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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 7/17/2008 5:41:57 PM | | It might be hard to believe but yes, we are still out here. And not all of us are the wishy-washy, wimpy type either. Sure, none of us are perfect. And we probably wont be dressed in a suit of armor and riding a white horse. (Sorry, but have you ever tried shopping for a suit of armor? And it get's quite hot in the summer. So the guy would be kicking up some real stink. How romantic is that? lol.) OK. Where was I? Oh yeah. Anyway, we good men have been here the entire time. And not all of us are taken. So, come and get us! | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 7/17/2008 8:47:05 PM | Hey Heart Bandit: in reference to your comment on the suit of armour: check out my pic!!!!....................................................................................... dd101 | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 7/17/2008 9:03:15 PM | There are good guys every where. What the problem is they seem to get looked over. Here is what i think the reason is. The truth of the matter is, (Ladies, I am not trying to be mean here. Just calling it like i see it) Women tend to navigate to the a**hole guy more than they do the good guy. Good guys are boring. The a**hole guy is exciting. Plus it's the thrill of the idea that they can tame the wild jackass. Good guys, Well, They fall under the category of being tame and unexciting, boring. But somewhere along the way some women start to catch on and realize that tame and unexciting is better than all the drama that the a**hole guy puts her through. In other words some women catch on,some never do. But for the ones who do us good guys wind up with a woman that knows the difference from being treated good and being treated like a door mat. In other words, In the end, Us good guys win. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 7/17/2008 9:22:43 PM | Hello All,
OK., here goes! I do believe ther are some good men out there. And, if the guy is a good man he will have self confidence and he has self worth. Then, when he gets out there with the lady's she will recognize him out of all of the other men in the club or where ever you are. He does not have to be handsome but he is funny, friendly, he impresses the ladys due to the emence RESPECT that he shows to all women! He is considerate, thoughtful, he makes us laugh and he is a romantic as well.
He is polished in his profession and he can do almost anything, and he can fix almost anything, he will bring her flowers, he will mow her lawn, clean her pool and ask to help with the cooking and cleaning. All of these aspects of a real FANTASTIC MAN makes him appear VERY SEXY TO US WOMEN...WE fall in LOVE with a man like that for the way he TREATS a woman and how he TREATS CHILDREN AND OLD PEOPLE AND HOW HE TREATS HIS MOM & DAD....And ANIMALS as well!
There you have it. IF you fit the bill write me, would you! I am looking for a great man like this...    | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 7/17/2008 9:38:44 PM | Hello All,
OK., here goes! I do believe there are some good men out there. And, if the guy is a good man he will have self confidence and self worth. Then, when he gets out there with the lady's she will recognize him out of all of the other men in the club or where ever you are. He does not have to be handsome but he is "funny", friendly, he impresses the ladys due to the "RESPECT" that he shows to all women! He is considerate, Kind, thoughtful, he makes us "laugh" and he is a romantic as well.
A smart guy will put at the top of his LIST OF THINGS TO DO! TREAT HER LIKE GOLD AND YOU WILL STEAL HER HEART!!!! He has a wonderful SMILE & CLEAN TEETH!!!! Why a LOT OF GUYS STRIKE OUT IS BAD BREATH AND DIRTH TEETH AND GUMS! TRUST ME ON THAT....If you are loosing out take a good look at how you are GROOMED???? Guys "CLEAN UP YOUR ACT". And, you will be surprised at how many womem will notice you...Do you brush your teeth everyday, shave and use under arm spray??? IF not that start doing it....Wow...Your almost there. Smile....He tells her how pretty she looks, he comments on how clean her house is and how nice she decorates, and her cooking if out of this world. Wow, more Brownie Points here too....Smile...She will let you know when she is interested in getting sexually involved. Don't puss it or blow it on the first phone call. What a TURN OFF THOSE KIND OF GUYS ARE. They will be sitting HOME ALONE FOR A LONG TIME. Think about what you say before you open your mouth. Grow a BRAIN....
He is polished in his profession and he can do almost anything around the house and he can fix things, he will bring her flowers, he will mow her lawn, clean her pool and ask to help with the cooking and cleaning. All of these aspects of a real FANTASTIC MAN makes him appear "VERY SEXY TO US WOMEN"...WE fall in LOVE with a man like that for the way he TREATS a woman and how he TREATS CHILDREN AND OLD PEOPLE AND HOW HE TREATS HIS MOM & DAD....And ANIMALS as well!
There you have it. IF you fit the bill write me, would you! I am looking for a great man like this...  | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 7/18/2008 4:37:23 AM | as grim said, why would a woman want a good guy, when she can have a really hot guy that hurts her, but hey, hes hot, so she doesn't care or a hot guy with money.
Sadly, this world is pretty crap since if you have money you can have pretty much whatever you want. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/25/2008 7:19:30 PM | | what does good mean when our goodness is viewed with skepticism and accusations of 'he must want something'. But nonetheless, we still exist....we shall be discovered after all the bad boys have broken your hearts, you are mentally exhausted from all the heartache and finally see the light. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/25/2008 9:31:41 PM | That really depends on what your definition of a good man is. It's rather subjective. I have talked to many different women, and each of them has something different to say. I think a lot of PEOPLE end up jaded. Find someone that's going to use and/or abuse them. After a bad relationship, it can be difficult to shake what you've experienced. More challenging to really open up to someone. Maybe even waiting for everyone you meet to become that person who hurt you.
By my own personal definition of what makes a good man. Yes, I do believe they exist. I just think the best or worst of who they are is influenced by the person they're with. I'm a firm believer in how much of an impact environment can have on someone. It can wear down even the strongest person eventually. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/25/2008 10:14:34 PM | Ah, the good man question. Well actually to find the complete answer we would have to study historic and economic conditions and influences. As many of you are aware of, ever rising energy costs and the declining value of the U.S. dollar have led to a recession of sorts in the United States, thus shifting production costs and an ever increasing reliance on making goods for lower costs. Unfortunately, these shifts have begun to affect men as well, as they are now being made inferior and for lower cost then they were at once time, also coupled with being inferiorly made by non-union, less-skilled workers in non-American/European countries.
They are not made of high quality materials such as platinum nor brass, as these metals are become highly sought after and conversely, are high theft items. So men are not being built to last for the long haul and are wearing out quicker, therefore they are not as "good" as they once were. The men that were built of the previously-used high quality materials have all been claimed and are taken, with exceptions of ones that have been stored in the government vaults for the sake of preservation of future generations to show them the high quality of life that was once lived before naturals resources and minerals became scarce and insanely valuable.
These men were more rugged and tough and were highly durable, as they withstood high amounts of physical abuse through hard-working labor and were better suited to the emotional rigors strained upon them by social demands, their loved ones, their significant other, and their children. They were far more generous and didn't mind paying for dinner, as well as waiting to have intimate relations with a women. But these "new" men? Pshaw! They are of little quality and have been instilled with the sense that being cheap and stingy is the correct way to be because - and you guessed it - they were built with these very principles in mind! They are also quicker to seek intimate relations because their time on this Earth is much shorter then the "good" men - another drawback of using inferior products! | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/26/2008 2:29:07 AM | | Absolutely - lots of them! They are half the human race for God's sake. They haven't changed that much. Define "good" though. Men and women are very different (thank GOD) but the same in that they're human too. This is a perception issue. Why would a GUY ask this question anyway? Trying to seem sympathetic to the whiney side of the female population? Pullllleease! lol | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/26/2008 2:54:35 AM | of COURSE there are good MEN out there. its all the wading thru the morons that makes it so hard to find one though. but...what do i know.
seriously...yes theres good men and women out there. some have been stung by the bitter ex thing and arent sure how to get past it; some have been treated so emotionally badly that they now shy away from any potential involvement, and some are just plain afraid to get out there to test the waters again for a variety of reasons. guess one just has to keep a positive outlook and wear the hipwaders. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/31/2008 6:46:13 PM | | there are good men..and there are those with potential .....just have yet to find the right woman.....thats right ladies.....we are in charge of all that whether u know it or believe it or not | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/31/2008 6:58:30 PM | Ladies, some of us men feel that there aren't a whole lot of 'good women' left as well.
So - you are not alone in that line of thinking.
We all feel that we are 'good' (worthy). We just have to find one that will feel the same about us when they get to know us - as they say - warts and all. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 8/31/2008 6:58:38 PM | | As the head 'Sweet Potatoe Queen' remarked in her book... "they're making them thangs every day!" And she wasn't talking about the new babies being born. We're too old to wait around for a new one to grow up and be dateable. However, there are lots of great guys (and girls too) who are in relationships that aren't working. Every day couples call it quits and put another great guy or girl back into the dating pool. Giving the rest of us another chance at relationship happiness or hell... depending on what we make of the opportunity. | |
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