mizbex
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Joined: 12/17/2006
Msg: 626 | |
| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 3/17/2007 2:48:11 PM | | I believe there a lot of good men out there, it is just a matter of finding them. I also learned a long time ago that just because a man isn't a match for you, it doesn't mean that he is not a good man, it just means that he is not the right man for you but he is still a good man. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 3/17/2007 6:13:17 PM | | My male friends make me believe their are some good ones left. They are the reason i want to find my other 1/2. i see them with the woman in thier lives and how well they treat them,how much they love them and care for them and it makes me believe that there just has to be more out there. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 3/17/2007 6:22:12 PM | | Absolutely!! I have met some great guys that I can truly call my friends. So far, other than friendship, I have not met my match but if the guys I've met are any indication, I know it's a matter of time. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 3/19/2007 2:00:25 PM | | I think maybe the problem is most of us are a little older now so most of "the good ones" (boys and girls) have found partners. My experience has been that at least half of the people you meet are basically good - the other half are out to take advantage of them! My faith in people has been somewhat restored by meeting some really nice folks here on POF. There was a newbie guy at an event I went to last week who is one of the nicest humans I've ever had the pleasure of talking to. So they are out there, you just have to find them! | |
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Adria3
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Joined: 3/14/2007
Msg: 632 | |
| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 3/19/2007 2:14:42 PM | | Absolutely there are good men left people... I find this to be such a ridiculus question, it's like asking if the sky is sometimes blue? There's always going to be rotten apples laying on the ground within easy reach, but still there are lucious shiny juicy ones higher up still soaking in the bright sunshine. The ones on the bottom are easy to grab, and go, it's putting the effort into a little work to reach the good ones. Work is not a bad thing IMO, be cautious of things that come to easily. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 3/19/2007 6:50:37 PM | | Yep, there are plenty of good men left. Thing is when one falls on your lap you are too skeptic to realize it and always try to find falt. I speak from experience, and me and my single successful guy friends always laugh and the shallowness of this oxymoron. Case and point, my last interest always told me i was too good to be true, no one ever treated her with soo much care and compassion, blah blah blah yada yada yada....after a while we good men just hop to the next person who has the decency to respect the fact that they deserve the best and not merely look for a reason to find fault when we treat them like an angel. Yep, good men are left...plenty of them with successful independent and level headed minds. You ladies need to reciprocate when we approach you. Not all of us are looking to get laid within the first 5 seconds of conversation! duh! | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 3/19/2007 7:18:05 PM | Men are like parking spots...all the good ones are taken and only the handicapped are left...lol....on a serious note...probably...but I can't seem to find them...I mostly seem to meet dogs and players! | |
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zabian
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Joined: 12/20/2006
Msg: 635 | |
| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 3/19/2007 11:14:42 PM | I thought I could be 1 of them but I guess not....I guess no matter what, people prefer A$*Ho*es better, because a lot of people dont even care to really know a person anymore or take the time needed to build a good relationship or whatever, so that just kills us and then the only way to actually have anything out of life is to join in the crowd and get corrupted too....
I'll kill myself before that happens to me....I'm still putting up a fight even if I'm the only one in my corner.no matter what...corruption can consume someone in no time and sometimes it dont take much to turn a good person evil...
anyways.........this is a messed up post yet again... | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 3/20/2007 12:05:36 AM | Are there any good men left?
Was there a limited number to begin with?
I believe there are good men left. I strive to be one myself. That being said who is a good man is a matter of opinion and there are a lot of opinions out there. So the question becomes what if there are no good men left? What do you do than? | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 3/20/2007 11:08:44 AM | I think, as someone previously mentioned, the definition of 'good' is subjective to the individual creating the definition. As no two definitions of a 'good man' would be exactly alike, I think it's more than safe to assume that there are enough good men out there for all to enjoy... I don't think we have to worry about a shortage anytime soon.
However, I do think it's important for people to really be introspective about their whole search/selection process. Really identify the people you currently attract & what they have in common & then be honest with yourself in identifing the traits/characteristics that your future partner absolutely must possess.
For anyone who may have recently read "The Secret" by Rhonda Byrne; the key element at play in our day-to-day, personal life successes is the Law of Attraction. Ultimately, each of us hold our own key to unlocking the true source which directs our life path. Because of this, if we can be true to ourselves in defining what we really want/need in a partner then we can set the Laws of Attraction into motion & begin to naturally attract someone who is the 'custom' fit... thereby finding the 'good man' that each of us wants & deserves to have in our life. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 3/20/2007 3:34:19 PM | | Well to be honest i dont. All I have had are liars and cheats and now im looking for something i dont believe is out there for me. I wish i could i would love to have the man of my dreams but its too hard to trust again. Its like this if ya dont sleep with men they move on if you do they move on i cant win i feel its all a game so for me no. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 3/20/2007 4:22:13 PM | I like to believe there are some honest to God good men left- but im beginning to think that none of them are on this damn site!!!!!
Someone restore my faith in the male race....pretty please XX | |
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Sabien
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Joined: 1/3/2007
Msg: 642 | |
| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 3/20/2007 6:38:56 PM | | When I first read the question I have answer it from my own personal experiences and my first instinct is to say no. I do not believe that there are some good men left. The question is one that is requiring a personal answer from personal experiences. Now if I sit back and think about the question as a whole I would have to say that its not about whether or not there are any good men left, Its about the way that relationships are today. Everyone seems to take the easy way out and I think that its much easier to blame the guy. So we stuck with an old Phrase from the past of are there any good men left? That phrase was around when my mom was a kid. So whats changed. Whats changed is our was of thinking. Men and woman we both are to blame, The question should be are there any good men and woman left. Relationship and the world has changed so much that no one is looking in the mirror and taking responsibility for themselves and their own actions anymore. Men you sleep with woman and leave, You tell us that your looking for a long term relationship and us as woman believe yous. Here what you dont understand when you tell us that your in it for the long hall and we believe you, your taking our choice away of what our opions are, thats the lie. So if your up front and you just want sex tell us and we as woman can understand it and we can wrap our brains around the idea and keep our emotions out of it if we decide to carry through with the act of just sex, No problem. Ok now woman heres were its our fault we sleep with the men to soon. Thinking that oh we believe them and that they love us and were the only one. Put your heads on and think how many times have we been told the cinderella story and go looking for it. We fall for it every time. Watch for the red flags, the signs that youve been down this road before. And if you decide to sleep with a man remember you made a consious disscion to do so. So take your part of the responsibility if they dont call or want anymore of it with you. You fell for the lines but you still made the descision like an adult to follow through. So I would have to say that both men and woman are at fault, and that the question is irrelavent. There may be no more good guys around anymore but there may also be no more good girls around anymore. So think about that. | |
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lfrl
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Joined: 3/30/2006
Msg: 643 | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 3/21/2007 1:05:08 PM | Yes... well of course I just found one... I never had any doubts about all the amazing men on this site.. Just wasnt so sure there was a match for me..... there was one for me. Yeah
Have fun
 Mimi | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 3/21/2007 5:22:08 PM | | I'm sure there are. Every once in a while I actually come across one. The timing hasn't been right to get into an all out relationship, but that doesn't mean they aren't there. I see some thoughtful guys on here...open minded, honest, protective...it's great...so i guess that's proof there are a few left. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 3/21/2007 5:34:09 PM | | Most women define good men as having a set of qualities, interests and values that they can demonstrate over and over but doesn't cause her to feel any sort of attraction for. And ultimately these women will choose the men who trigger attraction even though they KNOW those men are no good for her. It's all about living in the moment.... for both men and women. I think the biggest question for both genders to answer is can you identify a good person when he/she demonstrates those qualities for you? And furthermore do you appreciate them? | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 3/21/2007 5:38:55 PM | there better be a possibility of that, otherwise I must be an a$$hole without knowing it!
there are 6 billion people in the world, 67% of those people are good, kind peeps, there are good men (&women) around all over, they are just hiding becuase of the a$$holes.
Search us out, we are well worth it... | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 3/21/2007 8:30:16 PM | There are good men out there, it's like anything else, you have to find one that is a good fit for you. Kinda like trying on shoes/clothing, just cuz it looks good on the shelf/hanger doesn't mean it fits right on. When you do find the one that does fit, sparks seem to fly.
So keep your chin up and keep atter eventually you'll find one that fits. :) | |
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