| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/18/2006 3:38:02 PM | Of course there’s also that other pesky question – Do you say you want the good man but find yourself attracted to the bad boy?
Maybe it’s not really a choice between exciting or boring. Some of us guys are both exciting AND good.
Yup, there’s hope.
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RJB888
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/18/2006 8:48:21 PM | Blackmanx,
Yes I have to believe that there are good decent men. I've never been one concerned about how much money they make. I grew up with no money, my dad worked full time and went to collage full time. We were broke. I have to admit I do need the physical attraction. But he can be a lawyer, plumber, garbage man, as long as he treats me with respect and loves me. I'm still looking for that man. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/19/2006 12:06:06 PM | No I don't not here anyway.........all i've meet is jerk's that use u. I meet one guy here kinger111- mike king of saint john he used me for money!!! I loaned him money to pay his rent...first sign I should have ran no money!!! But no I bought his sad sad story and loaned him the money told him i have to have it back. Guess what he's disappeared hehe didn't see that coming now because of him I'm on vac. with no money and have to cancele my trip!!!! So what would u think??// If u know him help me please to get my money back I'm new to this and very very green was hopeing there was still some honest guy's left for a sweet girl who would make a man a king if given the chance so please help!!!!!!!!!  | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/20/2006 10:05:32 PM | paige500, don't give up hope or become bitter. There really are good guys out there. ...such as guys who would give up their homes and to live in their car for a year-and-a-half to pay their child support and take good care for their kids in the custody of their ex-wife. I know another good guy who looks like a bad boy with all his tats and short hair and is sleeping in his car this very night to keep up with his child support. He also changed his job schedule radically to dedicate most of his week to his three kids. He has the appeal of a bad boy, the sensitive of an artist, and the compassion and dedication of a good man. He lives is isolation now (people don't associate with homeless men, no matter how smart and talented they may be or want kind of success they had before loosing their home) when he gets his home again, he will be a success again...and he will be a great catch. Yup good men are out there for sure. We men are not all a bunch of money grubbing, dishonest dead-beats. Some guys really do care.  | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/27/2006 6:40:32 PM | yeah i think their r some good men left as well as women . but when people find them they know they r a good person but they dont want a commitment they want to have them on a string. but people want to play games so then when the good person stands up they think they have attitudes cause they dont want to play their games. any way a person will remember a good person when the good person leaves. u heard of alot of reminescing storiess if i would had met u first r i remember i was dating this girl r boy long ago. they be trying to find them but when they do its to late. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/28/2006 12:46:44 AM | Of course and they‘re all on POF.  Woop woop.
Well I mean.... To say that there isn‘t would be completly pessimistic therefore making it difficult to see the good ones when they are around. But I believe it is equally hard for men to meet nice women. A lot of male friends of mine tell me horrible experiences with women. So whos to say...
I think when we‘re single its easy to say that there are none left but in the grand scheme of things its good to keep your heart open to the possibilities and weed the bad ones out along the way. | |
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Joined: 12/8/2005
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/28/2006 6:23:02 AM | Personally, I have yet to meet a good man...but my inner voice strongly believes they exist.
I just think it's a matter of finding them in right places...so that's MY question..."where do the good men normally hang out?" | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/28/2006 6:36:54 AM | well am a Artist and not off limits just many wemen are afraid to commit to us
Trust me I've been through some stuff
They like the glamour & fame
They forgot about the good man they were after
ACOURSE ME!!!!!! | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/28/2006 6:50:46 AM | Yes there are "good guys" out there it just takes longer to find them, Yes every womans ' definition is different but since i dont have sex my definition is a guy who respects that, some women wouldnt consider that a nice guy but according to my standards yes they do exist and on here!! | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/28/2006 7:54:19 AM | Yes there is! i'm a good guy, honest, caring, interesting and employed, I'm also picy but nowhere close to these women. 1 problem i've found is that these women have put their standards so freakin high unless that they will never find someone. 2nd problem: is the their x or x's who want's to here the bad stuff from the past get over it and don't think that everyone is like thAT and besides i don't want to hear either past is past. 3rd problem: with the internet these women get so much attention that its the old meat market scene it just moved from bars & clubs to the net. 4 th problem: what is thin and average now days?
All i can say these women are trying to live beyond their means and i think very few will ever find someone they stay with for any lenght of time.
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/28/2006 12:27:25 PM | In a word no, because even if you had the instinct to be a good man, the experience of life will beat it out of you in a hurry. Why is this?
1) The feminization of school curricular makes the very qualities that make good men anti-social. Why else do you think 90% of the kids on Ritalin are boys. Boys are naturally restless, inquisitive, rough, single-purposed, and loud - the very qualities that your typical battleaxe schoolmarm hates.
2) Their institutions are under attack so it becomes harder to become a man by learning from other MEN. Examples? The shameless attacks on the Boy Scouts, attacks on men's-only clubs. And number one the welfare state and the collapse of the male dominated family. In the eyes of the law men exist only to pay for children not to be a major force in their lives.
3) The nanny-state. Real men learn from real experiences unfettered by the six thousand little laws and restrictions that make modern life pathetic. Hunting, blowing off firecrackers, cutting down trees, throwing snowballs at cars, using knives in various games, playing dodge-ball (yes incredibly banned in many pussified communities).
4) We the tribe of men are leaderless (who crave hierarchical organizations), rudderless (our role models are disparaged as neanderthals), feckless (our experience with marriage tells us it is a losing proposition).
I don't know what will turn the tables, maybe WWIV. The qualities of real men are not appreciated in this day of hit shows like "Queer Eye". We are to be hairless, hemaphroditic mirror images of the feminine. Gimme a break you (women) wouldn't know what to do with a real man if you had one or more to the point he'd know what you needed but you wouldn't like it. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/28/2006 12:46:37 PM | @misseyes
Yes I do, I have met several of them. Just not one in particular that I want to keep... yet... anything possible! Awsome attitude. Just a matter of time.
@blusky. Not sure the people that read this will get your particular grasp of satire.
OT: Yes. Please stop reading about them in women's self help books and magazines available at the checkout counter. Ask your grandpa about them. Or grandma perhaps. The problem is one of perception, not of fact. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/28/2006 1:23:59 PM | | Mmmmm, yeah, DK you may be right. My comments on this forum are widely ignored, I think it just sails right past. That's OK, satire exposes the inherent contradictions like the "Emperor's New Clothes" exposed his posterior. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 9/14/2006 12:43:43 PM | | GOOD MEN, THERE HAS GOT TO BE GOOD MEN LEFT!!! I BELIEVE THERE IS!!! WELL HELLO GOOD MEN, GOOD WOMAN HERE!!! WHERE THE H..L ARE YOU? WHAT IS TAKING SO LONG!!! STOP GOING FOR THE LOOSERS!! | |
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Msg: 494 | |
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XR7sc
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Joined: 8/20/2006
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Joined: 3/11/2006
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XR7sc
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Joined: 8/20/2006
Msg: 498 | |
| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 9/14/2006 5:39:34 PM | Ahhh...your really looking to paint the town an get me in trouble arent you 
Mail Order!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...can I custom build one just the way I want!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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