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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/11/2007 9:37:15 AM | | YUUUUUUWHOOOOOOOOO,,,, OVER HERE, GOOD GUY OVER HERE, RIGHT HERE,,, PSSSSTTT , LOOKIE THIS WAY,, TURN YA HEAD AND TAKE A PEEK,,, GOOD'N STANDIN RIGHT HERE...HeY, hey HEY, whats it gonna take? I gotta tap ya on the shoulder, walk up behind ya and scare ya.. GOOD GUY STILL LEFT,, never mind... I'm tired........... | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/11/2007 10:20:56 AM | Good Men...??? Those are Like pink Elephants, if you see one nobody will ever believe you...
I believe there are good men left, I'm not even claiming to be one. According to many women my profession alone makes me a 'not so good man'...lol..Thank God for my Suave looks, whitty repartee, and sarcasm...!!! We are all dogs, and cheating, lying, manipulators..or so I've read...I believe the real question that should be posed, for the women is...Is there a good guy left for you??? Men as well, replace guy with woman/chick/dame/las, whatever, you refer to her as....As for me, there are many great women left..The problem is there is just such little time to get to all of them, before somebody else ruins there trust/optimism, towards the entire male species....
I am willing to bet I offended every woman, nice guy, and person with low self-esteem with this one....Lighten up, its just a joke......
Cheers
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/12/2007 12:28:05 PM | | There's no shortage of nice guys, but the bad ones seem to make a bigger impression on the opposite sex. The nice guys are there just have to get passes all the jerks who crowd out the nice ones cause they want their attention. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/12/2007 8:56:01 PM | What defines a goood man?
Some want a great family man, who loves his kids, but get jealous and resentful over the love of his kids.
Some want a man who is caring and comapsionate, but then consider him wimpy and weak.
Some want the biker tough ass, but when they don't get surprise gifts or flowers he's an ass.
Some want the model, but when he is to self consumed he isn't developed enough to handle her needs! He;s self absorbed!
Some want the man who take her out, pay for everything always, treat her like a queeen and then get miffed when he expects something in return!
The real question is, do WOMEN even know what a good man is??? | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/13/2007 10:41:24 PM | Yes, I do believe there are....I have been talking to a guy I met on p.o.f. and he seems really nice...I actually look forward to talking too him..That hasn't happened in a long time... | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/14/2007 11:55:13 PM |
The real question is, do WOMEN even know what a good man is???
I am not sure that this younger generation does.
In my generation we considered a man a good man if he treated his wife and children as a loving father and husband. Showed respect for his wife, was loving and compassionate. He worked and took care of his family. In return He got respect, was showed appreciation for everything he did. My husband never had to do anything around the house as I was home all day and had plenty of time to do everything. Even after I went to work when my youngest started school. I did all the cleaning on weekends. I came home every night and cooked our dinner.( I wasn't fond of his cooking)One thing I have seen that I think is wrong is that people know that a person has bad habits and ignores them until they get married and then they complain about them. Well, it is too late then.
Yes I think there are good men left. I think the problem is that men and women both expect too much,have no respect for the other person, not enough communication and walk if they don't get their own way. If you date long enough to get to know the person and you two decide to get together, then don't sweat the small things. There is no perfect person. One must accept a person as they are and never try to change them for you can't.
Show appreciation for the other person. Now days people just jump into marriage and say, well if it don't work out I'll get a divorce. This is the wrong thing to do. A marriage has to be worked at every day in order to keep a loving relationship. Never ever go to bed angry, work it out, then sleep. (sermon over) | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 4/15/2007 12:03:02 AM | I hope there are still some good guys left....I'd hate to think I've been wasting my time here fishing for nothing! 
I keep hoping and I believe that someday soon I will find him....Then I can hang up the fishing pole and be able to brag that I found him here like others have!  | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 6/16/2008 2:31:00 PM | This is like asking if there are any good women left...one mans good woman could be another mans nightmare and of course vice versa.
Some older guys will say that young women can't hold a candle to their mothers and some older women will say the same about young guys but as with everything else in life it's all about personal preference.
I consider myself a good man but when and if the day comes I meet a woman who makes me want to be a better man I'll know I've found the right one for me. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 6/16/2008 3:15:42 PM | Ofcourse there is...Otherwise we ladies wouldn't be here searching for that perfect person... THE CONECTION! Life is unpredictable but I strongly believe that things happen for a reason! So live your life to the fullest as if everyday is the last! We all go through the same paths, some are just shorter than others! We learn from our experience and thats the beauty of it all! "IN A WORD, THERE ARE THREE THINGS THAT LAST FOREVER; FAITH, HOPE, AND LOVE; BUT THE GREATEST OF THEM ALL IS LOVE!...  | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 6/16/2008 3:39:39 PM |
There are good men out there, which is why this venue is great, gets us in touch, but a lot of good men are not so quick to enter a relationship anymore unless they are sure, many are divorced and don't want to settle down for a long time, if ever. One thread asks why woman don't go for 'good men', no matter how 'good' someone is man or woman, there has to be attraction, at least that is what so many men keep saying.
dae, I believe you've hit the nail on the head. Same reason we see these posts about beauty and age coming from women. In the end the inicial spark has to come from attraction.
How many ladies have thought and wondered "geez that Brad Pitt sure is a nice guy I bet he gives to cherity and helps his mom." | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 6/16/2008 5:09:10 PM | Yes.
For people my age and divorced so many of us have been run over by trucks. It takes us longer to love and trust. Finding someone compatible is damn hard.
Now, a reality check:
100 years ago the average marriage was 5 - 7 years. In fact, before surgical techniques became available around 1930 many women died during child birth. Therefore, people did not have a chance to prove what ***holes they could be to their spouses . . . someone just up and died. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 6/16/2008 5:34:19 PM | “If you wish to converse with me, define your terms”
Voltaire
Define "Good Men"
If you think a man should be custom made like some manufactured part then no....there aren't any. If you think a man
should embody good manners, respect and other sought after qualities then yes there are plenty of good men looking for
good women.
One of the differences between the genders is the attitude or pushback for complains. Women generally get to complain more
without rebuffing as compared to men who come of sounding wimpy when complaining about the same issue.
6 billion people inhabit this planet. I'm pretty sure there are a plenty of good people that you will never get to know unless you come in contact with them in some way. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 6/16/2008 10:13:33 PM | Yes! I absolutely believe there are good men left! I've met many of them (maybe not *my* man but still a good one).
I will maintain my optimism til the day I die with a smile on my face remembering the good men I've known. And hopefully I will sooner, than later, meet that one man who's hand belongs in mine. And then I'll drag him in to the pool. ;)
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 6/16/2008 10:30:14 PM | | It depends what you mean by a good man. A few months ago I posted a thread asking why women didnt want a nice guy and got totally flamed for it with comment such as 'Well if you are too nice, we will walk all over you' | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 6/16/2008 10:57:48 PM | Trouble with internet dating is:
It has got like shopping, and I think I am guilty of this too. (not exactly the names but you get the idea of designer gear).
Ask a woman does she wants Jimmy Chow shoes and she is going to be in the line at his door, Prada handbag OMG yes please, designer anything for the men too Hugo Boss Black Suit and then men will be there.
Think this internet dating has got the same, it has sorta lost its way a bit, people dont chat, they get messages of what the other person wants, and if one thing dont match, then its block delete - no second chances, everyone seems to be becoming jaded with insults and accusations, there is even a special way to write messages to attract the opposite sex.
Geesh, Like I say I am just a normal person, I dont want Designer Man in my life, will chat to anyone, if they dont turn out to be a date they may just be a mate, but finding most if you not willing to drive to them they dont message again. Shame cos if you got to know them, you never know they could match a mate of yours, or be a good mate for life.
And to all men who tick friendship, why dont you chat along like a friend? | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 6/16/2008 11:04:15 PM | After reading some of these posts: FFS EVERYONE HERE HAS GOT SINGLE ONE WAY OR ANOTHER, some deserved it and some didn't.
SO WHAT!! Get over it and move on. I personally dont care what he did with his ex, and I am not telling him what and how my relationships ended, IT IS HISTORY.
God I am so different now to the man I was with in February this year, if you are not finding Mr Right or Miss Right, then CHANGE YOUR PROFILE AND FIND THE RIGHT PEOPLE TO CHAT TO YOU. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 6/17/2008 5:42:51 PM | Come on...of course there are!
Im a good woman...so there has to be good guys...otherwise Im in trouble!
If people really dont believe there are good ones out there...then why are you looking? | |
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