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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 3/15/2007 10:00:50 AM | There are millions of good men. The problem is there are only a few men who are Right for you.
I'm sure someone probably has said this in an earlier post, but its something that should be repeated. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 3/15/2007 3:05:59 PM | Yes I believe there is I am DATING one right at the moment, MY BF AL. He is Mr Wonderful. He makes me laugh, makes my day when im down. He is adorable, sweet, affectionate, total sweetheart.
He is one of a kind, i am so lucky that I met him in here. He is a great guy with a great personality. Workaholic (just like me), Values a monogamous relationship, Believes in honest, trust & open communication.
I am so lucky to have met a Good Guy first time in a Very long time..... | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 3/15/2007 4:19:39 PM | Yes, I believe there are many very good men left... Ive met several ... but I'm just not so sure there's one that will be a good match for me.. I'm so damn hard to match it makes me crazy.
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M2k7
| Joined: 1/18/2007 Msg: 609 | |
| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 3/15/2007 4:32:19 PM | | Guy, the question isn't are there any good men left, of course you know there are good men. It's just times have changed. Women would find a man who was a good provider and offered security. Nowadays women have empowered themselves that they don't need to rely on a man to give them happiness. - Good for them. Now, men can be arm candy just like women used to be and they love it. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. This generation just happens to be caught in the middle of transition where we 'don't know how to act.' - Do we have traditional values? Should we be egalitarian? What attracts a potential mate any more? There are more grey areas then there used to be. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 3/15/2007 6:04:03 PM | | Oh hell yes I do... I've known some really good guys that just aren't local enough to consider anything relationship-wise with. I believe they're out there... but finding someone who is both "good" and right for you is easier said than done. I've kissed my share of frogs but I still believe there will be someone out there right for me. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 3/15/2007 6:47:57 PM | | Yes I do.. ... and to be honest...I didn't for a long time... until recently... met a nice gent.. that restored my faith. But in truth... it seems to be harder to find them. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 3/15/2007 6:55:02 PM | Every time I believe I have the 'mind changer'.... yeah. It just affirms for me that I am a bad news magnet.
The current guy who may change my mind for good... I just pray he isn't playing me for a fool. I can't deal with it again. I don't believe he is, but of course I never believed my ex fiance would leave me for my bridesmaid. SO... I remain Fox Mulder: "I want to believe." | |
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| Joined: 1/18/2007 Msg: 614 | |
| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 3/15/2007 10:03:23 PM | | I wanna beieve.. i really do.. but it seems like everytime i start to like a guy or get to know him.. it turns out he has a girlfriend or is married. All of my friends are either married or engaged... and i just don't know where to look? it seems guys only care about sex, drugs, and money... noone in chivalrous anymore.. and noone cares about loyalty and honesty... i just don't know where he is! | |
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zabian
| Joined: 12/20/2006 Msg: 615 | |
| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 3/16/2007 9:45:01 PM | could be, but whatever's left, the world is trying to kill off anyone or anything good, because corruption is what really makes this world go round...it creates situations...and it fools people as well(the 9-11 situation created by B**H blamed on terrorrists trying to give him reasons to create more wars) To make it possible to have even more control on people because they are too busy with the horrors of the event while the people in charge just sneak through and uses the events to gain more control and to set things all over the place, make new rules and stuff. Without events, there'd be no need to change anything, or not drastic changes anyways...
He's fake, he uses people's fears to keep himself in charge, to give him extra permissions to kill or manipulate the system, to re-write the rule books, whatever...
anyone that's been too good in the past has been usually taken out(if they couldn't be controled or manipulated or bought off or whatever you wanna call it), check the history, corruption always finds a way to kill Great souls(in body anyways).
I guess Great souls will always live to accomplish 1 GREAT event before its human body is killed off this planet, which is why Great souls need to plan out carefully for their GREAT event because they only have 1 shot at it. So I figure I'll be one of those, I sit here and observe and wait for the perfect time to really change something for the better.
As a psychic said, I'm a sleeper waiting for my 1 event to create history with. I'm still waiting for it, and keeping an open mind to whatever it may be and whenever it may be, all I know is that when it happens, It wont matter if I get killed off as well as long as I have been successful at making the change.
so really, this life is not all about me, never was, I just do what's needed to survive and keep growing spiritually so that 1 day I'll be strong enough for the beyond to use me for that 1 main event.
I may never be who I want in life, may never find the one to be with, may never reach all my goals, but atleast while I'm still around, I will always be here for other people who needs guidance in their lives or anyone just needing support, a friend, whatever...
I'm just hoping everything I live for and accomplish in this lifetime serves a purpose and really means something to someone, because I'd hate to have done all this for nothing, not that I want anything out of it all, because I like doing things without anything in return, I just hope there really is a point to everything in this lifetime. | |
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Sirris
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 3/16/2007 10:01:38 PM | Well, of course there are plenty of good men left.
But really, women, if you were honest with yourselves, what you really want is a good man with SNAZZY TROUSERS!
Thank you cedar77 for your wisdom and wonderful insight into the female psyche. I'm going out to get my pair now. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 3/17/2007 1:07:31 AM | Some of the best men I have ever seen are married to my friends and neighbors. I don't know if there are any single good men left? I am sure there are I just dont meet them. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 3/17/2007 7:32:59 AM | | there are many good men left..and women..but the good ones are just not as attractive and appealing so no one ever finds out their worth..until its by accident. its not that complicated actually. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 3/17/2007 9:22:45 AM | | After browsing some of the responses - it seems this would be hard to answer until the OP or someone defined 'good'. Reading a number of profiles here, what the ladies are looking for appears to vary widely. How about it, a definition please (and put the physical, as well as the emotional and spiritual portion of the definition in there because 'most' have a criteria in the former). In general, I would have to agree, there are many 'good' men and women on this site - as many as I've found on the religious sites to be honest. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 3/17/2007 2:03:12 PM | | I think the "good" is subjective to the person looking. I've had an idea for years of what would constitute a 'good man' for me. I was quite HAPPY thinking that he didn't exist. I'm less happy now that I know he DOES because I don't think there's a hope in hell of me "getting" him. | |
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