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Catwm
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Joined: 3/1/2006
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allh2h
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Joined: 3/23/2006
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Catwm
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Joined: 3/1/2006
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allh2h
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 7/6/2006 4:30:25 PM | | blackmanx,,,, you want honesty,,, of course there are,, I have met so many nice guys,, as friends,, it a shame . other women don't see there sweetness in there heart's,, the problem for me, is there way to young most guys I meet or know,,, but I'll find my,, older then dirt nice guy,, one day,, ha,ha,, xxxx | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 7/6/2006 7:18:45 PM | | Well I would like to think there might be a few. I think we are either not looking in the right place or they are right in front of us and we don't see them. Not cowboyup2006. Any questions about him, just ask. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 7/7/2006 12:45:09 AM | Yes, I do. I've met many in real life. In fact, I'm a firm believer that good men, and good women, are actually a very SIZABLE minority, if not in fact in the majority.
We just perceive it differently because the bitter, angry, hateful ones are more vocal and take up so much of our attention. Thus, those who HAVEN'T become harridans or curmudgeons are less visible to the very ones who seek them. It doesn't mean they aren't there. And because so many want someone who is a Barbie or Ken, even if only subconsciously, that makes it even more difficult for those of us who will never appear on the cover of GQ or Cosmo to make connections with someone who may be a great match--if only one or both would let go of some of their preconceived notions of who would be a suitable partner for them and open themselves to the possibilities.
What if that "perfect" person for you has been in front of your face all along, but lived 50 miles further than you were willing to look? Or was 2 inches shorter or taller than your cutoff height? Or 40 pounds heavier or skinnier than anyone you'd dated before? Or was a motorcycle mechanic instead of a bank president?
I'm pretty new here, I haven't really met anyone yet, beyond a couple of preliminary emails. But I have no doubts there are good men on POF. Going through the forum posts I have noticed several men whose posts have been intelligent, civil, thoughtful, incisive, open-minded,humorous....and have noticed many who were vulgar, argumentative, contradictory, bitter hatemongerers. Ditto for women.
And bcdream, you're one of the former. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 7/7/2006 11:34:30 AM | | I live with my boyfriend, who is a GOOD MAN !!! My father and brothers are GOOD MEN too. So were most of my college professors. The only evil man I know of is Delaware's Joe Biden. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 7/7/2006 7:52:00 PM | I believe there is a good man out there somewhere, however I am still waiting. I am waiting to be proven wrong.
Anyone up for the challenge?
also, what is the definition of good? | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 7/7/2006 8:35:29 PM | Absolutely.... I'm a good woman... and I'm here.. so I know there are some good men!!! You just seem to have to wade through alot of the wrong ones first, ahhahaa..... but.. I have HOPE!!!!  | |
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| Do you believe
Posted: 7/7/2006 8:41:17 PM | not as much as i believe in santa. . .
Oh honestly? Right, well honesty different thing.
Absadabalootley Yes. Do I believe we'll meet? Here's hoping . . . | |
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| Do you believe
Posted: 7/7/2006 8:48:58 PM | | the search for good men, especially here online, is akin to the new housing market. Larger homes that fill little lots, with lots of pretty edges, with no yards, no substance, no real intrinsic value other than what the market places on them. Ahhh remember the days of big yards, of hedges, of trees in the yard, of areas that kids could go and play hide'n'seek? That was when a true good man was in demand. Now, non-existent lot, fancy car in the driveway, mortgaged to the hilt.. ahh lifestyle. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 7/7/2006 8:55:35 PM | dae, Yes I believe there are good men out there somewhere. I've said it before and I will say it again. no matter what they look like themselves, most men want slim, beautiful,
nypho and rich or with a good job. You figure, I suppose that could be what no chemistry could mean.  | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 7/8/2006 6:53:42 AM | | Then there are the women who are just normal everyday women looking for the perfect one. Even if you are a nympho, rich and everything else, it is just not good enough. Men are always checking out the other side of the fence. Why is that? | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 7/8/2006 12:54:05 PM | Of course there are "good men" left....... and right for that matter. 
Defining good as to what it means to you, would help.
To one person 'good' might mean 'a good provider'..... and to another, a good joke teller. Someone might consider that being on time is good while another might say good is someone who doesn't drink.
To one person good might be someone who calls at work just to say hi, and to another person that might be too much and they'd think it wasn't good. Or good might be someone who only wants to spend time with you.... while to someone else good might be having lots of friends they spend time with too. One wants a stay at home type while another wants someone who wants to take them out all the time.
So if you really look and define what you mean as 'good' for you, then you may just be able to better find exactly what you're looking for.
And now I'm gonna take my own advice and go update my profile, lol, because I could stand to clarify what I think is good, too. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 7/9/2006 5:56:48 PM | | I am sure there are good men out there! It is just a matter of finding them and getting your priorities straight on what a 'good guy' means to you. Often times we women look for good looking men with good jobs etc., get hurt by them, and continue to look for the same type. I think we need to figure out what exactly is important to us and then start the search. Dating is also a risk, where you may go out with someone you think is a great guy and he ends up really disappointing you, or you are not into someone because you think he is not good enough, but he turns out to be a great match for you. Either way, be positive and things will work out for the best. | |
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