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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/24/2006 11:36:19 AM | Here's a novel idea, there are lots of good men out here. And every one of them probally knows 2 more, that he would think good enough to go out with his sister. I think women just dont know where or how to look, or what they are looking at when they see one. You probally wont find many staggering around in a bar. In fact, the beauty of this site, is it give women the opportunity to 'man shop'. prequalify what they consider a good man. Likely, you will find these guys are divorced or seperated, even a good guy can only put up with so much. A few have never married in the first place for whatever reason.
Here is a sure way to spot these guys though. Go to the grocery store. Man has to eat. If he is there, he is quite likely single, to make sure he is single, not only look for a ring, but the best way is to check his cart for bachelor food. IE no bags of potatoes, instant mashed or french fries. Cooked chicken, pizza, steak or hamburger (not usually any kind of roast unless its precooked, and if there is one, it will be 3 lbs or less.)
You will probally find single guys buy frozen veggies, where as the married one buy fresh (why would we care, if wifey is cooking them. lol) and they are better for the kids.. (nice cover up eh guys?)
So this single guy is out shopping. If you are a single girl out shopping, he'll notice. Guys do look at women, I think it is genetic or instincts. You will be looked over starting with whatever the guy finds most attractive, to me, it is eyes, smile, hair, and on downward.
So now that you've caught him checking you out, (and you've already checked him out, but guys rarely notice this, we are rather dense) just smile at him, see if he smiles back.
Now you got him to not only notice you, but now he is thinking about you. So just continue on shopping, turn in an aisle, and when you see him, run him over with your cart.
All you need is an excuse to get him talking to you, and I am pretty sure you can figure out now how to get yourself invited to coffee at least. Personally, I'm kinda shy, so you would need to be pretty obvious, lying works, "Oh I sooo need a coffee, but I don't shop around this part of town much, How can i get to a Timmies?" (Canadian coffee franchaise, and pretty much the standard part of a first date with someone you dont know already, ie.. POF meeting)
Now, if the guy is exceptionally dense *such as myself* and gives you directions, just ask How do i get there from here? eventually, he'll offer to show you and ya got him. Or ask him if he could show you. If a girl asks a single guy to show her where the coffee shop is.. 9/10 times he will not only show you, but offer to buy the coffee as well.
So there is how to find them, how to get them, all you gals need to do is figure out how to keep him.
Now, how accurate is this? Have you guys ever checked out a gal in the grocery store, but felt weird about making contact because you knew she was not there to get 'picked up'
Have you gals ever noticed a guy checking you out in a supermarket? | |
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JustRo
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Joined: 12/4/2005
Msg: 577 | |
| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/24/2006 11:50:47 AM | Well... Of course there are. But please people, Don't try to hook a good man with anything else but your true self. Stop pretending to be something your not. It always shows up eventually.
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/24/2006 12:15:24 PM | Irreally do believe that there are good men out there...I just never seem to find them...I think I need to take the Jack A$$ please apply here flashing sign off my forehead! | |
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siners
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Joined: 12/1/2006
Msg: 579 | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/31/2006 6:54:29 PM | Yes we are here but in the back hiding most of the time!
You ask why Hmmmm how about the first a women want's a nice guy but after awhile see want's her badboy back treating her like *&%&%$ again my quetion is why ask for good if your just going to hurt us in the long run.
And it gose both way lady's Men and women do this and keep playing the damn head games way to much feel what you feel and got for it.
For onece take a chance on someone that could make you happy wit ha kid or kids. You never know till you try. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/31/2006 7:14:37 PM | It's one of two things --- the jerks override the really good men and/or the really good men are all already taken!
Of course, there's also that OTHER little fact --- the really good men are GAY! | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/31/2006 7:22:35 PM | A good man is only as good as he wants to be..................
but the rest of the world will either hate em or love em
but mostly hate em,so they are in hiding................... | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/31/2006 7:29:07 PM | | I'd say the answer to that question comes from your own belief about the subject. If you think there aren't any good men available, then there probably aren't any. If you think there are good men available, then there probably are. It's a classic self-fulfilling prophecy. | |
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Joined: 9/27/2006
Msg: 584 | |
| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/31/2006 8:00:47 PM | I believe there are good men left out there somewhere. Thing is...I think they are all pretty much gun shy, so to speak, from past relationships where the women said or thought they wanted a good guy, and then decided differently later. Its a shame... | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 1/5/2007 11:31:44 PM | DEAR DRAGON
IF YOU KNOW ANY GOOD MEN PLEASE LET ME KNOW ..I THINK I WOULD FLY ACROSS THIS WORLD FOR A GOOD MAN ..
RIGHT HERE IN THE CITY OF TORONTO ..A GOOD MAN WHAT IS THAT SOME THING GOOD TO EAT ..WHAT A JOKE ...............
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 1/6/2007 12:21:06 AM | Yes there are a LOT of good men - just that they're married! I see the men in my family (cousins and uncles) and no wonder I set high standards - they all treat their wives like equals, they all have jobs, they all still send roses just because, most of them have been with one wife for more than 15 years, they are all practicing Christians, and they are all great fathers. They keep hope alive for me. I don't think these great qualities are just confined to my family. And NO, I'm not even thinking about incest for all you gutter minds out there.  | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 1/6/2007 12:48:09 AM | YES! There are some good men left.
One of the posts said they are hiding. From experience I found the good men to be shy types, at first. They are gentle men and they treat women with respect.
Look around they are here at this site. I have spoken with many and dated a few.
That attraction factor is very important whether we want it to be or not. It is our nature for male or femaile.
We attract who we want to attract and at the level of our personal healthiness. Some one said if we are negative we attract negative. This is so true.
If we are unhappy with our dating experiences then we need to look in the mirror first and make some changes within our self.
Just like the little train...when we think we can, we can.
Good men and women are plenty at our fishing hole here, just keep looking..
In the meantime, keep a swimmin little fisheeeesss...
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 1/6/2007 1:21:41 AM | Yes I think there are still some good men left. If I didnt think that I wouldnt be on the search for one of them lol
Men seem to get bad press alot here on POF. And yes, some of the deserve it, but I am pretty sure there are enough women on here that deserve the same bad press. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 1/6/2007 1:59:02 AM | I will stand with my brothers as a good man!
(Cute ladies please note: I'm well aware of the difference between 'good' man and 'nice guy. I'm no doormat.) ...Bring it on !!!  | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 3/1/2007 6:42:52 PM | | Yes, I'm one of them. When I sort through the women on here that have no idea why they are on here and the ones who do this for their social life there are a few gems at the bottom of the fish pond. So, where are all the good women? | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 3/12/2007 2:34:59 PM | I think I am one of the good guys
No one around me can understand why I am still single,
Perhaps it is because I just get on with life, dont grumble dont go looking and for the last few months have lurked more than posted on here. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 3/12/2007 8:46:20 PM | I didn't for a long time...but have begun to believe again. I think we can become pretty gun shy and it takes someone special to give us back some faith in the male species. And, at least for me, it meant getting past the outward trappings that always attracted me to the "not good" men and to value someone for maybe truly being one of the good ones.
It's an eye opener, for sure. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 3/12/2007 9:03:14 PM | YES!!! There are a lot of good men. That doesn't mean that they don't act like jerks sometimes . . . so do we. However, I do find that they are extremely skittish where women are concerned. A woman cannot be too interested, or seemingly not interested enough. She can't like sex more than he does. Heaven forbid she has a mind of her own and doesn't agree with him. The one thing a single man can't stand is a woman who is right . . . especially if she is right most of the time. She cannot know more than he does EVER -- the kiss of death. And one true thing about all guys -- very visual . . . connected directly to their crotches. This is how they usually get in trouble -- the little head rules.
Those are observations, not complaints. Women have just as many quirks (maybe more) | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 3/14/2007 10:05:15 AM | Absolutely.. but, I've been finding lately that (at my/our) age so many men have been hurt (so badly) that they are afraid to show their feelings or are afraid to really let go and get involved...go figure hu?..The jerks you can't get rid of, and the good ones you can't get close to... that's it, I give up! lol
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NadiaS
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Joined: 1/12/2007
Msg: 599 | |
| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 3/14/2007 11:28:14 AM | | Absolutely yes!!! There are lots and lots of good men as there are women. I refuse to become jaded or cynical. We all deal with crap in our lives, sometimes at the hands of lovers, sometimes at the hands of family and friends...that doesn't mean we give up on the human race. I don't anyway. Maybe I am naive but I believe the best about people until proven otherwise. I've been through my share of heartbreak but I am not cynical about that, I've learned valuable lessons from them, accepted mistakes I made, gotten stronger because of them and I am happy with myself. I also think that you have to allow yourself to be receptive and accepting of the good in people....when we are negative inside ourselves, we'll only see the negative in others and question their motives and overanalyze everything in the worst possible light | |
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