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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 9/1/2008 7:33:45 AM | | Yup we are but there comes a time when you are done with BS that some women love to throw at you..SO when you say NO then you are the bad guy. Howsomever the question should be are there any good women left and if so they are married or gay too...and yes just kidding only to a point!!!!!! WAAAAAAAAAY Out dated pictures, kids at home at 25 still playing x box...ah no! And it seems the older they get as Obama says They just dont get it..If you come as package deal then raise your children THEN go look for a man...Thats what we do for the most part..I can only speak for my self that is. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 9/1/2008 7:48:56 AM | Good for what exactly? Relationships? 8 out of 10 divorces are initiated by women in Canada, and yet they have the most to lose, so what does that tell you?
Yes, there are still a few good men around, they're just not that easy to find. 
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 9/1/2008 8:00:47 AM | YESH!!!  These men have been left and are left and still are adorable and in despite all downers around!!! Boys arise! Open off the bacardi, I want to make out of it a party, just makin' the most of life, 'cause it is my life and each one's life!!!
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 9/1/2008 8:41:17 AM | Now I won't even bother to give a direct answer as my bias is, or should be, obvious.
Let's just say that "good men" are a breed that is vanishing, at least from "dating" sites. At least if you are using the same definition of the marked terms that I use. If you want my definition of a "good man," read my profile. It is long and you probably won't get to the end so I will point out one thing. Nowhere do I say that I am perfect, in fact I explicitly state otherwise. Therefore, any perfect women looking for a "perfect match" don't even need to other.
Two other peeves of mine are also addressed. I am a widower who has come to terms with it and if you refuse to believe that, it might have been nice to meet you. The second is that I am not a "men" and I don't think like "men" any more than you, as individuals, think like "women." I am a geek and an independent thinker and NOBODY tells me how to think or feel. If you wish to disagree, fine, we will have some discussion points that don't have to do with the weather.
Am I good or not? If you want to throw away a book after only looking at the cover, a cover that admittedly is tattered in some places that's okay, too, but realize that it says a lot more about you than it says about me. What you do screams so loud I can't hear a thing you are saying. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 9/1/2008 8:50:43 AM | | There are a lot of good men out there and women too. I think sometimes the mistake people make is believing that just because someone wasn't "right" for them, that person is no longer a good person. They are still a good person, the just weren't the "right" person. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 9/1/2008 8:57:14 AM | Good is relative to the individual. What some find good others find not so great/bad.
So yes there are good men and women out there. It's just a case finding the right "good" for you. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 9/1/2008 9:36:05 AM | | I really do believe that or I wouldn't be on here. The problem I have is I don't know what it is they want? I know what they put on their profile and "say that they want" but that is never the truth by the way they act. I am so tired of going out on dates and hear how I am about the only woman they found who is sincere and down to earth and that I look exactly like my picture and we have a really nice time laughing and talking and I never hear from them again. I mean not one of them. Here is one example after a date after we had a very nice lunch and a walk on a picture perfect day he said "I had a very nice time and I will call you to do this again if you really want to but only if you really want to don't just say that. I said I really would like that I enjoyed this. WEll ,do I need to tell you that he never called or e-mailed me again. that was just one of many. It gets so dicouraging that now I am starting to turn down dates and I had a really positive attitude when I started onto this site again and actually looked forward to going out and meeting knew people but now it is getting to be more like a chore and a waste of gas! | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 9/1/2008 10:04:49 AM | | Yes of course there are, just like theres some good women left too...the problem is that 90% of women (and men) ,especially online, only go for looks alone and if you don't match up to what they percieve as being attractive, then no matter how much of a good man (or women) you are, you'll still get ignored.Its only if you are ever lucky enough to get as far as actually meeting someone face to face, can the "goodness" in you come out and become apparent (and hopefully attractive) to the other person.Thats life I'm afraid, sad but true :o( | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 9/12/2008 2:18:31 AM | Well i know thats got to be true i am one of them! I think most of lifes problems and problem people have all got there roots in fear of one form or another-one of the biggest fears is "of lack "in one form or another. you could write many books on the subject-but if i dont change myself and my reactions to these situations and feelings im in a pickle-i know spent a lot of my life in fear,until i looked behind the scene and found it was just a prop like in a play! I know some are gonna say well the hell you talkin about and what has this got to do with question posed? Well if i didnt know the answer to that id be back where i started all them years ago  | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 9/12/2008 10:23:01 AM | | My theory on men: 60% are married, 30% are gay, 8% are jerks, that leaves a mere 2% that could be called "good" men. My female friends define a good man as one who is good to them, kind to others, has good ethics and maybe follows the golden rule. Someone who is willing to get to know the woman they are taking out and who she is--not just what she's like in bed... | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 9/15/2008 6:37:37 AM | Oh definitetely. Good men, good sons, good fathers... Nobody's perfect, but a good man is a man who's not afraid to be himself... and also who asks 'what do I have to give?' and not just 'what can I get?'. I know they're out there. I know because all my life I've had a lot of close male friends - perfectly decent blokes.
Men are just as good as women, just different That's why I love men. The differences. Wouldn't be much fun otherwise. 
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 9/17/2008 12:53:47 PM | | I suppose there are...but they are taken! No seriously, do you believe there are any good women left? As a ground rule I stay away from the guys that have a topless picture...yes really! | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 9/17/2008 1:12:55 PM | | None of us are "good guys" to every woman. Most of us fall into the "good enough" category fairly often though. I find, more often than not, that our good points are underappreciated, and our bad points are over scrutinized. | |
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| Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ?
Posted: 9/17/2008 2:17:40 PM | | I am sure there a bunch of great guys out there but the problem is that everybody wants to get into a relationship in a hurry as long as they have"someone"Then they feel good about themselves.........at least for a day or two until the laundry gets halled in.the thruth comes out of the partner...............financial problems ...unfinished relationships.........domestic abuse..........you name it.therefore you need to really be careful who you are dealing with..............do not rush. | |
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