| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/9/2004 4:44:49 AM | YES>
I think most men have good in them.....they just don't know how to bring it out till they find the right girl. ......lol...
I think there's good and bad in everybody ...male or female.... well exept ME of course....I'm ALL BAD!! | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/9/2004 9:09:06 AM | I'm starting to wonder...although I do have faith and hope that there is.
I'm starting to think that men are slightly more confused than women, if that is at all possible. LOL.
They say that they would like to be friend and see if that leads anywhere... and if not, great, you've found a good friend...but my experience of late is this: You go out with a guy a few times...You have a lot in common, but maybe the chemistry just isn't there to pursue an actual serious relationship, so you tell them how you feel...Be honest..and then they say, " I have enough friends, I don't need friends." What is that? | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/9/2004 9:41:40 AM | arach: You'd make a good friend. I've heard the same thing from women...
You're educated. You know about the term "opportunity cost"?
As we get on in years, we find that we just DON'T HAVE ENOUGH TIME to do the things we've already got going in our lives... kids, jobs, commute, fix dinner, clean the house, fix the house, tune up the car, go to school, feed the pets, make sure the kids do their homework... Uh BUOY!!!
It's a time thing... I don't think you should take it personally. If one's looking for love, it truly is tough to find time for friendships. I think they're just being honest... | |
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Joined: 7/31/2003
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/9/2004 1:38:20 PM | yes, i believe that there are good men left out there. you have to think positively...if you think negative...you will get negative results.
one thing i've noticed though, when meeting a new guy...you can ask another man that knows him what he thinks of the guy, and whether or not he's "boyfriend material". quite often he'll say "he's a great guy!" the REAL question that i've learned to ask is "would you let him /want him to date your sister?" often times this will give you a whole new answer.
how sad it would be to live your life thinking that there are no good men left!
"Live like you've never been hurt" | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/9/2004 1:38:51 PM | | BS ostriplea, women want money, looks or a big *$&@ usually in that order. No matter how good you treat them they'll usually look elsewhere for whatever you may not be able to give them. Women seek abusive relationships like some men seek sex if you read some of the forums here some are actually honest enough to admit it but then they b*tch that theyre arent any good men left. None of us are perfect, none of us are everything to any person what we are is good honest loving men that women dont give a chance because of looks, body type or lack of money. Women want to be accepted for what they are but arent willing to accept men as they are. Its a double standard that we can't defeat so why try. Women and men have become so shallow that a tadpole couldnt swim in their characters any more. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/9/2004 2:00:41 PM | americanseizure...
thanks for the compliment...
I'm definetly not taking it personally...but I just wonder, what the heck? Don't say something you don't mean... If a guy said to me, Let's date, if it doesn't work, we'll leave it at that...that would be fine...but don't say, I'm looking for friends and if more happens, then that's great, because it leads one to the expectation that friendship could exist. Say what you want, mean what you say. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/9/2004 2:25:43 PM | Arach: I know what you mean... It's a "button pushing" thing where "everything is groovy" until one person doesn't get everything they want...
I've found there's a big diff between women and men concerning friendships though... and how much they mean...From what I've seen with daughters, mother, sisters and brothers.... women seem to value friendship alot more than men.
I think women would make sacrifices for friends in many case where men would not...
Also, my daughter just went through high school. She attended all the proms, balls, dances, etc... and when she went, she'd always have another girl along with her. They went in groups. This was something that was totally unknown when I was going to school, although I admire the new custom. It's terrible for people to have to stay home on these momentous occasions just because they didn't have any romantic thing going at the time. It's great that everyone gets to go...
But I also notice it's the girls who do this.... not the guys. | |
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Joined: 5/15/2004
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/9/2004 3:12:57 PM | I consider myself one of those good guys. The ones that actually respect a woman. One that actually likes to listen to what a woman has to say and what their opinions are. One that isnt looking for a piece of a** but a piece of her heart.
But alas, I have encountered too many women that prefer to be associated with a scum-sucking filthbag pig of a male that abuses and uses and misuses a woman. It is too frustrating to sit there and watch a woman get subjected to such treatment, but when offered a viable solution to that womans problems with the slimball, she chooses the slimball. So go figure?? | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/9/2004 4:46:40 PM | | Thats the problem, they can talk about finding a "good guy" all they want but when it comes down to it they choose the slimiest piece of crap they can find. Women dont want good guys they want the abuse and the humiliation of being cheated on, at least that's what it seems like. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/9/2004 5:52:17 PM | | Not all of us tolerate abuse and/or infidelity. I have heard so many men say they did all this and that for some woman who ran around on them or who treated them badly or who was never happy.......the nice women who have good self esteem and manners and morals are ignored by a lot of men. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/10/2004 12:21:02 AM | | That's a horrible question, of course there are good men. Most of the time in my experience though being a good, honest, nice man makes it easy for a someone to sh*t on you. Good men are the guys that "are too good of a friend" Who else has heard that one? | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/10/2004 3:20:01 AM | ok...i can never seem to give a surface answer. sue me(lol)
I think we're all good and evil-we think it -we feel it- we act it-
the only thing is to focus on trying to be better than evil, and when you have a good fit in a partner, you bring the good out in each other. ok...I'm done | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/10/2004 3:47:01 AM | Yes and they are everywhere , trouble is nobody notices, which is fine because they are the ones that keep us what we are. Free.
They work unselflesssly, dont put on airs, and are the ones you never notice because to the folks living in materialland, they are unnoticeable | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/10/2004 10:28:40 AM |  Yes I believe there are as well good women! There are many good men out there and from what I am seeing, there are many who are spoken for and many who are not. The best of all, there is never a shortage of good men out there, it is a saying when we hear, "All the good men are taken or married!" From my experience from in here and out there, they are every where! Good Luck  everyone! | |
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Joined: 9/21/2004
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/10/2004 10:34:55 AM | | Good men do exist we are just a rare cred thats all not many like us nope lol just kind lol....yeah i think there are good people women and men its just to bad that some people take advantage of the good ones you know? it sucks when people get hurt i wish that on no one whether your a good person or not. I believe in karma and i need all that i can get lol... | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/10/2004 12:31:22 PM | Yep....there are good men left........ Here! Here! Ramcharger! I agree with what you say.
Yes, there are good left. They aren't all married, taken or living halfway around the world. There are enough of both of us in your own town/city.
Be brave people.....keep looking......yeah, you may get hurt/frustrated in the process but the only way to assure yourself of finding great joy is to be willing to risk great pain! | |
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BCGray
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Joined: 12/1/2004
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/11/2004 6:36:06 AM | I would like to think so -the only problem is I think that some of them are so idealistic that they forget what "real" women are like. I think thta they visualize themselves as still being 20 years old, and try to pursue the really young chicks with which they do not have much in common, and we olders girls are left in the cold.
No wonder there is such a large ratio of women to men.
Please guys, there are some wonderful girls out there, look a little closer!
I would just like to meet one regular, ordinary guy, around my area who is loving and has simple tastes.
I know you are out there!
Joanne | |
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