| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/11/2006 1:01:22 PM | That depends what you mean about a good man.
I have just come out of a relationship in which I put 150% in and she went behind my back.
This only happened becouse I was to trusting and opened my heart up to her.
Big mistake.
I am sad to say that any guy who tries to be true and faithfull and loving is gona get burnt and that will change them.
From my point of view its if there are any good women left, IE a woman who wont treat you like crap and use you becouse you are soft or a nice person. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/11/2006 1:03:20 PM | No I dont think theres anymore left out there...... , well not any that I have recently dated........and if there is any, where are they all hiding?I personally give 100% of my attention and respect to someone I am interested in , if it is also given back in return.... | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/11/2006 1:16:13 PM | 100%...LOL! Sorry, but with todays shedualling, family commitments, and jobsm there is no way to put 100% into any relationship.
But, when there IS time, then many are just too tired or even broke to do much.
So, it is hard to really commit to any relationship in a way that some want.
There are a lot of good people out there, and some scammers, etc. Always is that kind around. trying to find someone who acts and thinks "just like you" is a bad way to even think. The differences are what makes things interesting. Willingness to try, and be somewhat understanding about the needs and wants of the other is paramount in forming a relationship. Those wanting someone to "wait hand and foot on them, devote themselves to their partner" are actually looking for a slave, or someone to foot the bills. These are not the kind of people to get involved with, unless you like being used. A bit of common courtesy is also in order.
You can find what you are looking for....just be careful what you wish for though. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/11/2006 1:31:54 PM | Good is overrated. We evil types are much more fun. Think Clark Kent--good, and very boring. Now, Lex Luthor--he knows how to party.
Come on, take a walk on the darkside.
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/11/2006 1:39:33 PM | i honestly belive that there are good Men in this world in the same proportion as they were ever in our history, most of us (men or women) are generally good people, nothing wrong with us for most part of our personalities in most of the cases. i seriously belive that this world is still running n on coz there are many good people left n making an impression,
though i think there are fewer n fewer women left in here, can't find anyone for myself (just kidding , ofcourse) | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/11/2006 1:53:10 PM | | Exactly! I am a good person but I can promise you I am not boring. And just because I'm not walking around like a "bad boy" or getting into trouble doesn't make me or any other guys boring. I grew up out of that high school mentality long ago. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/11/2006 3:18:16 PM | yes there really is...its just that men don't fully understand what women want they assume women want the players when its not true.. They just want a really fun guy who loves life and is a truley honest and caring man. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/12/2006 6:14:07 AM | | ofcourse if women lost all hope that there were any good men left then where would that leave us as I say without hope u have nothing. Once I said to my nan I would never trust/love again and she said what is the point in living. If u don't open yourself up to being hurt then how can u ever let anyone in to love xjx | |
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| hey hey you two Posted: 6/12/2006 8:18:49 AM | | hey there alywyn and mtv.........there are no winners here in both sexes.....there is good and bad in everything.....i can personally vouch for myself and a whole lot of other women who do not want to be lied to or cheated on.........sorri people{unisex}who get off on that kind of behavior are not healthy specimens themselves............there are lot of us who it isn't even an option.......first signs of deceit and whooooooooooppppppppp out of the game......you just don't play.......but please don't generalize all females as we can not put everyone in our negative experience catagory.......look for the lesson.....and the sincerity | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/12/2006 8:52:08 AM | I am noticing that TRUTH always comes to the surface.So if you are trying to fake it it shall indeed show up.GOODNESS in men is way more attractive than the so called "bad boy" attitude.And I am not the only one who agrees...
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/18/2006 6:41:50 AM | any good men left??? well ya if you can pry the wedding bands off their hands lol I have meet many and such is life , either they are married or turn out to be a great friend , but we need to remember descent or not we all want the same ,Id rather be with a guy who has flaws then sit and wait for mr perfect ,who may never come! | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/18/2006 6:47:11 AM | I would like to believe I found him already and if I didn't,.......
Well, I would like to believe there are.
I know.......
Hopeless romantic, Fool for love. That would be me. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/18/2006 8:35:59 AM | I may not be a good man but I'm an awesome dude. I may not be a bad guy but I'm a petulant male. I am me, good or bad, and you can ef off if you don't like it.
These good men.. trivial.. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/18/2006 8:55:09 AM | Hey, isn't this one of those famous, 'rhetorical' questions? Its kind of like asking...'is there any good drinking water left'? Well, Maybe not in dowtown LA, but on the earth... Lots of it.
there are (fortunately) lots and lots of good Men...(and Women) left. And, whats with this (left)? Do you think they are evaporating, or dying off? ha ha! Or... maybe the Rapture took them all? ha.
I'm an Optomist, and I believe fervently in the inherent goodness of mankind. Man is inherently good. The alternative is just too painful and eroding. I'll pass. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 6/18/2006 9:11:31 AM | no i do not. men cheat lie and steal a womens heart only to shred it to pieces until nothing is left of her existence. i loved a man whole heartedly and faithfully only yo be betrayed by friends, by the net and with strangers. i'm one of the few women that has loved a man whole heartedly and never recieved the same kind of affection back or respect. thus i know deep in my heart they do not exist!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! im not the only one it has happened to a lot of women i know if my friends hadn't stepped out with my man, their man stepped out on them with someone else. | |
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