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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/7/2006 10:17:30 AM |
But I heard, If a man' has to say he is a 'Good man' it is likely he is not!!
Laugh it up fuzzball! 
Just an un-noticed good guy is all....The only people that know how great of a guy I am is my family, and friends. So I advertised a little bit, so shoot me!  | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/7/2006 10:23:18 AM | Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
^^^^ABSOLUTLEY !!!  its all in the eyes of the beholder
as sunshine said..most are looking for imperfection...so it becomes superficial..
an as for mike...so true many seem to think just because they have control over their lives once again....they feel the need to control others or to be superior ....that seems to cause a big problem for most. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/7/2006 1:41:21 PM | Yes
I believe there are certainly people who are right for each other, whether someone is 'good' is a little subjective, as I'm sure has already been said.
I do think that the value system in the western world is becoming very self-centered, if another person is seen only as an extension of one's self and when alot of worth is measured on superfical things it is not suprising that poeple end up with the wrong sorts of partners and get hurt. This can then lead to the belief that there are no 'good men', if someone is frustrated in this respect it might be easier to hang onto this notion rather than go and look for differents sort of people.
wise man say 'if find no fish move to new pond' | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/7/2006 1:53:41 PM | Absolutely! Otherwise what the heck would I be doing here??!! The hard part is finding the one that's right for you....(good guy/compatibility/chemistry)...kinda' like a needle in a haystack, but I know they're out there!...and don't mind searching through all that hay!
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/7/2006 5:22:26 PM | | From what I have experienced most woman don't want a good or decent man.They prefer the bad boy,fixer upper,jailbird,substance abuser type because they are more "exciting".After years of being with the bad by type,and usually having a couple of children by them,they tend to look for a "good" man to use as a soft pillow to fall on.The woman that don't fit into this catagory are few and far between. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/7/2006 5:27:57 PM |
From what I have experienced most woman don't want a good or decent man.They prefer the bad boy,fixer upper,jailbird,substance abuser type because they are more "exciting".
Don't forget it is easier for them with these types too. They have no expectations to live up to and can wallow in the sludge right next to the loser. If they are lucky, they can get smacked around a little bit and then start a thread about how many years they have been abused and they don't know what to do and blah blah blah. Just a funny observation. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/8/2006 4:23:04 PM | | it has nothing to do with a good man..or a bad boy.,..why cant people see this. the problem is and its obvisious...most are looking for a superficial partner....someone very different from their other relationships... imperfection. seems most DONT GIVE THE TIME AN DAY OR THEIR EFFORT TO getting to know that ONE person...yes ONE.... and dont tell me any different sorry but i am out there too an i seen it all...pretty pathetic actually. people are rejected because of their hair..eyes..shape....big nose...wear glasses...an etc...ridicoulous if you ask me....i personally feel they should take a long look in the mirror themselves...cause i will tell you....they have nothing to gloat about...to be so dang picky bout someone elses appearance...theyre no brad pit..lol. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/8/2006 4:33:02 PM | | Nope, not really.. 99.99999999% of them only wanna play, they don't want a REAL WOMAN for a REAL RELATIONSHIP.. all they wanna do is ****.. so, in answer to your question: No, I don't believe there are anymore.. after my experiences, I find it VERY,VERY rare if I were to come across a man that is a good,honest, loyal, loving man.. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/8/2006 7:29:10 PM | | The way this dating game has become its hard to say...so many of us men and women have been hurt by someone from the opposite sex that we have fallen from grace and will accept any guy or any woman for the sake of seeking only pleasure and nothing meaningful. I believe that there are some good men out there but at the moment maybe they are all just seeking the opposite of what I am. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/8/2006 7:38:43 PM | | HONESTLY I DON'T BELIEVE THERE ARE ANY LEFT, MEN ARE OUT FOR ONE THING AND ONE THING. I WISH I HAD LISTEEN TO MY MOM WHEN I WAS YOUNGER, I MET ONE GUY OFF HERE WHO I THOUGHT WAS THE ONE, HE TOLD ME ALOT ABOUT HIMSELF ABOUT HIS DAD THAT HAD PASSED WE SPENT NIGHTS TOGETHER HANGING OUT GETTING TO KNOW EACH OTHER BETTER AND THEN HE TURNED AROUND AND STARTED TO IGNOR ME I ASKED HIM WHY AND HE SAID ITS NOT ME IT HIM...THEREFORE IM DONE WITH MEN ALL TOGETHER THAT HURT ALOT BECAUSE I'M A GOOD PERSON AND I KNOW I DONT DESERVE TO BE TREATED LIKE THAT THEREFORE I DONT BELIEV THERE IS SUCH THING AS A GOOD MAN. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/8/2006 7:40:40 PM | why does everyone say its who you attract?...geeeeez...not true..i met all different kind of guys...an they were the same...insecure.
No offence but I think you just answered your own question....Of course it's who you attract....What else would it be? I'm not insecure....Just sick of all the negative bashing on men and women......There ARE good and decent people left....There are just as many loser women as loser men.....Maybe you could send out positive vibes instead of complaining....I mean you won't find something positive using negativity. Seriously!
Tahitiandream---I meant no offence, but like really now!
hazeleyes--You're too young to be so jaded.....A good one will come along....If you switch teams I'm sure you'll have the same complaints about the women you find. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/8/2006 7:51:10 PM | sorry stone....i am not insecure with myself ...i am pretty much confident with who i am an love who i am...problem is ..most men are insecure of who they are...an have no confidence...so that kinda doesnt work for me. i am happy with my life an like it alot...even though i choose to be single. i dont believe i was negative or bashing men or complaining....if you were referring to me. i smile on a daily bases..an positve as well... sometimes with so much negative out there...it tends to be sad at times. i attract all kinds..with my personality as so many have told me...maybe thats the problem to nice an kind. i love everyone for who they are.
stone...i said the guys i met were insecure...i didnt say.. ALL men... | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/8/2006 7:56:27 PM | So calling all men insecure isn't bashing? What is? Again, I mean no offence. Just vexed by the generalizations here. I was referring to all of the people here that say there's no good people/men/women around.......For crying out loud, there better be! Don't mean to come off as anything....Just calling it as I am seeing it! I DO wish you well. Honestly.
I can tell you're alright, kookies.....That one post just suckerpunched me is all....
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/8/2006 8:29:10 PM | Of course there are good men left our there. The problem is as mentioned many times, most of the ones who are good relationship material are the ones who are left behind and feel so unconfident because of many of the women we have tried to be with but been shut down by. Anyone who has heard the term "diamond in the rough" knows what I'm talking about. To me, the things that make a good man and the reasons for them are as follows:
- They'll refuse to pay fully for a date because a date should be a mutual effort with enjoyment for both, not just the ass-kissing guy trying to buy the woman's time.
-They won't call everyday because they know what a cling-on feels like, but will call when they say they will because a good man is reliable.
-They won't cheat. This goes without saying, but from personal experience, women are not necessarily that faithful. Not to say guys in general are any better, but I personally have more respect for a woman who wants to make some sort of commitment to me.
-They'll be adventurous, but also safe. Yeah, knowing when to bend the rules is great and it makes the guy look SOOOOO hot! But knowing when to draw the line will keep a guy respectable, not to mention, out of jail.
-They often haven't got the confident to hit on every woman they see. When a guy can spit out every pick-up line imaginable, it's because he has done it so often. A good guy would try to pick a woman up, they will try to start a conversation and respectfully get to know them.
Obviously I haven't thought of it all, just what's off the top of my head so if anyone has anything to add to this list, please to. And if you're wondering whether I consider myself a good guy, how else would I have been able to list things like this. | |
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Posted: 8/8/2006 8:37:28 PM | | a lot o fwomen are too quick to judge EVEN before they meet someone. I find guys more able to say i ll go for it anyway.i ve met 90% good guy sand the 10% werent all that bad just either egotistical so it d be me him and his ego in the relatioship or there was no communication connection and I CAN talk and listen .I only date gentlemen and they all have been so YOU go GUYS!!! I sem to find them maybe not all for the LONG term but have to kiss many afrgo albeit gentlemen frogs to get to the frog prince:) | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/9/2006 1:17:53 PM | I'm a good guy, but lack the experience to be confident around women, because nobody has given me a chance. Little Lady from Thunder Bay gave me a chance, but it was just a friendly meeting, for a hike on a favorite trail of mine, and dinner. If it wasn't a friendly visit, I would have called that visit, my very first date with a female ever. We discused it before the meeting, that we are just buddies, meeting to have some fun hiking in the woods.
You are probably thinking I am some sort of "freak", but my problems stem from my mother abusing me as a child. So I suffer from a low self esteam and I have no confidence in myself around others. I am confident in fixing things, but socializing is very difficult for me because of the anxiety and depression. I am seeking help from another therapist, and another shrink. Maybe one day I will find a decent doctor and therapist. I'm 38, and I have not yet lost hope. Putting my problems aside, I am a very good guy! | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/9/2006 4:13:28 PM | For the ladies complaining here:
Have you actually "gone out" with some guys or is this a virtual meet on the internet, weeks of chat, and a jerk statement to end it?
Women of past generations didn't have nearly the problems I see here today. What has changed? Think about it.
Have the requirement "grocery lists" gone to the point of complete filtering?
Are you looking for a guy like a person, or are you looking for one like a car?
How many "read/deleteds" have you done this month?
Do you honestly think there is a guy out there to meet what you are looking for, anywhere in the world?
How many "unread/deleteds" have you done? Maybe the person just wanted to say hi.
I don't care about the two mile requirement lists, the physical hang ups you may have, how careful you are in reading their profile, you don't know until, now listen to this, YOU ACTUALLY MEET THEM. A half hour cup of coffee will tell the story. Sitting here whining will not. You are the hunted, yet honestly it never seems good enough.
I have never seen such a bunch of nit picky primadonnas out there in my life as we have developed through media and the internet nowadays. You may have heard "You are a priiiiinceeeeess" one time too many.
YOU are the reason you cannot meet anybody. Simply put, there isn't enough perfect men for you women in this world let alone ONE out there.
You want Good Men, stop axing them at first glance.
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/9/2006 4:20:27 PM | There are good men out there its just that certain women don't look harder to find them or sometimes they do but don't pay attention them....or like they said its either they are taken or are gay.
P.S i see myself as a good guy | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/9/2006 6:43:53 PM | | Most definatly,i have met a few wonderful men ,,just because i wasnt right for them ,or they were not right for me ,doesnt make them bad ,just not ment to be ,,,, so yes ,,, | |
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