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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/12/2004 5:52:51 AM | | The truth is every couple I have ever known where the guy treated the woman well, better than she deserved in most cases, ended with the woman cheating and leaving. Yes we've been burned, but the real question should have been are there are good women left? Im sure there is a minute amount of them somewhere but with the moral decay of our society, starting in the 80's, there are very few who haven't used their sex to get what they want from some poor sucker and given little in return. The younger women are worse because they've seen their Mothers do it and that just makes it worse on the poor dumb teen boys coming along. Men treat women badly because thats what they want, period. | |
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MTV101
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Joined: 5/15/2004
Msg: 52 | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/12/2004 6:06:21 PM | Of course there are good men left just like there are good women. I do not care to socialise with women that are so negative about men with out taking responsiblity for the poor behavior of just as many women. We all have learned to play the games that we have been taught by rote and we will only find what we seek as we need it.
Remember people that keep going out with so called jerks need to examine what they themselves are doing to draw so many into their lives. It takes two to make a thing go wrong or right.
I have a suggestion people should write down what kind of partner they are looking for and be specific enough but not too specific. I might see a great red dress in a store room window I can say the spirit of creating that it is my desire to have a dress like the one in the store room window. Your chances of getting that are higher than saying you want the dress that may be meant for someone else. It that dress is meant for you, you will have it if not you will have one like it in perfect ways at the right time. | |
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katlin
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Joined: 9/14/2004
Msg: 55 | |
| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/14/2004 7:44:35 PM | | After having your heart broken you wouldn't think there would be any more good men out there. But recently I have found the love of my life. So, the answer is "YES" there are some good men out there. Just never give up, and always think positive. True love is out there for everyone. You just need to open your mind and follow your heart. | |
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Ray38
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Joined: 7/26/2004
Msg: 56 | |
| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/14/2004 7:57:26 PM | Umm I consider myself an honest good man, who was just too d*mn independant for his own good to get into commiting into a long term relationship, even when I had the chance presented to me at certain points..Now I'm wondering if I missed the boat now, and too set in my ways...lol
I guess an idea of a good man varies from person to person.. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/15/2004 8:20:49 AM |
[b]ostriplea:[/b]
YES and NO!
Here's the truth... You may think you're "A Good Man"... but you're NOT! Truth hurts.
You may say "I just want to be myself" when being taught how to cause a womam to feel
attraction towards you, etc.
But truely you're NOT being yourself when you take a women out to dinner/movie, pay for
her time, etc. You're just trying to minipulating her... and SHE KNOWS IT.
You're NOT going to cause a women to feel attraction for you by doing the same boring
s*** that the last 81 guys tried on her this month.
It's NOT about you're looks or money either. I use to think that money would help me
meet 'the one' a lot faster. But not really... Money only wastes your time having to
figure out who just wants you for your money. Honestly I believe money is a BIG negative
when it comes to finding a woman.
By the way, sorry if this post didn't make sense. If I didn't just wake up I wouldn't
type a message without rereading it a second time to edit when I'm writing about a topic
that frustrates the hell out of me! [guys who think they are being a "good man" / "nice
guy" and wondering why they don't get girls.]
PS: I'm not at all telling anyone to become an abusive controlling jerk, etc. I'm telling
guys to get a life, learn how to become FUN, learn how to become the kind of guy women
naturally feel attracted to while being yourself. You weren't born being able to ride a
bike, you had to learn. Meeting women is a skill that needs to be learned. :o)
Real Talk right there....straght up real....no doubt cuzz.... | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/15/2004 8:38:07 AM | You see I know there are good men left as I am one myself. Thats not meant to come off as a conceited comment or the such but the thing is I've become so choosy that I don't just choose any girl. Woman these days have lost touch with whats important in a relationship and yes men have too so it works both ways.
Myself I'm not perfect and not rich nor do I drive a big fancy car, but what I am is very caring, sensitive and a lovable person if the right girl comes along. I have also become quite picky in my choice of a woman which maybe a downfall to me being single so often.
I generally expect certain things from a woman as I would expect her to from me only because its a two way street. But as someone said earlier woman are more into guys with money and a nice car and the guys who are working their assess off to get by don't even bother get looked at.
So woman if you want to find a good man you need to remember a few things:
1. Smoking isn't cool anymore and a lot of you do it and its a immediate turn off for most guys
2. whether rich or poor give the guy a chance you just never know if he's gonna be the one
3. Love us till no end and we will give it back
4. Never be jealous no matter what its unbecoming and will cause you more problems than you need. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/15/2004 2:36:07 PM | True story. I overheard two old ladies talking about men. One was my neighbor, the other her sister. Mentally insert little old lady voices.
OL#1: All the good ones leave their wives!
OL#2: Good ones? What do you mean?
OL#1: The ones with all the money! | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/15/2004 2:41:24 PM | I think there are tons of good men out there.
I also think women are terrible at chosing men. Ask any divorced woman and she will typically say, I was young, or make some other excuse.
Women go for men that are in relationships. When I'm singe I find it more difficult to get dates. When I'm dating, and don't want someone new I have to beat them off. Who I am doesn't change, except for one thing. When a man is not terrible interested, because he is getting it regularly, that is what women find attractive.
The moral of the story for men. Don't pay too much attention to women, because it drives them away. The more you ignore them, the harder they try.
Remember, women do the chosing. | |
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Tayven
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Joined: 11/11/2004
Msg: 64 | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/15/2004 8:25:32 PM | | I am a man. I am a good person. I am not afraid of women, rejection or failure. In short, yes! And....I know some other guys who are good too because they are the only ones I would choose as friends. I depsise a-holes, both male and female. | |
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sddude
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Joined: 11/4/2004
Msg: 66 | |
| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/15/2004 10:36:50 PM | I used to be one of the perfect ones ,
now I have turned to the darkside and will get darker with time . Guys , the darkside is beckoning , every good man here knows the dark side is beckoning, life is funner and better in the darkside. BBBBuuuuuuaaaaaahahahahahahaha !
Feel the dark force is pulling you . | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/17/2004 8:00:13 AM | Marie Celle,
I am now 49 and I`ve been looking for a good man. I have not found any who is good(apart from the Good Lord Himself) and so I am planning to officially complain to all men that we women think they are too selfish (in general and taking a global view-I know you could maybe quote me a couple of exceptions.)
To this end I have made a CD called "Beat The Millennium Bug", plus I`m writing a few things down. I need lots of women to join me in this wake-up song to chant to selfish men. It is also a dance.
If you would like to join me, then the CD is on sale on ebay. Search for ebay, CDs, holiday CDs, and then Beat the Millennium Bug. It`s highlighted in purple. It explains everything there, but the real Bug is still with us, and it`s the SELFISHNESS of men.
Irene King | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/17/2004 8:06:08 AM | Simply Caroline,
I agree in principal with what you are saying, but having looked for many years I have found that even the "good" men are actually not good when you thoroughly examine their motives - and that applies even if you yourself behave properly and seek only truly good men. I have now despaired.....read on
I am now 49 and I`ve been looking for a good man. I have not found any who is good(apart from the Good Lord Himself) and so I am planning to officially complain to all men that we women think they are too selfish (in general and taking a global view-I know you could maybe quote me a couple of exceptions.)
To this end I have made a CD called "Beat The Millennium Bug", plus I`m writing a few things down. I need lots of women to join me in this wake-up song to chant to selfish men. It is also a dance. Some "good" men may also wish to complain about selfish men.
If you would like to join me, then the CD is on sale on ebay. Search for ebay, CDs, holiday CDs, and then Beat the Millennium Bug. It`s highlighted in purple. It explains everything there, but the real Bug is still with us, and it`s the SELFISHNESS of men.
Irene King | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/17/2004 8:08:04 AM | Katlin,
Even your good man will one day reveal his true selfish character whether you think positive or not!
I am now 49 and I`ve been looking for a good man. I have not found any who is good(apart from the Good Lord Himself) and so I am planning to officially complain to all men that we women think they are too selfish (in general and taking a global view-I know you could maybe quote me a couple of exceptions.)
To this end I have made a CD called "Beat The Millennium Bug", plus I`m writing a few things down. I need lots of women to join me in this wake-up song to chant to selfish men. It is also a dance.
If you would like to join me, then the CD is on sale on ebay. Search for ebay, CDs, holiday CDs, and then Beat the Millennium Bug. It`s highlighted in purple. It explains everything there, but the real Bug is still with us, and it`s the SELFISHNESS of men.
Irene King | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/17/2004 8:15:41 AM | jaytea,
Join the club! Us women should trust one another more, because we are more worth trusting than men are!!!!!!!
I am now 49 and I`ve been looking for a good man. I have not found any who is good(apart from the Good Lord Himself) and so I am planning to officially complain to all men that we women think they are too selfish (in general and taking a global view-I know you could maybe quote me a couple of exceptions.)
To this end I have made a CD called "Beat The Millennium Bug", plus I`m writing a few things down. I need lots of women to join me in this wake-up song to chant to selfish men. It is also a dance.
If you would like to join me, then the CD is on sale on ebay. Search for ebay, CDs, holiday CDs, and then Beat the Millennium Bug. It`s highlighted in purple. It explains everything there, but the real Bug is still with us, and it`s the SELFISHNESS of men.
Irene King | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/17/2004 8:19:17 AM | alwyn,
Women are sometimes called golddiggers - because men have all the money(globally) and the only way to get money is from a man. that is a general fact of life - think about it. But for every 1 goldigger, there are 20 million male sexgiggers!! Trust me, they don`t care about anyone except themselves....
I am now 49 and I`ve been looking for a good man. I have not found any who is good(apart from the Good Lord Himself) and so I am planning to officially complain to all men that we women think they are too selfish (in general and taking a global view-I know you could maybe quote me a couple of exceptions.)
To this end I have made a CD called "Beat The Millennium Bug", plus I`m writing a few things down. I need lots of women to join me in this wake-up song to chant to selfish men. It is also a dance.
If you would like to join me, then the CD is on sale on ebay. Search for ebay, CDs, holiday CDs, and then Beat the Millennium Bug. It`s highlighted in purple. It explains everything there, but the real Bug is still with us, and it`s the SELFISHNESS of men.
Irene King | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/17/2004 8:21:47 AM | TeddybearLOc,
I am now 49 and I`ve been looking for a good man. I have not found any who is good(apart from the Good Lord Himself) and so I am planning to officially complain to all men that we women think they are too selfish (in general and taking a global view-I know you could maybe quote me a couple of exceptions.)
To this end I have made a CD called "Beat The Millennium Bug", plus I`m writing a few things down. I need lots of women to join me in this wake-up song to chant to selfish men. It is also a dance.
If you would like to join me, then the CD is on sale on ebay. Search for ebay, CDs, holiday CDs, and then Beat the Millennium Bug. It`s highlighted in purple. It explains everything there, but the real Bug is still with us, and it`s the SELFISHNESS of men.
Irene King | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/17/2004 8:23:48 AM | Spoiled Princess,
I am now 49 and I`ve been looking for a good man. I have not found any who is good(apart from the Good Lord Himself) and so I am planning to officially complain to all men that we women think they are too selfish (in general and taking a global view-I know you could maybe quote me a couple of exceptions.)
To this end I have made a CD called "Beat The Millennium Bug", plus I`m writing a few things down. I need lots of women to join me in this wake-up song to chant to selfish men. It is also a dance.
If you would like to join me, then the CD is on sale on ebay. Search for ebay, CDs, holiday CDs, and then Beat the Millennium Bug. It`s highlighted in purple. It explains everything there, but the real Bug is still with us, and it`s the SELFISHNESS of men.
Irene King | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 12/17/2004 9:04:17 AM | Ok heres my 2 cents I believe the problem today is society, women have become very independent and espicaly younger girls these days dont want any part of a guy controlling or even commenting on there lifestlye. So you get nice guys who love there girlfirends or wives very much and care about what they do in life. So when things like money or the way the girl presents herself and matters of family come into play the guy caring about the girl offers advice and his take on the situtation well if the girls dosnt agree and the situtaion appears often this can become a real problem. and now the girl wants space.
The other aspect is avalibality guys and girls this is the most important thing good guys make them selves always available to there girls they luv drop anything at any time for them surprise gifts letting the girl always know that she is luved and your not going anyware this gives the girl yes a since she is luv and lucky but at the same time a lack of challenge and my get her to start looking for a challenge somewhere else.
Now why girls luv guys that treat them like SH!t because these guys donts care what there money situation is like these guys dont care how she presents herself, these guys dont care about her family values, sure some of these guys will try and control aspects of her life just so they can keep there will say sexual object in check and around but for the most part dont care for the girl.
Next these guys are never avaiable never go out of there way for the girl and defentalty not drop everything for her when she needs it, hence this is quite a chanllege and keeps the girl coming back for more no matter how bad he is or even if hes cheated.
I just got burnt recently as some of you reading this can tell but I fell in luv with someone I new I shouldnt have and broke all of these very important rules which left her running back to her scumbag Exboyfriend.
I am not bitter however and realy feel sorry for the girl and take this as another lesson in life for it is not the first time Ive been heart broken and sadly maybe not the last but I just keep learning and the girl I marry will prove this whole statement wrong. So know I go back out and mix with the oppisite sex knowing full well they will be attracted to my good looks decent job and cocky attitude and unfortuantly I will become that guy I mentioned in the second paragraph for awhile.
so thats my take on the whole thing and yes there are good guys and bad ones its just 7 out of ten times the bad ones get or keep the girls. To some I made no sense to others they agree,and to some and maybe most I have no idea what Im talking about. To all I say where all in this mess together or else you wouldnt be reading this and Good Luck to All we need it.
Peace
Biz
Ps My spelling and grammer suck I know | |
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