All the good men where are you hiding??? | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/7/2006 4:33:21 PM | Absolutely, but unfortunately, we all have different perspectives on what we are looking for. My idea of a good man is one that thinks about you...the occasional call unexpectedly or shows up to take you to lunch. The one who works very hard and doesn't think twice about spending some of his precious time off pleasing you even in the smallest way like cutting some flowers in the garden and handing them to you. The good man is one who offers to help you with something..be it lifting a heavy object or making breakfast on Sunday morning. The good man is one who tries to please you in bed......always, never putting himself first. The good man is one who compliments you on what you are wearing on the days you feel bloated and unattractive,the one who reaches over and kisses you for absolutley no reason, the one you want to meet at the door and kiss him passionately just because he is in the room. He is the man you feel proud to be around, the one others like to be around, the one you miss. I had a man like this and I am sure there are more of you out there. The ladies are in here with the hope of finding you. If you aren't like this....perhaps you should try and take some tips. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/7/2006 4:51:23 PM | | I think there are good men out there. The question is where is "out there"? I haven't been able to find one. Maybe I am just being to picky, but that's my right. I have found that men my age (60 and above) think that they have to prove something........that they are still virile, all they want to do is talk about sex or they think that they have to have a sweet, young thing hanging on there arm..... this still proves that they've "got it". What is wrong with a lady your own age? We've still got what it takes, there just might be a little more of us and a little more gray in our hair. But guys do you know that the 'oldest violins make the sweetest music". | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/7/2006 5:47:50 PM | | I am a pretty good guy most of the time, but I am not perfect so what is the crime. I try not to judge or worry about material things. But money can help reach some of my dreams. I believe there are very many Good Men out there. You just have to figure out what we are good at, and who is good most of the time. As I have not met one who is good all of the time. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/7/2006 7:20:38 PM | | good guys always finish last.. I'm still in last I'm one of thoses special guys.. but once the women find out what type of person I am, I nice hurmours, nice, affectionate guy, I'd can't hide anymore all the women are after me... hahha j/k | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/8/2006 7:45:31 AM | A good man isn't about material wealth, appearance or even personality. A good man is respectful and loyal. If you are dishonest with the person you are with then you have no respect for her and no huge house or fancy car or diamond ring is going to change that.
The problem is we, as women, feel the need to choose bad boys who are rotten not "bad". I want a good bad boy. One who is respectful and loyal but likes to take a walk on the wild side. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/8/2006 7:48:33 AM | | I do, just haven't found him yet. I thought that someone I met here was a good man however he proved me wrong through still coming onto this site daily after we started dating eachoother exclusively. What is up with that anyways - you meet someone online then in person and decide to be with one another then discover he is still coming here daily? | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/8/2006 8:19:54 AM | OUCH! i am nad doesn,t sound very happy Not all women are so demanding.you just had some bad ones.I am in the same boat...where are all the good men? you need to get your head out of your butt get rid of the negative attitude... it,ll eat you up. Not -All -women are so dependent on a man. God knows...I,ve learned | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/8/2006 10:08:46 AM | "Good" men do exist but you have to ask yourself the question what kinda personality makes a man "Good".A guy that looks after a girls every whim continuosly always trying to keep her happy and satisfied so she doesn't leave him.A guy that pretends to be good to meet women(id say a large majority).iv seen people that act totally nice at first but once you give them what they want they snap.My opinion would be the "Good" guy is the guy willing to sacrafice himself to attend to the needs of his partner,externally monitoring the situation at all times taking into account not only his own personal wants/needs but the needs and wants of his partner.An understanding mind capable of putting himself into his partners shoes and looking at things from her/his perspective.But then when you really put things into perspective you relise that there is no such thing as good and bad or evil for that matter because all of these predetermined concepts are merely a perspective of the observer.so you will never find the Quote on Quote good guy or bad what you will find are people that either take the observations of their surroundings into themselves and respond accordingly to their mate or you will find guys that care for nothing but the satisfaction of there own psychopathic neural peptide needs.
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davdom
| Joined: 4/15/2006 Msg: 248 | |
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davdom
| Joined: 4/15/2006 Msg: 249 | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/8/2006 5:03:34 PM | I believe in there being good men left. And I don't say that because I'm proud, or arrogant. I haven't found someone yet looking for someone like myself. I've grown up with so much empathy, I frequently forget myself. I am helpful to a fault like a boy scout might be, and yet I just turned 35. I believe in saying hello to every person I go by, and say good morning when it is good morning, and good evening when it is good evening, and let women first on the bus, or enter first when I come to a restaurant. Having ample respect for every person on the planet, and where does it get me? I got a great job, and a great home. Here's to hoping one day, some woman will want to follow me home. I'm happy with what I do, having found my dream job, know that I feel comfortable wherever I go. Happiness just happens naturally. Optimistic to a fault, even in the disasterous times that exist. To be good is to believe what you dream can be true is true. To be good, you try to make positive things happen.
Having had good samaritan men rescue me from a car that overheated, and an auto accident, luck is there, but also the good will of others is there.
Just rescued a woman from certain trouble where her friend had to give a presentation the next day by converting a file for her so he could do it on time.
The belief is, if you can do some things to help others, hopefully one day they will help you! | |
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